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Editor 丨 Entertainment Auntie
On Chinese New Year's Eve Night 2004, the famous sketch actors Yang Lei and Guo Donglin were performing the sketch "Good People Don't Discount" on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala.
After the performance, all the staff gathered around to congratulate them on the successful conclusion of the performance.
But Yang Lei was not happy.
She just wanted to hear the opinion of her husband, Dai Zhicheng.
Just at this moment, Dai Zhicheng made a phone call.
Yang Lei was very happy and said to the phone: "Did you just watch my sketch, how did I act?" ”
Who knows, Dai Zhicheng on the other side of the phone just said coldly: "Let's get a divorce." ”
Why did Dai Zhicheng divorce Yang Lei?
Is it a feud, or is he in love with someone else?
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In 1963, Yang Lei was born into an ordinary family in Xi'an, Shaanxi Province.
Although her family is ordinary, Yang Lei's parents love her very much and regard her as a pearl in their palms.
Growing up in such a relaxed family condition, Yang Lei has had her own ideas since she was a child.
Whatever she wanted to do, her parents gave her twelve points of support.
Gradually, Yang Lei fell in love with drama.
Every day when I came home from school, I stood in front of the TV and watched TV while imitating the actions and lines of the actors.
When she graduated from middle school, Yang Lei was successfully admitted to the Gansu Drama Club.
It didn't take long for her to become a pillar.
Later, due to her excellent performance, she was transferred to the Xi'an Drama Club.
In the Xi'an Drama Club, Yang Lei is the youngest in the club, but she is the most promising actor.
Almost every important drama has Yang Lei's figure.
If Yang Lei can continue to cultivate on the drama stage, she will definitely become a generation of masters.
However, after staying on the drama stage for a long time, Yang Lei gradually became bored and liked the sketches again.
She felt that making people laugh on stage was something more challenging and meaningful.
It happened that at that time, Shaanxi held the first comedy sketch contest.
Yang Lei and Guo Da partnered and performed the skit "In Front of the Delivery Room" and won the first prize.
Not only that, this sketch was also favored by the Spring Festival Gala director group and appeared on the Spring Festival Gala in 1987.
Since then, Yang Lei has started her career as a "sketch queen".
It is often said that the love scene is frustrated, and the workplace is proud.
But for Yang Lei, it seems that the reverse is true.
Yang Lei, who has been smooth in her career, did not expect that her emotional life would be so unbearable.
The husband not only abandoned himself, but also turned around and married his aunt, who was still his girlfriend.
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In 1984, Yang Lei went to the Spring Festival Gala for the first time, and it was inevitable that she was a little nervous.
While waiting in the background, she sat nervously, always counting silently, and there were several shows that took her turn.
At this time, someone gently patted her on the shoulder.
Yang Lei looked back and saw that it was the famous cross-talk actor Dai Zhicheng.
Dai Zhicheng smiled and said to her, "Don't be nervous, relax and relax." ”
Dai Zhicheng, born in 1960, although he studied with many cross-talk masters, and was recruited into the Tianjin Quyi Society at a teenage age.
However, I don't know if it is bad luck or my own kung fu is not home, and I have not stirred up any splash after studying for many years.
But all this changed after knowing Yang Lei.
Yang Lei became a hit on the Spring Festival Gala stage and has since become a regular guest of the Spring Festival Gala.
But she always remembered Dai Zhicheng's encouragement to her, so after stepping down, she also found Dai Zhicheng and thanked him in person.
As soon as they came and went, the two became acquainted and gradually became talkative.
When the colleagues around them saw them approaching, they joked: "Anyway, one of you is not married, one is not married, simply get it together." ”
Yang Lei had a straightforward personality and said directly: "It is impossible, it is absolutely impossible for us." ”
The colleague asked, "Why?" ”
Yang Lei replied, "I'm looking for someone taller than me, about ten years older than me." ”
The colleague listened to it and said rather regrettably: "Then aren't you two out of drama?" ”
Yang Lei did not hear the voice of her colleagues, and said bluntly: "Whatever, we can be friends." ”
Dai Zhicheng was next to him and did not speak.
After a few days, Dai Zhicheng found Yang Lei and asked her: "You are looking for a ten-year-old, but now there is a three-year-old, is it okay?" ”
Yang Lei did not react for a moment and asked, "Who are you talking about?" ”
Dai Zhicheng saw that knocking on the side of the side did not work for Yang Lei, so he had to directly indicate his intentions: "I, I am talking about me, do you want to consider it." ”
Yang Lei said, "I'll think about it." ”
The next day, Yang Lei found Dai Zhicheng and said to him seriously: "I seriously considered one night, you are a good man, let's try it." ”
Dai Zhicheng excitedly picked up Yang Lei and turned around in the same place, and swore to Yang Lei: "You can rest assured, I will definitely be good to you." ”
When the two were first together, Dai Zhicheng was indeed very good to Yang Lei.
