Introduction: Lee Seung-hyun is the first male star in the entertainment industry to suffer from postpartum depression! Many people see Lee Seung-hyun in front of the camera, and they only know that he is Qi Wei's husband and Lucky's father. But few people know that he was once a member of a boy band who could dance and sing. In order for his wife to develop his career in his golden age, he was willing to retreat behind the scenes and take care of his children wholeheartedly.
"I haven't worked for more than a year, I'm taking good care of my baby, and I find that I used to think of him as too simple for the role of a stay-at-home mom or a full-time family." In front of the camera, he sincerely said this passage of the spiritual feeling of being a full-time dad, which made all full-time mothers' noses sour.
In 2015, Qi Wei and Lee Seung-hyun's first child was born, and while they were happy and excited, they also brought a century of problems to these two novice parents as artists. Who stays at home with the baby? Please the babysitter himself is not at ease, but who brings it means that the career has to stop for a while.
99% of men will think that they should go out to fight for a career, and Lee Seung-hyun is no exception. Taking a child is a woman's vocation, not to mention that he didn't see how difficult it was to take a baby. However, his love for Qi Wei made him see another problem. When he saw Qi Wei, who was pale and puffy because of childbirth, his face was very distressed. His lover has sacrificed his golden age in order to have a child, so do he still have to drag her hind legs and let her take the child at home?
Under some thought, Lee Seung-hyun took the initiative to take over the task of taking the baby at home. It was from that moment on that he knew how hard it was to be a mom! The child's schedule is not fixed, 24 hours a day, there is no day and night, as long as she makes a fuss you have to coax her. The child's body is very fragile, the bottle should be disinfected, the clothes should be changed frequently, the diet should pay attention to the amount, these are slightly not done well, he is prone to illness. Also, Lee Seung-hyun is often angry with his daughter, and after losing his temper with his children, he feels too fierce, so he falls into repeated self-blame.
What made him despair the most was not the ones he could see, but the fact that he had done so much and looked like he had done nothing. "It takes a lot of time and effort, but in terms of the results, it looks like you haven't done anything in a day," he said in blunt Mandarin when interviewed. Under all kinds of pressure, he inevitably suffered from depression.
In this case, he did not give up, but kept overcoming difficulties. He read a lot of books to educate children and regularly reflected on his own practices. With continuous efforts, he taught a national girl who shocked the public.
When recording a variety show, Zhu Yin's daughter worked hard to help her father get a bottle of drink as a gift, who knew that the thirsty lucky drank the drink directly without knowing the truth. Zhu Yin's daughter cried in an instant. Lucky, who realized that he was in trouble, immediately did these three things, and these three things shocked everyone.
Immediately apologized sincerely to Zhu Yin's daughter, did not evade responsibility, but took the initiative and sincerely admitted his mistake to her. Second, I went to the commissary and bought an identical drink to return to Zhu Yin's daughter. Third, I bought an extra bubble to give to Zhu Yin's daughter as a gift of atonement. Finally, the two children hugged each other and things were resolved perfectly. In the whole process, there is no crying, no temper, no arrogance, and some are just sincere and courteous solutions. Who doesn't like such a child?
When encountering such a thing as drinking a drink by mistake, many adults are not necessarily willing to admit that they are at fault, and some will even say that you are stingy. But why does a three-year-old, lucky, realize the importance of this small object to others and give a corresponding solution? I believe you can find the answer from Lee Seung-hyun's move.
Anyone who likes lucky knows that she has a beloved make-up egg that is tattered, rotten and black because it has been too long, and has even been sewn twice with needle and thread. But lucky loves it so much that she sleeps every day. Once, when I was on a plane, she accidentally lost her makeup egg.
Usually in this case, the child loses a small thing that is just a waste in the eyes of adults. Adults will generally ignore it directly, feel that if they lose it, they will lose it, or they will tell the child that they will buy another one. But Lee Seung-hyun did just that, and he immediately turned around and ran most of the airport just to retrieve Lucky's makeup egg. After looking for a long time, with the help of some people, I finally found this cosmetic egg that was regarded as a small mess by adults.
In order for lucky to have a long memory, he also seriously emphasized with lucky: "Finding this thing troubled a lot of people, so you should pay attention next time, trouble a lot of people, do you know for this?" You must think clearly, baby, you are so important things, you care about things can not be messed up. ”
From this incident, it can be seen why lucky has handled the drink incident so well. Lee Seung-hyun never measures the value of a thing, but rather his weight in the minds of his children. So lucky, who was taught by him, can also realize that he is drinking someone else's treasure, not a worthless drink.
Qi Wei can work hard for her career with confidence, and her career is getting better and better, and Lee Seung-hyun is really indispensable. At the end of May, they also announced the news of the second child, and they can educate Lucky so well, I believe that their second child will also be very good.
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