Not long ago, the phenomenon-level variety show "Sister Riding the Wind and Waves III" made a strong return under the expectations of the public.
And Na Ying, who has always been known as the "big sister in the song world", also joined as a player, and the heat remained high.
Before that, Na Ying has been appearing in the public eye with the image of "Tough" and "Geng Zhi".
Dress has also always tended to be mature and intellectual, complementing her thick and transparent voice.
But in this show, Na Ying changed her usual dress, wearing a pink shirt and fluorescent pink wide-leg pants,
A shawl curl is tucked away with a bow hair ornament, and the red heart earring pendant on the earlobe is even more pink.
Even serenity, a friend of many years, had to exclaim, "I didn't expect you to be dressed like this!" ”
Not only is the age of clothing getting younger and younger, but Na Ying, who has always been a "female man", has also become more and more girly.
She once said with "confidence" on the show: "He is like raising a child at home, and he always takes care of me!" ”
And all this is because there is a big man behind her who has been shielding her from the wind and rain and protecting her thoroughly.
Therefore, the hero can live younger and younger, and be the little woman who returns to the bottom of his heart.
So, who is the man behind the singer Tianhou Naying? Why would she say that this man has "children"?
1. Debut is the Queen of Heaven
In 1967, a family with that surname in Shenyang welcomed its second child.
Before the child was born, his parents thought it was a boy in his belly, so they named him Na Ying.
When I was born, I learned that it was another piece of.
But this girl is completely different from Wen Jing's sister, living off a tomboy, very naughty.
Every time I went back to my grandparents' house to play, I made a fuss about riding a pig, and scared the sow to lie on the ground for half a day and did not dare to move.
Na Ying was a Manchu and had an unusual family lineage, and it was said that he was from the same family as Empress Dowager Cixi.
Her father, Na Hongsheng, was the president of the Chinese Medicine Hospital, and her mother was a factory technician, and her family was very well-off.
Na Ying grew up in such a family, and inevitably had to bear the expectations of her parents.
When she was a child, her father made a plan for her future life: learning Chinese medicine and inheriting the mantle.
But Na Ying has no interest in Chinese medicine at all, and her ideal is to become a star in the spotlight.
In the early 1980s, Na Ying, who was more than ten years old, secretly embarked on the road of pursuing her dreams from her family and ran to the song and dance troupe as a group performance.
By chance, someone found that Na Ying had a good voice and was good at imitating Su Rui, so he signed her.
After two months, Na Ying officially debuted under the pseudonyms "Su Bing" and "Su Ran", specializing in cover songs of Su Rui.
After this incident, Na Ying discovered where his talent lay and found the direction of his lifelong struggle.
In 1988, Na Ying came to Beijing from Shenyang and began to pursue his musical dreams.
With the experience and contacts accumulated before, Na Ying soon opened up in the music circle.
It didn't take long for her to win the gold medal in the "Sunshine Cup" National Popular Song Contest.
Even more fortunately, with this award, Na Ying was appreciated by the music master Gu Jianfen and accepted as a student.
Since then, Na Ying's singing path has become wider and wider.
In 1990, Na Ying won the National Young Singer Newcomer Award for "Mountains Don't Turn Water".
Then she appeared on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala for several consecutive years,
The songs "A Big Tree" and "Seeing Flowers in the Mist" have become the memories of generations of people.
Since then, Na Ying has vaguely become a "queen of heaven" singer in the mainland music scene, and to this day, it has long been deserved.
Compared with the bumpy road to fame of other singers, Na Ying's career can be regarded as smooth sailing.
But what Na Ying didn't know was that she had been jealous of heaven because of her happy family and smooth career.
Otherwise, how to explain the ups and downs she encountered in love?
2. Ten years of bitter love will eventually become empty
Na Ying was only in her twenties when she became famous, she looked beautiful and temperamental, and was the crush of many people.
Although she had an affair with Cai Guoqing and Xie Xiaodong at that time, they were all rumors of catching wind and catching shadows.
The only thing that can be confirmed and the parties do not deny it is her bitter love affair with Gao Feng for nearly a decade.
In 1995, Na Ying and Gao Feng met at a football event.
At that time, Gao Feng was only 24 years old, had just been selected for the national football team, and was a rising football star, which could be described as full of spirits.
Since both sides are Shenyang people, they have a natural good feeling between them, and they also meet to play mahjong together.
After coming and going, Na Ying was fascinated by this unruly man, and the two fell in love.
But Gao Feng's nickname is "fast knife prodigal son", in addition to breaking the ball "fast as a knife", in the love field is also a "wanderer".
