The Republican period shows us not only the struggle between the survival of the nation, but also the love stories left by the beautiful talents in this chaotic world. This is the love story of the Republic of China has become our pastimes after tea and dinner, the most controversial of which is Lu Xiaoman's love story, three relationships are twisted and turned, Wang Geng who is in love, Xu Zhimo who fell in love, Weng Ruiwu who returned to reality, the most sad of which is the love story with Weng Ruiwu, Weng Ruiwu did not hesitate to sell his property, provided for Lu Xiaoman for 30 years, and when she died, she looked at it coldly.
Lu Xiaoman's emotional journey
Lu Xiaoman is an authentic Shanghainese, the family is quite wealthy, the mother is talented, proficient in piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, his mother is best at brush painting and ancient poetry, in such a family background Lu Xiaoman has heard from an early age, under the guidance of his mother, he received the baptism of Western education early.
Lu Xiaoman ranked fifth in the family, in addition to his own a total of eight sisters, unfortunately all died of illness early, Lu Xiaoman became the only seedling of the Lu family, which also made her life extremely superior, is the treasure of her parents, but also a well-deserved big household "famous woman".
Under such a family background, the parents were naturally very demanding of Lu Xiaoman's marriage, and the society at that time paid attention to a door-to-door pair, so under the arrangement of his parents, Lu Xiaoman married Wang Geng, who was an official eunuch. But this marriage is not so satisfactory for Lu Xiaoman, Wang Geng is not only a complete "workaholic" but also retains the idea of traditional marriage.
Wang Geng hopes that she can become a qualified housewife to take care of his living life and parents at home. In this marriage, Lu Xiaoman was restricted everywhere and lost a lot of freedom. It was also in this boring life that Lu Xiaoman met Xu Zhimo, who was rich in the mood of a Western poet.
The appearance of Xu Zhimo made Lu Xiaoman's life a little more colorful, she frequently dated Xu Zhimo behind Wang Geng's back, and finally chose to divorce Wang Geng in 1925, and married Xu Zhimo in 1926. The love story of Xu Zhimo and Lu Xiaoman can be described as a folk story, everyone says that this is a god and immortal couple created by heaven and earth, but happiness does not continue to the end of the story, in 1931, her husband Xu Zhimo died in a plane crash, Lu Xiaoman's emotional journey fell into a trough, in the face of the double pressure of life and feelings, Weng Ruiwu began to walk into Lu Xiaoman's life.
Weng Ruiwu and Lu Xiaoman
The beginning of Weng Ruiwu and Lu Xiaoman is inseparable from the death of Xu Zhimo, who cut off Lu Xiaoman's economic resources in an instant after his death, and Lu Xiaoman, because he lives in a rich family, spending money is naturally also generous and stingy. The sudden situation also makes Lu Xiaoman, who lives in the greenhouse helpless, not only has to take care of Xu Zhimo's affairs alone but also takes care of Xu Zhimo's parents.
And Weng Ruiwu was originally Lu Xiaoman's close friend, in the face of the trough of Lu Xiaoman WengRuiwu extended his own helping hand, Weng Ruiwu has a profound insight into the way of Chinese medicine, and Lu Xiaoman has a lot of physical discomfort after the death of her husband, taking advantage of this gap Weng Ruiwu often massages and acupuncture for Lu Xiaoman, and over time the feelings of the two people slowly heat up. At this time, Weng Ruiwu already had a family, and even so, Weng Ruiwu still chose to entangle with Lu Xiaoman despite his wife's insults and the pointing of others.
Weng Ruiwu's family background is very superior, Lu Xiaoman also followed Weng Ruiwu to live a bright and green life, they went in and out of the dance hall and casino together, and even Lu Xiaoman also smoked marijuana with Weng Ruiwu, and since then Lu Xiaoman's life has changed from literary elegance to luxury and decay. If you compare Weng Ruiwu and Xu Zhimo, Xu Zhimo is like a sympathetic soul mate, and Weng Ruiwu is a playmate in real life.
In order to be able to get Lu Xiaoman's heart, Weng Ruiwu also made a bloody payment. Often leading Landing Xiaoman in and out of various high-end places, but also let Lu Xiaoman see the upper class, for Lu Xiaoman's requirements Weng Ruiwu can meet the natural will not object, and even invited special servants to take care of Lu Xiaoman's life.
Give everything you have for love
But the more spoiled, Lu Xiaoman's life has become more and more luxurious, in the 30 years of getting along with Lu Xiaoman and Weng Ruiwu, all of Lu Xiaoman's living expenses and daily expenses are borne by Weng Ruiwu alone, in the face of these high costs Weng Ruiwu even sold his property for Lu Xiaoman to spend, we can also see Weng Ruiwu's obsession with Lu Xiaoman.
But is Lu Xiaoman true love for Weng Ruiwu? Some people say that some people think it is not, in fact, there is a basis for this statement, in the early years, Hu Shi also proposed to raise Lu Xiaoman, but put forward three conditions, one of which is to let Lu Xiaoman leave Weng Ruiwu forever, but Lu Xiaoman did not accept the conditions proposed by Hu Shi, and we can also see from it that Lu Xiaoman may have a little affection for Weng Ruiwu.
This statement with Lu Xiaoman's series of practices to Weng Ruiwu will not be broken, Weng Ruiwu in his later years with the gradual aggravation of the disease, life is even more to the point of inability to take care of himself, but Lu Xiaoman is indifferent, even during Weng Ruiwu's hospitalization Lu Xiaoman rarely went to the hospital to take care of his life, this performance also let us not see a trace of her love for Weng Ruiwu.
With the death of Weng Ruiwu, Lu Xiaoman also ended the last relationship in her life, Weng Ruiwu is more like a "gold lord" for Lu Xiaoman, Lu Xiaoman's true love dissipated with him after the unexpected death of Xu Zhimo, and what is more reflected in Weng Ruiwu is "forced by life".
After Weng Rui's death, with the help of relatives and friends, Lu Xiaoman completed her last few years, she no longer smoked marijuana, no longer stepped into dance halls and casinos, life became no longer luxurious, returned to normal life, she walked the last part of her life alone. In April 1965, Lu Xiaoman died in Shanghai Huadong Hospital, and the love story of a generation of national goddesses came to an end.
epilogue
"The loss of incense and jade is silence, and the glitz of half a life is ultimately empty" This is the best interpretation of Lu Xiaoman's life, three feelings of twists and turns, the so-called love is finally a shadow in the end. Throughout the ages, love is always painful and happy, it brings us sweetness and also brings us torture, in the face of love we have no way to maintain absolute sanity, we can only find the happiness that suits us by constantly groping in love, perhaps we will often run into walls, but the twists and turns in love are also part of love, and every love for us is to teach us how to better love the people we love.
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