Author: Nanfeng Editor: Li Jin
Publisher: Marriage and Family Magazine
"When I play with mud, you're like that. I'm half white now, and you're still like that. ”
What can make netizens send out heartfelt and funny testimonials is not someone else, it is Liu Chunyan, the host of the famous children's program "Scarab" on CCTV.
Some time ago, 55-year-old Liu Chunyan posted a video of her 23-year-old daughter's doll dancing on the beach on the Internet, which triggered a warm like.
In the video, she is wearing a green sunscreen suit, full of vitality, and the iconic mushroom head makes people feel intimate.
The smart expression, the lively posture, can't help but make people exclaim, "Children have grown up, how come you are not old." ”
Speaking of Liu Chunyan, it is not simple, she is the first cartoon image host in the history of CCTV.
The "Big Windmill" she presided over and the "scarab beetle" she portrayed were deeply imprinted into the childhood memories of a generation.
In addition to the host, she is also an excellent voice actress, who has dubbed child stars Xiulan Temple, Doraemon, Big Head Son, Little Dragon Man, and even the raiders in the 87 version of "Dream of the Red Chamber" and the mink cicada in the 93rd version of "Romance of the Three Kingdoms".
Of course, Liu Chunyan brought us far more surprises than that.
Among them, the most incredible thing for everyone is that she and CCTV "national face" Wang Ning are two mouths.
They're a big tall, a little bit small; One doesn't smile, one jumps around alive.
From appearance to personality, the contrast between the two people is like the red dust of the years, and the love and romance have been around for 34 years.
In their happier little days, what kind of love truth and marriage wisdom are hidden?
04
"Little bit" met "Chief Wang", and love sprouted
Speaking of Liu Chunyan and Wang Ning's love affair, it has a bit of an idol drama color.
In 1984, on the campus of Beijing Broadcasting College, at the moment of first acquaintance, the small Liu Chunyan gave Wang Ning, who was wearing a Zhongshan suit and carrying a briefcase, a nickname of "Wang Section Chief".
In her opinion, the serious and upright temperament of "Chief Wang" is like a newscaster.
At that time, Wang Ning was indeed a new announcer for Qingdao Television.
Born in a musical family, he originally applied for the Conservatory of Music, but inadvertently stood out from 2,000 candidates and was successfully hired by Qingdao Television.
After working for a year, Wang Ning, who was quite self-motivated, was admitted to the Beijing Broadcasting Institute with a salary and was ready to continue to work in Taiwan after completing his studies.
And Liu Chunyan, equally excellent and sparkling.
Because of her excellent vocal conditions, she was selected for the CCTV performance team at the age of 9, joined the Galaxy Children's Art Troupe, dubbed translations, animations, and appeared in front of the camera from time to time.
And she went to beijing broadcasting college to study, but also was trained by the unit committee.
However, at that time, Liu Chunyan, who had not yet opened her mind emotionally, giggled like a tomboy all day, and did not realize at all, and Wang Ning, who was tall and handsome and elegant in temperament, had already become a school grass.
At that time, many girls had a crush on Wang Ning, including Liu Chunyan's roommate.
The roommate fell in love with tea and dinner, and the warm-hearted Liu Chunyan took the initiative to become a red bride and wanted to connect them.
Unexpectedly, the magic wand of love was quietly waved between Liu Chunyan and Wang Ning.
The two of them came and went, but they slowly fell in love.
Out of caution about her feelings, Liu Chunyan deliberately took Wang Ning to see her trusted friend Dong Hao and listen to his advice.
Dong Hao was also not polite, and when he went up, he asked Wang Ning in a cold sweat, and His face turned red.
Dong Hao was very optimistic about wang Ning, who was sincere and steady, and urged Liu Chunyan: "This person is really good, copy it, hurry up and follow up." ”
In fact, for Wang Ning, who has a calm personality and Taishan collapses in front of him and does not change his color, falling in love with Liu Chunyan is not the craziest and most correct choice he has ever made in his life.
