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Editor / Little Love Letter
"Flowers are full of flowers, and the red incense is broken, and who has pity."
A song "Funeral Flower Song" makes many people mourn, and only the 87th version of "Red Chamber" is the most impressive over the years.
In it, we not only see the rise and fall of an era, but also see the death of many women, in addition to the well-known Daiyu, there is also Liu Wu'er, who has little drama.
The actor who plays Liu Wu'er is named Niu Xiaoqing, who is a thousand gold in the Kunqu family, and under the influence of family culture, she carries a classical temperament that few people can have, and looks pure and sweet.
At that time, she was only fifteen or sixteen years old, but as soon as she appeared, she was enough to amaze everyone.
But since then, she has been like a recluse, hardly appearing in public, so she has gradually been forgotten.
Later, when she was remembered again, she had become the wife of the old drama bone Xing Minshan, Niu Xiaoqing.
After so many years, how is she doing now?
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"We've known each other for thirty-three years, and I don't know of any other topics we haven't talked about.
For so many years we have lived together, grown together, been each other's mirrors, and been each other's teachers.
We are playmates, lovers, brothers and sisters, two fish that have forgotten each other. ”
This is a letter written by Niu Xiaoqing to Xing Minshan in a variety show.
From this letter, we can feel Niu Xiaoqing's strong love for Xing Minshan, and their love story is indeed enviable.
They are green plum bamboo horses, accompanied by two small unsuspecting years.
When Niu Xiaoqing was very young, her mother Shen Shihua was already a famous Kunqu opera actor, and there were many people who wanted to worship him, and Xing Minshan was one of them.
Niu Xiaoqing's parents
After layers of selection, xing minshan, who was extremely talented and handsome in appearance, finally became Shen Shihua's apprentice as he wished, and seven-year-old Niu Xiaoqing and thirteen-year-old Xing Minshan finally met.
Mr. Jin Yong once wrote for Guo Xiang in the novel: When they first met at the Fengling Ferry, they saw Yang Guo mistakenly for life. I only hate that I was old and remembered the deceased before the cliff.
Presumably, Niu Xiaoqing was also like Guo Xiang's state of mind, and when he saw Min Shan, he was mistaken for life.
At that time, no one would have thought that Shen Shihua, an admissions teacher, would actually recruit a future son-in-law for himself.
Niu Xiaoqing and his mother Shen Shihua
Xing Minshan, who entered the xiqu school to study, specialized in martial arts students and old students, got up early every day in the dark, practiced and opened his voice, worked very hard, and was deeply appreciated by teachers.
At that time, Niu Xiaoqing was living in the Kunju opera compound, and when she was still sleeping, she could hear the movement of practicing outside, and at a young age, she saw Xing Minshan and other teachers and brothers practicing handstands, and the practice was half an hour.
In this half hour, as long as someone falls on the middle of the way, the whole class will follow the "suffering" and be punished, so everyone is gritting their teeth and insisting.
Among a group of hard-working students, the outstanding Xing Minshan attracted the attention of many people.
At that time, meat tickets were expensive, and the girls who liked Xing MinShan were reluctant to eat themselves, so they gave him all the meat tickets, and even the aunt who was cooking would order for Xing MinShan.
However, Xing Minshan, who had a head like a wooden head, paid much attention to the girls who secretly sent Qiu Bo, and instead was willing to take the master's daughter Niu Xiaoqing around.
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In fact, Niu Xiaoqing and Xing Minshan were not in love at first sight.
When they first met, the two were just little furry children, who didn't even understand what love was, but just liked to stay with each other.
The two will play the game of "conductor and grandfather" together, and Niu Xiaoqing, who plays the conductor, will always support Xing Minshan, who plays the grandfather, and walk around.
In those days when they didn't have mobile phones, that was the greatest joy of their lives.
When Niu Xiaoqing was seven years old, on a snowy day, the road was very slippery, and Xing Minshan had to carry Niu Xiaoqing to school without saying a word.
Although Niu Xiaoqing at that time was thin and small and did not sink much, but at that time, Xing Minshan was only a child, and this matter was remembered in Niu Xiaoqing's heart for many years, and he felt moved every time he thought about it.
Both of them work very hard in their studies, and although they are young, they are not inferior to others in their learning ability.
After many days of getting along, Niu Xiaoqing became very fond of Xing Minshan, the big brother.
And Xing Minshan has always regarded the master's daughter Niu Xiaoqing as a sister, and has been dragging her to play, and every time there is something delicious, he will first give it to her to eat.
In the years of xiqu school, the relationship between the two was so good that they always called each other brothers and sisters.
In 1983, Xing Minshan graduated from the Xiqu School and studied hard for many years, thinking that it was time for him to show his skills, but it backfired.
That year, when Kunqu opera was catching up with the trough period, popular music dominated, and Xing Minshan touched a nose of ash as soon as he entered the society.
At that time, Niu Xiaoqing and his mother were also transferred back to Beijing to live, and during those gray days, Xing Minshan was fortunate to have Niu Xiaoqing's company.
Although she was not able to stay with Xing Minshan all the time, the two kept in communication.
She constantly encouraged and comforted Xing Minshan, giving him the greatest support, and they finally fell in love with each other that year.
Xing Minshan, who was proud of his love scene, ran into walls everywhere in the process of employment, but fortunately there was no way out of the sky, and he soon encountered a heavenly opportunity.
In 1987, the Beijing Film Academy was enrolling students, so Xing Minshan was ready to try his luck.
With his handsome appearance and solid foundation in Kun opera, Xing Minshan was finally successfully admitted to the Beijing Film Academy and became a college student.