During the period of love between the two, Gao Feng will occasionally send out some lace news, each with a nose and an eye.
Na Ying's sister and mother both advised her, "Gao Feng is not suitable for you, you should find a man who lives honestly." ”
But Na Ying, who was in love, had already fainted, and no one could listen to anyone's advice, and he had an iron heart to be with Gao Feng.
As a result, in 2001, an accident occurred, and Gao Feng was revealed to have an affair with a barwoman named Wang Nawen.
The hero who got the news was furious, and she paranoidly believed that Wang Nawen had seduced the "honest" peak.
So, Na Ying and a group of people smashed Wang Nawen's bar and warned her to stay away from the peak.
Wang Nawen looked at the debris and made a decision that affected the fate of the three people.
In 2004, Na Ying became pregnant and awaited delivery, and her love affair with Gao Feng for nearly a decade was about to come to fruition.
After that, it was a family of three living happily together, and Na Ying couldn't help but fantasize.
As a result, Wang Nawen, who had disappeared for 3 years, suddenly appeared and brought a child with him.
Wang Nawen said that the child was at the peak and asked him for living expenses.
Gao Feng did not admit it, and also asked Wang Nawen: Do you have evidence? Dare to test DNA?
Wang Nawen was shocked by the ruthless and senseless Peak, turned around and took him to court and asked for a paternity test.
The results of the appraisal showed that the child was indeed at the peak.
For a time, public opinion was in an uproar.
At this time, Na Ying, who was waiting for delivery in the hospital, was hit hard by this sudden news.
After this incident, Na Ying was completely dead to Gao Feng, and soon after the birth of the child, the two broke up peacefully.
Despite the misfortune that accompanied the arrival of the child, Na Ying named him Happy.
In her view, this is a blessing for her children and a beautiful expectation for her future.
3. The tenderness of the bar owner
Postpartum is a woman's most vulnerable moment, but Na Ying suffered a severe blow, which made her suffer from postpartum depression.
She locked herself and her children in the house, immersed in sadness and anxiety all day long, and began to give up on herself.
The sister and mother used the excuse to see the child and tried to persuade her, but she turned her away.
As an old Chinese medicine doctor, his father, Na Hongsheng tried his best, but he could not cure his daughter's heart disease.
Some friends called to comfort her, but because they were a little inattentive,
It touched her sensitive and fragile nerves and caused a stink.
Over time, there were fewer and fewer people around her who could talk to her.
At this critical moment, it was still her good friend Faye Wong who drank the head and woke her up in time.
"What's the matter?" The good men in the world are not dead. ”
"You have the courage to die, don't you have the courage to live?"
"Put on makeup, go out shopping for tea and buy clothes, and cry a fart!"
Na Ying looked at the message sent by her friend, imagined Faye Wong's look of hating iron not steel, and slowly stopped crying.
She stood in front of the mirror, looked at her haggard self, and then looked at her swaddling son, and in an instant she figured everything out.
"For the sake of a scumbag, make yourself like this, as for?"
After that, Na Ying began to actively exercise and lose weight, and as the weight slowly decreased, she also regained her self-confidence.
At the same time, the appearance of a man allowed Na Ying to get rid of the haze of this lost love faster.
This man is Meng Tong, the owner of the Beijing VICES chain bar.
Meng Tong is an authentic Beijinger, who studied in Germany in his early years and is an elite returnee with an MBA degree.
After returning to China, he chose to start his own business and opened the first VICS bar in the workers' stadium.
After more than a decade of operation, Mengtong's chain bar chain has become the most prestigious nightclub in Beijing, often patronized by celebrities.
And he himself is already very valuable, and he is a completely successful person.
Na Ying had known Meng Tong for a long time, and the two were also acquaintances.
Na Ying was in a bad mood during the time after the breakup, and he would run to Meng Tong's bar to buy a drunk.
Meng Tong had already learned of Na Ying's unfortunate experience, and was very distressed about her and gave her a lot of care.
Later, after Meng Tong learned that Na Ying began to lose weight, he personally made her a low-fat and low-sugar cake to express his support.
Meng Tong not only cares about Na Ying, but also treats her son Happy very well, often buying toys for Happy.
On the day of her first birthday, Meng Tong helped her in Naying's house, like a man.
Compared with the inaction of the child's biological father, it is simply a heaven and an earth.
Meng Tong's meticulous gentleness, Na Ying had never felt it before, and she began to have secret feelings for Meng Tong.
