"Oh my God, you still let no one live."
When Jiang Dehua in "Parental Love" heard that his sister-in-law was pregnant again, he couldn't help but spit a sentence.
This role is played by Liu Lin, and her personality in the play is very spicy, but in fact, she is particularly hardworking and resentful.
She read her brother and sister-in-law's children over and over again, and later was called "National Aunt" by many netizens.
Unfortunately, his love road is very bumpy, until he meets a good person in middle age and marries Lao Ding.
This is very similar to her real-life emotional path.
At that time, she was 25 years old, which was the most beautiful age, but she met the director Zhang Li, who was 17 years older than her.
Under the bombardment of Zhang Li's sweet words, she gave up her resistance and transformed into a little woman in love.
She loves really here, not only washing her hands and making soup for her sweetheart, but also looking forward to the day when the two can become husband and wife.
But apparently Zhang Li did not think so, he said that he had experienced a failed marriage, so he had no intention of getting married again.
Unexpectedly, a few months later, he entered the palace of marriage with another actress.
Liu Lin, who left a broken heart, was alone in the wind.
Fortunately, the family and friends who were concerned about her around her slowly came out of the shadows.
Later, in the process of blind date, he fell in love with a photographer.
After marriage, not only did her husband pamper him, but her in-laws were also very supportive and understanding of her work.
Now 48-year-old Liu Lin officially announced the new drama "Lan Bou Happy Affair", it seems that "Aunt" has a new story.
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Liu Lin is a native of Beijing, and her parents are engaged in aerospace work.
Her family conditions are good, she has not suffered any grievances since she was a child, and her family has loved her very much.
In the eyes of outsiders, in the future, she will definitely inherit her parents' career and contribute to the aerospace industry when she grows up.
Unexpectedly, she has always wanted to be an actor since she watched a drama performance when she was a child.
Since then, she has enjoyed participating in various cultural events, and as long as she can perform on stage, she will participate.
But she just doesn't know how to become an actress, and she also needs to convince her family to agree to her becoming an actress.
At first, her mother, knowing what she thought, was strongly opposed.
After all, an actor came out of the aerospace family, and I don't know how many people want to say anything.
When she saw her room full of posters of stars and piles of movie magazines, her mother softened.
As long as she is happy every day, let her live the way she likes.
After attending elementary school, she got permission from her mother to go to the children's art class that she had in mind.
As a result, she did not study professionally and did not play well when singing, and she lost contact with the art class.
Fortunately, she never gave up, always taking advantage of the rest time, at home to study and ponder the details.
At the age of 14, she was finally admitted to the China Children's Art Academy.
That's when she got in touch with real acting, lines, vocals, and so on.
She has a super talent for acting, and she has always held the title of excellent student during her time in school.
In the third year of high school, the director of "The Side of the Tall Building" went to their school to select young actors.
At that time, the director took a fancy to Liu Lin, who still had Qi Bangs, and thus got the opportunity to star in the film for the first time.
You must know that this opportunity is not something that anyone can have, and fortunately she caught up with it.
In the play, she also plays a high school student, and her partners are also old drama bones such as Zhu Xu and Lü Zhong.
Relatively speaking, the starting point is very high.
However, she is also very competitive, interpreting the characters to the fullest, and has been unanimously praised by everyone.
After that, Liu Lin was successfully admitted to the North Film Acting Department and became classmates with Xu Jinglei, Liu Zi and others.
She looked at the other girls in the class and played beautifully, and she knew that her appearance was not particularly dominant.
If you want to get ahead in the entertainment industry, you can only work your acting skills.
Liu Lin's grades are top-notch, her popularity is also very good, and her teachers and classmates like her.
Later, together with three other girls in the school, he was given the title of "Four Golden Flowers".
After becoming famous at school, she was soon given a second chance to appear on the big screen.
In 1994, the director of "Midnight Song" came to North Film with these golden flowers.
I wanted to choose one of the four people, but when I arrived, I found that several other people were not there.
Only Liu Lin was at school, and after the director saw her performance, he immediately fixed her.
Later, when she learned that her partners were Zhang Guorong and Wu Qianlian, she was surprised and couldn't believe it.
Until the mood calmed down, she played the spirit of twelve points and carefully pondered the role.
In the end, she played the "blue butterfly" in the play, and she was praised by her brother.
With the encouragement of her brother, she began to become more confident, but also more addicted to acting, and she was also very dedicated when shooting.
But somehow, after graduation, she fell into a situation where there was no drama to shoot.
For a full 6 years, she only shot one scene with a name.
The rest of the time she spent the rest of the time in various crews playing soy sauce and running dragon sets.
Her heart is full of yearning for her acting career, and she does not dare to press the pause button.
Even if she can only play a small role in the play, she will make a lot of effort.
Finally, her efforts were seen by director Zhang Yuan, who invited her to play the female prisoner Tao Lan in "New Year's Homecoming".
Her accurate portrayal of the character and her skillful acting skills won her the Best Actress Award.
After winning the award, she got more and more films, but she was not proud and complacent.
She clearly knows that in this circle, only strength and dedication can speak.