The feelings of Niu Xiaoqing and Xing Minshan also gradually warmed up and were sweet, but they never told others about their love affair, even their sister Xing Jinsha, who grew up together, hid it.
Xing Jinsha
It was not until her sister Xing Jinsha came to Beijing to shoot the movie "Dream of the Red Chamber" to borrow the original mentor, that is, Niu Xiaoqing's mother's home, that the relationship between the two of them was not perceived.
Because Xing Jinsha and Xing Minshan looked very similar, once, when Xing Jinsha was sleeping soundly at home, Niu Xiaoqing knelt on the edge of the bed, holding his cheeks with his hands, and looked at Xing Jinsha without blinking.
As soon as Xing Jinsha opened his eyes, he was startled by the scene in front of him, and quickly asked Niu Xiaoqing, "What do you think I am doing?" ”
Niu Xiaoqing couldn't help but say, "It's too similar, you look too similar." ”
Mr. and Mrs. Xing Minshan and their sister Xing Jinsha
At this point, Xing Jinsha finally reacted, she really liked her brother and fell in love with him.
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Eighteen years of acquaintance, acquaintance and love, in the nineties of the last century, Niu Xiaoqing and Xing Minshan finally walked into the palace of marriage hand in hand.
From childhood together to today, the two can be said to support each other along the way.
When Xing Minshan decided to change careers to become an actor, Niu Xiaoqing chose to follow without hesitation, and she gradually retreated into the background only to better support her husband.
Soon after their marriage, they welcomed their own child, Xing Yiqing, the elephant.
The child is very cute at birth, looking at the tiger-headed son, Niu Xiaoqing put down the work in his hands, put more energy into the family, and wholeheartedly supported the development of her husband and the growth of taking care of her children.
Niu Xiaoqing took care of the housework at home and kept the house in good order. Seeing his wife working so hard, Xing Minshan will also help his wife cook and share the housework.
Niu Xiaoqing was spoiled like a child by Xing Minshan.
In a variety show, son Xing Yiqing said that his father was cooking at home, but his father was always filming and often not at home, at this time he would go to his grandmother to eat, anyway, his mother did not cook, but would occasionally make me breakfast.
Therefore, Xing Yiqing would always look forward to his father's return.
We have seen many actor couples in the entertainment industry break down their feelings because they get together less and more, and finally their marriages come to an end.
But this situation does not occur in Niu Xiaoqing's family, because Xing Minshan wants to bring his family with him no matter where he is filming, which once became a good story in the show business circle.
Once filming, I saw Niu Xiaoqing in the crew to bring water and towels to Xing Minshan's tea, just like a life assistant.
Wang Qian, an actor in the same group, looked at it and couldn't help but ask: "Why don't you go to find an assistant, and let your daughter-in-law come over on a hot day." ”
Who would have thought that Xing Minshan would actually reply like this: "Other assistants are not good at what they do." ”
Indeed, the two had known each other for many years, and they had a tacit understanding that as long as Xing Minshan stretched out his hand, Xiaoqing knew what he wanted.
And Xing Minshan was used to filming with his family, and over time Niu Xiaoqing became his life assistant.
As a result, Niu Xiaoqing and Xing Minshan have been to many places and seen all the great rivers and mountains of the motherland.
For example, when filming the TV series "State Secrets" in Yunnan, Xing Minshan thought that his wife and children had not been to Yunnan, so he took both of them with a big wave of his hand and treated them as if they were spending winter vacation together.
At that time, he rented a house near the crew at his own expense, personally cleaned it, and added the necessary daily necessities, packed up everything before bringing Niu Xiaoqing and his son.
When his son grew up, he even recommended the child to his own crew as a group actor.
At that time, the "Six Groups of Serious Cases 4" filmed just lacked a small actor, so he let Xing Minshan's son go on.
In the play, they play a father and son, and after filming, the young Xing Yiqing still knows to find a producer to get paid, which is very cute.
Stills from "Serious Case Six Group 4"
Niu Xiaoqing was taken by Xing Minshan to shoot a scene, which not only harmonized their husband and wife feelings, but also ensured the harmony and stability of their family and marriage.
Niu Xiaoqing was very lucky, lucky to meet the person who accompanied her all her life at a very young age, and fortunately, the person who accompanied her all her life loved her very much, also attached great importance to her family, kind and filial piety.
Niu Xiaoqing is like a beam of light, illuminating the life of Xing Minshan, and Xing Minshan has not lived up to it, and has also become Niu Xiaoqing's haven, shielding her from the wind and rain.
We all envy such feelings.
At the beginning of the encounter, the two were ignorant and called each other brothers and sisters, and then developed into lovers and formed a good relationship in the later youth period, and the two have been taking this relationship seriously for decades.
They tolerate each other and learn to sacrifice, which makes the feelings more and more firm.
They gradually melted the love of their youth into the affection, constantly sublimating, they are lovers, but also relatives.
Life is like a train, and they are like fate, playing the role of supporting each other when they were young, growing up to really become people who support each other, getting on and off the train together, passing on the news, until they are old and dead.
Now they are all old, but Niu Xiaoqing is still young under the care of Xing Minshan, and Xing Minshan has gradually given up the work in his hands.
Recently, there is only one TV series "Star Han Brilliant" that is on the air, and he is more accompanied by his wife and accompanies her to see the "beautiful scenery outside the car window".
They are each other's first love and each other's only one.
It is not easy to have such a feeling, in the long time to come, I hope we can all meet such lovers, snuggle up to each other for a lifetime, until we are old and die.