Educating children should have been parents working together, one singing red face, one singing white face, the effect is more significant. But in today's family, the long-term absence of fathers has led to the phenomenon of widowhood parenting.
Widowed parenting is not to say that the father is really gone, but it is useless, there is no he is like him, so the mothers gritted their teeth and summed up the word, comparing themselves to a widowed state.
However, what is even more maddening than widowed parenting is "fraudulent parenting", and the father usually does not care about the child, and when he thinks of it once, he points fingers and disrupts the mother's management plan.
In a family in Jiangsu, the mother is training the child, let him quickly wash and sleep, the father on the side of the fluttering a sentence, to be gentle, instantly ignited the mother's anger, the father repaired.
From the picture, you can see that the baby is about one year old, more naughty, and throws toys all over the house. It was late, and the mother wanted to put the baby to sleep early and pack up and go to bed.
But the baby was disobedient and wanted to play for a while, and the mother's patience was exhausted, so she slightly sternly disciplined the child: wash and sleep quickly.
The baby is very smart, and when he hears that his mother is angry, he obediently goes to the bathroom.
During the whole process, Dad didn't say a word, he just lay on the couch and played with his mobile phone, and he didn't want to help take care of the baby when he was disobedient.
And the baby went to the bathroom, the father did not want to help the baby wash, but also lightly counted the mother: be gentle.
Originally, this sentence was nothing, but in this specific environment, it instantly angered my mother.
He worked hard to bring a baby for a day, his father came back from work and didn't do anything, he lay on the sofa to play with his mobile phone after eating, the house was so messy and didn't know how to clean up, no matter what the child was, he didn't think he was gentle, if he helped to manage the child, he didn't have to be so fierce.
The more my mother thought about it, the more angry she became, just a belly fire had no place to sprinkle, she grabbed my father and hammered it up, my father was playing with my mobile phone, I didn't expect that I caused trouble with a word, and I was hammered and cried out.
After my mother repaired my father, my mood was much better, and I didn't have to hold back the fire when I went to work, and my father was full of grievances and didn't dare to say much in the future.
This scene under monitoring was posted to the Internet by the father, who wanted to ask other fathers whether they were also so statusless, which immediately caused the majority of netizens to watch and discuss.
Netizen comments
Some netizens commented that it is better to say directly, I want to be beaten.
Some netizens commented that their husband is like this, not working on the couch to direct their own work, do not beat him to beat whom?
There are also netizens who commented that why go to send heads, play games on the sofa by yourself, and dare to direct how to direct your wife.
The editor has something to say
In the process of raising children, both father and mother must participate, and no one can be absent. Dad worked for a day, and it is understandable to want to relax, but Mom has also worked hard for a day, and Dad should also be considerate of Mom.
The child is naughty time, the mother brought a day, is very tired, no one to help, it is easy to get angry. At this time, Dad should put down his mobile phone and do some housework so that Mom can relax a little.
But this father did not have a little self-consciousness, played the game without even lifting his head, and felt that his mother was not gentle enough, but he was angry with his mother.
If you can, who doesn't want to be a gentle lady, but life has polished itself into such a way that the initiator doesn't know it, and that's why he's beaten.