After all, his lover is a cute girl who never plays cards according to common sense and always creates surprises.
02
"The mountains and seas are far away, and I miss you."
The first time Liu Chunyan followed Wang Ning back to Qingdao to meet her parents was when they had just graduated.
In the hot summer, the two sat on the green-skinned train for more than ten hours, and they were very tired. At two or three o'clock in the morning, Liu Chunyan, who was hot and hungry, bought two grilled chickens at Texas Station.
One directly ate with Wang Ning to celebrate graduating from college. The other one she carefully wrapped up, ready to give to her future in-laws as a greeting gift.
The next day, Liu Chunyan happily ate with Wang Ning's family, and the grilled chicken was solemnly served to the table. But unexpectedly, the grilled chicken covered for a night, and a chemical reaction had already occurred.
After the meal, Wang Ning's father vomited up and down, and his sister directly spat white foam, fortunately, Wang Ning's mother was a doctor, and quickly put a hanging bottle on the family.
The first time they met, Liu Chunyan gave the future in-laws a "down mawei".
However, this is just a small episode on their emotional road, and what really lies in front of the two is a big problem of "separating the two places".
After graduation, Wang Ning returned to Qingdao to work, while Liu Chunyan stayed in the CCTV Translation and Production Department.
When you first encounter love, you need to work hard to grasp it, and to maintain its vitality, you need to pay continuously.
The two people who started the long-distance relationship began to build a bridge of feelings with a letter a day.
Even in the arduous process of volunteer teaching, Liu Chunyan did not forget to look for opportunities to go to Qingdao to see Wang Ning.
Once, she took a long-distance bus to the railway station on her holiday, then switched to a short-distance hard-seat car, climbed three or four railway lines, and rushed to Wang Ning's house at more than 11 o'clock in the middle of the night.
Unfortunately, Wang Ning was on duty in the stage that day and was not at home.
At that moment, after not eating all day, Liu Chunyan, who was gray-headed and dirty-faced, cried loudly and grievously.
In those difficult years, not only Liu Chunyan was desperately paying, Wang Ning was also expressing his love for Liu Chunyan in his own way.
Wang Ning's 6-square-meter cottage is plastered with photos of lovers, love letters that never fall for a day, and love songs sung when missing, all of which are the expressions of this man's deep love.
Introverted, he even ignored shyness and silently wrote a thousand-word letter with deep affection, imploring Liu Chunyan's parents to trust their daughter to themselves.
"We are like-minded, have similar interests, and although we have been separated and twisted a few times, our hearts are always as indestructible as a rock!" Our feelings are eternal! ”
No matter how high the mountains and the sea are, they are constantly thinking of each other.
On August 20, 1988, Liu Chunyan's birthday, the two people who received the blessing of their parents were willing to get married without hesitation.
The next year, Wang Ning was finally transferred to Beijing, and the two were happily reunited.
Since then, Wang Ning's career has embarked on the fast track, and only 20 days after joining CCTV's "News Network", he officially appeared on the anchor stage, accompanied by familiar background music, and became the "national face" that influenced generations.
And Liu Chunyan joined the "Big Windmill", wearing a plush hat and two tentacles, flying into the childhood dreams of countless children in the image of a scarab beetle.
03
There is no other half of 100 points, only two people with 50 points
However, although Liu Chunyan's achievements in her career are great, in life, she is still grinning and confused.
At home, she would talk to herself to kittens and puppies, and she would be tired for half an hour; Jump around all day, lie down and sleep for a second, and be carefree all day.
Pregnant, she was unaware, swimming in the water, and doing all kinds of dangerous movements.
When she was 7 months pregnant, her stomach was as big as a basket, and she walked carelessly and almost fell.
After all, it is easy to love and difficult to get along with, so many people wonder, how does Liu Chunyan, who is so confused, coexist harmoniously with the strict and introverted Wang Ning?
In fact, the secret of the two of them loving for many years is only 3 words, "not more true".