And Meng Tong also had a good feeling for Na Ying long ago, so he waited for the opportunity to confess:
"I want to take care of you for the rest of my life, I don't know if you can give me this opportunity?"
Na Ying had been waiting for Meng Tong's confession, but he was a little hesitant at this moment.
She thought that although Meng Tong behaved impeccably, she was afraid that she would get bored after a long time, and what would her son do when he was wronged?
Meng Tong saw Na Ying's thoughts and immediately said:
"I love you and love your son, rest assured, I will treat happiness as if I were my own son."
These words completely dispelled Na Ying's doubts, and she decided to put the future of mother and son in the hands of this man with confidence.
And Meng Tong did not renege on his word, and in the following ten years, he gave all his love to this family.
4. A bowl of water is flat
In 2006, Meng Tong and Na Ying secretly registered in Canada and then began their honeymoon.
Because it was the first trip between husband and wife, Meng Tong attached great importance to it and formulated a detailed travel plan.
Even in order to surprise Na Ying more, he would choose a very characteristic hotel every day.
Once, Meng Tong specially booked a Canadian ice hotel.
The walls, furniture, and beds in the room are made of ice, which sparkle under the light, like a crystal palace.
Meng Tong thought that Na Ying must be surprised, but unfortunately he only guessed half of it.
Na Ying was indeed very "surprised", but he was not "happy".
She exclaimed, "How did you set an ice cave?" If you want to see the ice, don't you have to go back to the northeast with me! ”
Meng Tong directly muttered, such a creative hotel, how can you say so low?
But he just thinks about it in his heart, but he doesn't say it.
That night, Na Ying, who was lying on the ice bed, did not forget to tease Meng Tong, saying that she felt that she had become a little dragon girl lying on the hanyu bed.
Although the difference in habits and cognition makes the two people have many conflicts when they first live together.
But every time it was about to erupt, Meng Tong would take the initiative to take a step back and coax Na Ying to be good.
After a long time, Na Ying also began to reflect, she felt that her temper was a little explosive, and she should learn to respect her husband's taste and preferences.
In this way, although they experienced some unpleasantness, the relationship between the two became better and better.
The second year after the marriage, the daughter of the two, Meng Xiaotong, was born, and the whole family was immersed in joy, but the problem also came.
Before there was only one child in the family, Meng Tong naturally gave all her love to be happy.
Now that he has a biological daughter, can Meng Tong still be impartial and a bowl of water flat?
Na Ying's father was the first to express his concern, so he ran from Shenyang to Beijing with his wife to "supervise" Meng Tong.
Although Meng Tong was a little unhappy in his heart, he knew that his father-in-law cared about his grandson, and he was relieved.
In fact, Meng Tong always regards happiness as his own in his heart, and naturally treats them equally, and even he will deliberately take care of happy emotions.
Every time he came home from outside, he would hug his happy first, and then hug his daughter.
And he also quietly reminded Na Ying to do the same, "You have to be happy first, after all, the child's father is not around." ”
Usually, two children playing together will inevitably compete for toys, whenever this happens, Meng Tong always patiently instructs her daughter:
"You have to let your brother go now, because he will protect you when he grows up!"
When Meng Tong buys clothes for two children, he will also deliberately choose the same brand, just to avoid the child's heart gap.
It can be said that as a stepfather, Meng Tong is fully qualified, he gave a happy warm home and enough fatherly love.
But as a father, you must not only raise your children well, but also teach them well, and Meng Tong has also done a blameless job in this regard.
5. A "harsh" loving Father
After being happy to understand things, he gradually realized that Meng Tong was not his biological father, so he was somewhat estranged from him.
Meng Tong talked to him and tried to enlighten him, "Others only have one father, but you have two fathers who love you, how good." ”
Happy is a child, by Meng Tong so "flickered", he untied the knot of his heart, and immediately reconciled with Meng Tong as before.
But Meng Tong is not always a fatherly face, and when he is happy to make mistakes, he will also reprimand him severely.
Once, Meng Tong and Na Ying took a happy trip to the supermarket together, happy to eat ice cream.
In order to exercise his ability to be happy and independent, he gave him 5 yuan and let him buy it himself.
The aunt at the counter saw him alone and asked, "Where is your mother?" ”
As a result, he shouted directly, "My mother is Na Ying, and she is over there." ”
The aunt at the counter looked in the direction, and sure enough, it was Na Ying, so she gave him a cup of ice cream.