After becoming famous, she never cared whether she was the protagonist or not, only whether she could break through herself.
In 2003, the TV series "Heaven at Your Feet" was recruiting actresses, but when she saw it, she needed to stay on chifeng Dam for three months.
The actresses have retreated, but Liu Lin is deeply attracted by this role and comes to the grassland of more than minus 30 degrees.
In the play, Liu Linsu is facing the sky, in order to meet the requirements of the photogenic, she is thinly dressed several times to freeze to faint.
Everyone present was impressed by her level of dedication, and since then she has had the title of "Desperate Three Ladies".
Since then, basically as long as it is the drama she starred in, every part is a fine product.
"Camphor Tree", "Agent Five", "Parental Love", "Do You Know If It Should Be Green Fat Red Skinny" and so on.
Especially after playing the "big lady", she has completely become a household star.
She is always sober and has a clear plan in her career.
But when it comes to love, it is completely different, and she is lost in love.
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That year, she was 25 years old, the age when she fought for love.
However, she met a veteran of the love scene, and Zhang Li, who was also a senior in her North Shadow.
At this time, she was still a simple little girl who did not understand the world.
But Zhang Li is a veteran of the love field who is rumored to have been married four times.
She is also a full 17 years older than her, and it was only after the resumption of the college entrance examination policy that she was admitted to the photography class of Beiying.
Once the royal photographer of Feng Xiaogang, he won the Best Cinematography Award for filming "Born out of the Sky".
It is precisely because of this film that Liu Lin has some intersection with him.
Looking at this pure little girl, he suddenly sprouted love.
Liu Lin was also impressed by his talent, and became a boyfriend and girlfriend.
During the love period, he would occasionally go to the crew to visit the class when Liu Lin was filming, and ask for warmth.
Faced with the concern of a mature man, she fell.
But she has never been in love, and she feels that as long as she is in love, she will definitely get married in the future.
In this way, the two people who established a relationship lived together.
Liu Lin also chose to be Zhang Li's "virtuous wife" during the rising period of her career.
In order to take care of his life, Liu Lin even had the idea of giving up her acting career.
But her dedication did not receive a positive answer.
The man she admired had never talked to her about getting married.
At first, she felt that the man might be for the sake of his career and didn't want to let the family drag it down.
But after a long time, she was also a little anxious, and she mentioned to Zhang Li several times that she wanted to get married.
Zhang Li may also feel a little impatient, so he said bluntly: "I have no intention of getting married." ”
Of course, she was very angry, and she had a fight with Zhang Li, saying that she would break up without getting married.
Then she packed up her things and dragged her suitcase into the crew.
She thought to herself: It shouldn't be long before Zhang Li will come to persuade me to be good and take me back.
In this way, she waited patiently for several months, but she did not expect that she waited for the news of Zhang Li's marriage.
Looking at the newspaper, Zhang Li took Liu Bei's hand and smiled and closed her mouth, and she cried sadly.
For several days afterward, she didn't eat much, locking herself in her house and not going out.
She felt like a joke, and recalled Zhang Li saying that she didn't want to get married.
At this time, she suddenly realized that she just didn't want to marry her.
The more she thought about it, the more sad she became, and she lay on the bed and turned over, but she couldn't sleep at all.
Fortunately, she already knew her good friend Mei Ting at this time.
During that time, the two often went out to travel and talk together, and Mei Ting always encouraged her and comforted her.
She slowly walked out of the haze, turned around and threw herself into the tense acting work, never wanting to talk about feelings again.
But her parents watched her get older and began a round of marriage.
Unable to persuade her, he mobilized his girlfriend Mei Ting to help her arrange a blind date.
Liu Lin only felt that the matter of feelings was urgent, and the fate of the marriage naturally became.
Sure enough, it didn't take long to meet her happiness.
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Unable to stand the urging of her family, Liu Lin could not push it off and had to go to kiss several times.
At first she didn't have any hopes, just coping with errands.
Because among those blind dates, the family is ordinary, and they dare not chase after her.
And the conditions are good, and I hope that she can be a full-time wife, and she will not have to go out to show her face in the future.
Looking at these unreliable people, Liu Lin's heart gradually lost confidence.
She simply stopped going on a blind date, but her family didn't rely on it, so she said, "Then it will be the last time." ”
As a result, this time she really met a very sincere, good personality, and treated her very well.
This man was a documentary photographer, although he was born in the countryside.
But by relying on their own efforts, step by step, they have developed better and better.
She left her contact details for the photographer out of courtesy.
The next day, I received a text message of concern, and since then I have insisted on not giving up.
Liu Lin was somewhat touched, usually if she did not reply to other people's information, she would not contact her in a few days.
But the photographer was very persistent, and after a while, the two met again.
At this time, Liu Lin was completely touched by the other party's thoughtfulness and understanding.
She didn't want to hide anything from others, so she told the other party about her experience.
Unexpectedly, after the other party heard her, he was even more distressed about her, and said that he regretted not knowing her earlier.
The photographer's sincere attitude captured her heart instantly.
She felt the warmth of being held in the palm of her hand, and she let go of all her disguises.