When she first got married, Liu Chunyan wanted to fight for a few more years of career, and she was not mentally prepared to be a mother, So Wang Ning respected her opinion and did not let her parents urge.
It was not until 10 years after marriage that Liu Chunyan was ready that the "little scarab" doll was born.
Two people with different personalities live together, and it is inevitable that the pot will touch the edge of the bowl, but the two have never quarreled.
Wang Ning's tolerance and pampering are like a pair of large hands holding Liu Chunyan behind her back and giving her strength.
And Liu Chunyan, too, understands and accommodates her lover.
In life, Wang Ning sometimes acts as a hand-throwing treasurer and goes out with friends for a small drink.
But Liu Chunyan was not angry, because through the bright appearance of the "national face", she could see how the clenched teeth behind his back were trembling in the high-intensity work day after day.
She knew that when her husband went out to drink, he was relaxing the nervous nerves that were tense at work.
In order to help him reduce pressure, the big and small things in life, Liu Chunyan did everything single-handedly.
Including Wang Ning's business trips every time, clothes and shoes razor tie, it is also the same as Liu Chunyan in the suitcase.
Once, Liu Chunyan was not at home on a business trip, and after a long time, Wang Ning felt uncomfortable for a while.
So he wrote a poem about his heart:
"On the first day, the wife was not at home, and her heart blossomed; The next day, the wife is not at home, and the wild horse is out of reins; On the third day, the wife was not at home, and her eyes were blind; On the fourth day, the wife was not at home, just like the child had no mother! ”
Love is not only the oath of the mountain and the sea that is spoken, but also the heart has you, all for you.
In the small things, filled with understanding and care for your partner. No matter the wind and snow, no matter the chai rice oil and salt, they are stationed in the other side's heart field.
04
"It's good to know you" is the sweetest love story in this life
Time flies, and two people with love accompany each other through the ups and downs in happiness.
They took good care of both parents, and at the same time, they also taught their daughter dolls to be sensible and filial.
Grandparents have lamented that their granddaughters are particularly caring, and every time they come to visit them, they will pay the TV fees at home, pay the mobile phone bills well, and especially know how to care for the elderly.
In 2017, the 53-year-old Wang Ning officially left the anchor station that had been fighting for 28 years.
He has some reluctance and nostalgia, and he is even more relieved, and finally has a lot of time to spend with his family.
After making a good meal, he immediately took over Liu Chunyan and took care of his family's food, clothing, and housing.
2018 marks the 30th anniversary of Wang Ning and Liu Chunyan joining hands.
Liu Chunyan jokingly asked Wang Ning, "What gift do you want to give me?" ”
Wang Ning smiled, "What gift do you want?" Am I not your greatest gift? ”
Although they have not given each other valuable gifts over the years, the encounter in this life is the greatest luck in this life.
And a sentence of "it's good to know you" is the best gift they give to each other, the sweetest love words.
In this fast-paced age, it's all too easy for us to be so easily discouraged by the fading passions that don't believe in love.
At the same time, we are often deeply attracted by the beautiful love that stays together until the end of time.
After reading the marriage story of Wang Ning and Liu Chunyan, it seems to understand a sentence,
"The most beautiful thing about love is not to find a perfect lover and live a perfect life. Instead, find a traveling companion who holds hands with you, create your own match, and walk out of a different scenery. ”
In this life, people do not imagine so long, nor do they imagine so difficult to walk.
Harmony is perfect, plain and plain is always true.
May we, like them, love one person and form a family for a lifetime, filled with love and responsibility in tenderness and affection.
In every ordinary and precious day, live the sweet taste of life, know each other and love each other for a lifetime.
Source:
1. Speech and Elocution Magazine: "Scarab" Liu Chunyan: Marriage is as happy as a fairy tale
2. Liu Chunyan: The simple formula of life!
3. People's Daily: Another "national face" left the "News Network"! He stayed with us for 28 years...
4. CCTV Blog: "Scarab Beetle" Liu Chunyan: A Simple Formula for a Happy Life!
5. Lu Yu has about a day trip