The two went out shopping together, Yang Lei was tired of walking in high heels, Dai Zhicheng changed his flat shoes for Yang Lei, and he wore her high heels home.
There are too many such small things, and Yang Lei said happily to her friends: "I think I am the happiest woman in the world." ”
It didn't take long for the two to get married.
After getting married, in order to take care of her small family, Yang Lei reduced her workload.
In addition to occasionally participating in the Spring Festival Gala, most of the time is at home for Dai Zhicheng to take care of family chores.
Yang Lei fully supports Dai Zhicheng's cause.
However, after the two got married, Dai Zhicheng's career still did not have much progress.
Yang Lei used her personal connections to help Dai Zhicheng matchmaking and visited many famous cross-talk teachers.
Among them, the most important is Jiang Kun.
I don't know if Jiang Kun is looking at Yang Lei's face or really admiring Dai Zhicheng.
In short, since then, Jiang Kun has often taken Dai Zhicheng to participate in various programs, of course, the Spring Festival Gala must not be left behind.
In the past, Dai Zhicheng sat at home and watched his wife perform on stage.
Now, it has become Yang Lei sitting at home watching her husband perform.
Dai Zhicheng admired Jiang Kun to the extreme.
On any occasion, do not forget to praise Jiang Kun, and praise Jiang Kun to the heavens and the earth.
Dai Zhicheng once said in front of the media: "Jiang Kun is not a man, he is a god!" ”
At that time, Jiang Kun's status in the cross-talk industry was indeed very high.
Therefore, Dai Zhicheng said this, the audience just felt that he was a bit exaggerated and did not think much about it.
Since partnering with Jiang Kun, Dai Zhicheng's career has slowly improved, and his fame has gradually increased.
And Yang Lei, who sacrificed her career for her family, is not as famous as before.
Perhaps, from the moment their status was reversed, their marriage was already doomed to tragedy.
When Yang Lei and Dai Zhicheng were at ease living their lives, another cross-talk actor, Hou Yaowen, also came together with his little wife, who was twenty years younger.
In the process of filming the film, Hou Yaowen met the young actress Yuan Yin.
At that time, Hou Yaowen had just divorced his ex-wife and was in a state of emotional emptiness.
Yuan Yin played a model who fell in love with Hou Yaowen in the movie, but she did not expect that the two fake dramas were really done, and the feelings extended from the play to the outside of the play.
The two men who were drying firewood soon came together.
Although Yuan Yin was more than twenty years younger than Hou Yaowen, she still married him without hesitation.
After marriage, Yuan Yin also gave birth to a daughter for Hou Yaowen.
Since having a daughter, Yuan Yin has stopped filming and is at ease to be a little wife at home.
But Hou Yaowen is usually busy performing and rarely takes care of his family.
So he asked Dai Zhicheng to help him take more care of his wife and daughter.
Because Hou Yaowen felt that his wife Yuan Yin and Dai Zhicheng's wife Yang Lei had a very good relationship, please give Dai Zhicheng the safest.
Dai Zhicheng agreed with a full mouth and said, "Uncle Master, you can rest assured, I will certainly live up to your expectations." ”
To put it more, the cross-talk community has always paid attention to ranking seniors according to seniority.
To really line up, Dai Zhicheng had to call Master Hou Yaowen, that is, Yuan Yin was his "master aunt".
At first, Yang Lei also felt nothing.
After all, it is to help girlfriends, there is nothing to avoid.
Therefore, as long as Yuan Yin and the child are in need, Yang Lei will do her best to help.
However, like some work such as changing light bulbs and dredging sewers, Yang Lei is also helpless.
I had to let my husband Dai Zhicheng complete the task.
After coming and going, Yuan Yin admired Dai Zhicheng to the extreme, thinking that he was omnipotent.
Dai Zhicheng also enjoyed Yuan Yin's admiration and really felt that he could do anything.
After a long time, Yang Lei slowly felt that something was wrong.
When her husband Dai Zhicheng is fine, he always likes to run to Yuan Yin, and he is more concerned about Yuan Yin's mother and daughter than his girlfriend.
It is often said that loving someone cannot be hidden, and even if you don't say it, it will run out of your eyes.
In turn, not loving is also, even if you don't say it, it will be reflected in all aspects.
Dai Zhicheng, whose mind had already drifted elsewhere, became more and more impatient with Yang Lei.
No matter what Yang Lei said or did, he felt dissatisfied.
At home, it is either to smash chopsticks and bowls, or to be treated with cold violence.
In Yang Lei's words, it is: this person has become unknown to her.
Dai Zhicheng was getting worse and worse for Yang Lei, and Yang Lei finally couldn't stand it.