After being together, the boyfriend's love for her has not diminished at all, and no matter how big or small things are, they all value her.
Knowing that she especially liked to drink coffee, he often made hand-ground coffee for her.
When the boyfriend shoots, he will also buy some novel coffee beans in the local area to take home everywhere he goes.
Liu Lin usually likes to stay at home and not go out in addition to filming.
In order to keep her in a good mood, the boyfriend will also plant all kinds of flowers for her when she goes to filming.
When she returned home from filming and saw a room full of flowers, she knew that her boyfriend was really careful.
At work, no matter how late she finishes work, whenever she says she is hungry and wants to eat a late-night snack, her boyfriend will come to eat with her.
After a period of getting along, she agreed to her boyfriend's marriage proposal and finally put on her wedding dress at the age of 34.
But the news of her marrying a "poor boy" made headlines, and many people questioned their love.
Only she smiled happily and said, "He loves me very much, and that's enough." ”
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People question them, too, because unhappy marriages are often either a lack of love or a lack of bread.
What's more, marriage involves two families, and of course includes the attitude of both parents towards them.
Because her husband was obedient to her, her parents were also very optimistic about this son-in-law.
After all, the happiness of the daughter is much more important than the identity and status of the other party.
Fortunately, Liu Lin also met a pair of enlightened in-laws.
Since she and her husband established a relationship, her mother-in-law has united the front with her and treated her as if she were a daughter.
When Liu Lin rested at home, as long as her in-laws were at home, she was never allowed to cook or do housework.
Relatives of the in-laws often ask Liu Lin when she will have children.
The mother-in-law saw that she was embarrassed, and every time she would rush ahead of her and say, "We are not in a hurry, Linlin's career is on the rise." ”
He also told his relatives: "In the affairs of young people, we had better not interfere, and our children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren." ”
In fact, Liu Lin knew that her mother-in-law had long wanted to hold her grandson, but she was reluctant to urge her.
Since then, she has made a decision in her heart that she wants to have a child for her husband.
But after all, she was also 36 years old at that time, plus perennial filming, her physical fitness was not very good.
As a result, I got pregnant and accidentally miscarried before I was 3 months old.
Without the child, she was so badly injured that she couldn't stop crying.
The husband looked anxious in his eyes, but he could only comfort her, he didn't want children when he was a big deal, and he had been living in the world of two people.
After recovering for a while, she entered the same crew to shoot under the introduction of Mei Ting.
As a result, when the filming was almost over, Mei Ting was pregnant, and zhang Lingxin, who was in the same crew, was also pregnant.
While Liu Lin blessed them, she remembered her sadness.
But not long after, she also became pregnant with the baby, and at the age of 39, she finally became a mother.
During her pregnancy, she was about to be spoiled by the family and became the bridesmaid of the ancient palace.
It was hard to survive until it was time to give birth, but she insisted on giving birth smoothly.
Just so that I can truly feel the pain of having a child, I will have inspiration when filming in the future.
After finally giving birth to a son with great painstaking efforts, the mother-in-law has been worried and said: "Hard work my daughter"
After giving birth, she brought her son to more than 2 years old, and her mother-in-law saw her inner yearning for acting.
The in-laws took the initiative to take care of the children, and the husband also accompanied the children at home as much as possible.
With the full support of her family, she returned to the big screen again, leaving a classic role.
After becoming famous, she never thought of herself as a star.
Instead, I ate a box lunch with the rest of the crew, and traveled basically by subway.
Sometimes when friends around her complain to her about how troublesome the traffic jam is, she will laugh and say, "How good is it to take the subway?"
When filming, she never brought an assistant, and sometimes she went directly to a foreign country to shoot a scene by train alone.
She is casual and free, and now she has become the "light of national drama".
Recently, Liu Lin's new costume drama was officially announced, and this time she no longer played a supporting role.
Instead, she starred in the heroine, and her partner was Yoko Spicy, a comedy newcomer who is now very popular.
Yoko Spicy has recently appeared frequently in variety shows and costume dramas, which has left a deep impression.
I believe that their cooperation will definitely collide with a different wonderful.
Judging from the styling they announced, people have speculated about the comedy after it was broadcast.
It may create a costumed version of the "Dehua" feeling.
Because in the play, she plays a single mother who has raised four daughters with hard work.
It is also the character of the knife mouth tofu heart.
In order to let her daughters live a good life for the rest of their lives, she gritted her teeth and bought a big house in the capital.
As a result, a series of ridiculous stories unfolded, and things began to move in the opposite direction of her goals.
Let's look forward to this light comedy together.
epilogue
Liu Lin's experience makes us understand that in fact, some feelings are wrong from the beginning.
But once you find a mistake, you have to turn around in time, and since it is not appropriate, let it go.
Only by adjusting your mindset can you meet the person who is really right again.
After so much experience, she now has a happy family and has gained an enviable friendship.
Spoiled as a princess by her in-laws, she can still maintain the best side of her heart in middle age.
And a good girlfriend has become a signpost on her life path.
In the days to come, try to get along with people who make you comfortable.
Because only in this way can you be happier and happier.
Staying away from the people who make you miserable is also the best explanation for all those who love you.
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