Happy to return to his parents and said excitedly: "After going out, as long as I say that my mother is Na Ying, I don't have to spend money." ”
Meng Tong quickly reprimanded, "How can you cheat on eating and drinking in the name of your mother?" This must not be the case in the future! ”
Looking at the usually loving "Meng Daddy" suddenly so fierce, he was so happy and scared that he cried.
Happy is not Meng Tong's biological son, so Meng Tong is not sure of his severity.
To speak lightly, to be happy not to listen, is equivalent to not saying the same.
Speaking of heavy, others will feel that Meng Tong's treatment of happiness is too mean.
The balance between this, if Meng Tong does not grasp well, will even affect his and Na Ying's husband and wife feelings.
Once, Happy took advantage of Meng Tong's lack of attention to throw away his academic certificates, passports and other documents and bills everywhere.
Then he squeezed Out Meng Tong's shaving cream and smeared his sister's face with foam, frightening her sister into crying.
After Meng Tong saw it, he quickly fetched water to rinse his daughter, and reprimanded him while washing:
"You're so naughty that no one will like you!"
This scene happened to be seen by his father-in-law Na Hongsheng, who then told Na Ying that Meng Tong was too harsh on happiness.
Na Ying was also indiscriminate, and went home and quarreled with Meng Tong.
This incident made Meng Tong a little sad, he felt that he was kind but misunderstood.
In his view, educating children is a matter within the husband and wife, and now the father-in-law has stepped in, which has complicated things.
So he slowly explained the relationship with Na Ying, and let her realize the problem.
The next day, Na Ying went to her father to talk: "I know that you are sad and happy, but Meng Tong is really happy." ”
Then she told her father about the things that Meng Tong had done to be happy.
After this conversation, Na Hongsheng also realized that he was a little too nervous, meng tong was indeed a good husband and father.
Since then, he has stopped asking about his daughter's family.
6. The man behind the Queen of Heaven
After receiving the understanding and support of her father-in-law, Meng Tong cared for her family more wholeheartedly.
He did not care about the previous suspicions, once when his father-in-law Na Hongsheng was ill, Meng Tong always stayed by the bedside to do filial piety.
In 2010, Na Hongsheng had a chicken eye attack on the sole of his foot, and when he tried hard, he felt like a pain in his heart, and his movement was very inconvenient.
When Meng Tong learned about it, he immediately rushed to his father-in-law's house, carried him downstairs, and took him to the hospital.
In the hospital, Meng Tong took good care of his father-in-law, and other patients sighed, and his son was no more than that.
At the same time, Na Ying, whose family is harmonious, naturally has a smoother career.
In 2012, the music talent show "The Voice of China" was popular all over the country.
As the only woman among the four mentors, Na Ying was recognized as the eldest sister of the Chinese music scene and became popular again.
Since then, her career has ushered in a comprehensive development, concert after concert, variety show after variety show.
Because she was too busy, Na Ying could only reduce the company of her family, but Meng Tong had no complaints and always silently supported her.
On Na Ying's 45th birthday, Meng Tong specially made a cake with her and her children's photos and gave Na Ying a surprise.
Na Ying excitedly posted a photo of the cake on Weibo, and got a piece of envy and blessing from friends and fans.
Na Ying also made up a paragraph for his own life state, saying that he was:
A lover, two children, three births, forty not confused, five points of music,
Six points of life, its happiness and harmony, eight points of contentment, nine points of cherishing, very happy!
Look at this sweet momentum, it almost overflows the screen.
In recent years, Na Ying has reduced her work and spent time with her family, and the news with Meng Tong has decreased.
Until not long ago, Na Ying exposed a photo in "Sister Riding the Wind and Waves".
In the photo is the picture of Na Ying happily sending off her son, meng Tong standing aside, watching Na Ying mother and son hugging together.
Na Ying explained that Meng Tong was also reluctant to be happy, but he was worried that if he came forward to comfort him, Na Ying would cry even harder.
More than ten years later, Meng Tong still guards Na Ying with his meticulous care.
epilogue
When she was young, Na Ying was ignorant and full of yearning for love, but she was deeply hurt.
When Na Ying fell into a low point, Meng Tong appeared, like a beam of light, dispelling the haze in her heart.
He accepted their mother and son wholeheartedly, treated joy like his own son, and fulfilled his promise for decades.
The entertainment industry is always full of temptations, and marriage has always been fragile, but Na Ying and Meng Tong are exceptions.
After marriage, Na Ying never had any gossip, which showed how deep her love for Meng Tong was.
And all this is what Meng Tong deserves.
It was he who warmed Na Ying with his love and achieved his own happiness.