One day, the two broke out into a fierce quarrel, and Yang Lei asked, "Are there any people outside?" ”
Being poked by Yang Lei, Dai Zhicheng not only did not realize his mistake, but became angry and scolded: "What will you do all day long except for blind thoughts?" Can you be gentle and virtuous? ”
After saying that, he slammed the door and left.
Yang Lei was stunned alone.
When they are in love, their directness is informal in his eyes, and he does not love, and his directness is unreasonable in his eyes.
Yang Lei waited at home for a long time, and did not wait for her husband Dai Zhicheng to come home.
She began to think wildly, and even reflected on whether she was really not virtuous enough, so she would cause her husband to be dissatisfied.
Just as she was thinking wildly, the Spring Festival Gala director team called her and invited her to the 2004 Spring Festival Gala.
Yang Lei had to put aside the family contradictions first and prepare for the Spring Festival Gala with all her might.
Chinese New Year's Eve night, after her performance, the audience was still immersed in laughter and laughter.
Yang Lei in the background received a call from her husband Dai Zhicheng asking for a divorce.
Yang Lei panicked.
Although she and her husband are still in the Cold War, she does not want to divorce.
Yang Lei immediately turned the phone back, but the phone kept showing that it was busy.
Yang Lei had to find Li Jindou, a mutual friend of the two, and ask him to persuade her husband to go home.
Unexpectedly, after Talking to Dai Zhicheng, Li Jindou in turn advised Yang Lei: "Sister, listen to my brother's advice, you might as well divorce it, his heart is no longer here with you." ”
Yang Lei heard Li Jindou say this, completely broke off her mind to reconcile with Dai Zhicheng, and agreed to divorce.
The two were married for 7 years, and it took only 22 days to go through the divorce procedures.
From beginning to end, Yang Lei did not shed a single tear.
She has always been a proud woman.
However, what happened next made Yang Lei collapse.
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After the divorce, the two separated the family property, and Dai Zhicheng moved everything in the family.
When he moved things, Yang Lei was watching from the side.
Even a mop, Dai Zhicheng had to take away.
If Yang Lei was still looking forward to the reconciliation of the two before, at this moment, she was completely heartbroken.
But this is only a small thing, and the real surprise is still to come.
Shortly after the divorce, someone told Yang Lei that her ex-husband Dai Zhicheng and her good girlfriend Yuan Yin were getting married.
Yang Lei didn't believe it at all, and retorted: "I believe in who he marries, but Yuan Yin can't do it, and they are different generations." ”
But the reality is that this most unlikely thing really happened.
It turned out that Dai Zhicheng had secretly gotten along with his "master aunt" Yuan Yin before divorcing Yang Lei.
After Dai Zhicheng's divorce, Yuan Yin also divorced Hou Yaowen immediately.
After that, Yuan Yin took her daughter to marry Dai Zhicheng.
The marriage between the two caused strong dissatisfaction because of their generational chaos.
Guo Degang later made up a cross-talk based on this incident.
But the two probably felt that they were "true love" and came together without hesitation.
Yang Lei, who had suffered a double betrayal, could not accept it and suddenly fell ill.
At the time of the divorce, she had insomnia all night and needed to take sleeping pills to fall asleep.
Wash your face with tears all day, I don't know why God treats himself like this.
At that time, Yang Lei's mother was about to undergo surgery, and Yang Lei was afraid of stimulating her and did not dare to tell her mother about her divorce.
As a result, after her mother's operation, Yang Lei took care of her in the hospital, and the old man asked: "Why didn't Dai Zhicheng come, is he not usually attentive?" ”
Yang Lei couldn't hold back any longer, and threw herself into her mother's arms and cried, telling her mother that she was divorced.
Later, under the persuasion of friends, Yang Lei slowly walked out.
When her mood was almost adjusted, she resumed her performance in the sketch.
And her ex-husband Dai Zhicheng, after marrying Yuan Yin, although he was ridiculed by many people, he was very good to Yuan Yin and her daughter.
In this way, it is not a disgrace.
Later, Yang Lei was backstage at the Spring Festival Gala, and was talking to Guo Da.
Ex-husband Dai Zhicheng also happened to participate in the Spring Festival Gala that year.
Seeing that Yang Lei was speaking to her lines, she walked straight towards her.
Yang Lei's friends around her were particularly angry, thinking that they were all divorced and came to disturb what people were doing.
At the same time, he was afraid that Dai Zhicheng's coming would stimulate Yang Lei.
My friends were too frightened to speak.
But Yang Lei was very calm, Dai Zhicheng walked to her side, held out his hand, and wanted to shake hands with her.
Yang Lei didn't say anything, and also held out her hand and shook his hand.
The friends around them were stunned, and Yang Lei acted as if nothing had happened, and then spoke to her partners.
For Dai Zhicheng, shaking hands with the other party is to win forgiveness.
But for Yang Lei, shaking hands is not saying, "I still love you", but saying, "I want to let myself go".
After all, I'm also going to start a new life.