"Ling'e Drum Rhymes Qing Shang." Zhu Xian is poignant, the clouds are scattered and the sky is long", this song "Linjiang Immortal" was made by Mao Wenxi, a five-generation lyricist. It tells the story of Shun's two concubines, Empress Dowager Ying, who missed her husband and cried, and listened to it that made people want to cry. The most uncomfortable point for loving couples is the separation of yin and yang, but in this world, there are also "different places".
During the war years, many soldiers were exiled to foreign countries for various reasons and were treated as "missing" by the troops. Mainland soldier Huang Ganzong participated in the self-defense counterattack against Vietnam, and was abducted by two Vietnamese women for 13 years, and after returning, he said that he would take them back to China.
Participate in the Sino-Vietnamese self-defense counterattack
In 1979, the Sino-Vietnamese border opened fire, and the villages in the border area were affected. Huang Ganzong, who lived nearby, had just come of age at that time, and his village was affected by artillery fire, which seriously affected his life, which made Huang very angry. He decided to join the army and serve the country, along with several young people from the village.
Because they were not professionally trained and could not use guns, they were responsible for transporting supplies in the back. At that time, the means of transportation used were ox carts and horse-drawn carriages, which were not efficient and dangerous. In order to cut off China's "supplies", Vietnam will often target chinese forces, and many fighters have sacrificed on the supply line.
One night, Huang Ganzong's garrison was discovered by the enemy and attacked by a surprise attack. The crowd could only scatter, and in order to avoid the guns, several people were scattered. Just when the tired Huang Ganzong was resting, he was suddenly attacked by someone from behind and was directly knocked unconscious. When he woke up, he found his hands and feet tied, and two Vietnamese women with guns in their hands.
This frightened Huang Ganzong very badly, whether he was caught by the enemy or not, and whether he was killed next. Seeing that Huang Ganzong was nervous, the two female soldiers used "broken" Chinese and went forward to explain that they were not bad people, they were from a nearby village. Caught and escaped from the battlefield, considering that after returning, he might be treated as a deserter, so he decided to stay in the big forest.
Yin and yang are mistakenly married
However, surviving in the forest is difficult, so they decide to catch a man as a "coolie", and there is the story above. These two women are Ruan Thi Ying and Lai Thi Ping, who are also his future wives, and kidnapped him to be "husbands". However, at that time, Huang Ganzong was not willing, and the two sides were deadlocked. These two women are not bad people, "kidnapping" him is also forced by life, without his help, how to live in the forest.
They told Huang Ganzong that as long as he was obedient, he would not hurt him. Although facing two women, they have guns in their hands, and if they are not careful, they will be eaten by the guns, and they can only compromise and obey. After waiting to the depths of the forest, when he saw the surrounding environment, he was even more frightened inside, and the surrounding trees were so dense that he couldn't run out at all. Even the direction is not clear, if you go out blindly, you may be trapped in the same place.
Without enough experience in the wild, even if these two women were sure, how could they live in the forest? Thinking about it, he had to come together with two Vietnamese female soldiers and live a "primitive" life. The three men cut down a lot of wood, built a house, and "settled" in the forest. In China, we pay attention to "male lord outside the female lead", but here it seems to be turned over, Huang Ganzong's actions are greatly constrained, and he is closely monitored by these two women.
After living together for such a long time, the lonely man and widow quickly developed delicate feelings, and these two Vietnamese women, who were interested in the handsome Huang Ganzong themselves, took the initiative to express their feelings and take good care of him. In the face of two girls, how can the big and small guys not have family affection, and eventually become husband and wife with them and live a "monogamous" life. Just like the ancient Shun and Empress Dowager Ying, they still had children in a few years. The two women put their minds at ease, feeling that he would not leave, and that the surveillance of him was not as strict as in the past.
Sneak away from the big forest
After so many years, Huang Ganzong felt that he could not return to China. There is no shortage of supplies in the forest, and there are two virtuous women, so that life is content. Just as he was giving up hope, he accidentally found a "thing" that changed his mind. During that time he had been a father, and the two Vietnamese women felt that he had confessed his fate and there was no need to keep an eye on him.
So let him walk freely in the forest, and one day he found it in the forest, scattered with empty beer bottles. It turned out to be in Chinese characters, which made him realize that there was Chinese activity nearby. For Huang Ganzong, it is a good escape opportunity and must be seized. The troops did not allow the soldiers to drink, only the common people, and the war was long over.
You can ask others for help and return to your hometown without having to stay in this remote place. In the past, he had no experience in surviving in the forest and did not dare to run, but after so many years, he had already possessed a wealth of wilderness survival ability. If you tell the two wives about your ideas, you will definitely be opposed and can only do it secretly. One day, they went out of the forest without permission, asked others where the Chinese Embassy in Vietnam was, and after some twists and turns, they successfully returned to China.
Two wives "missing"
After returning to his hometown, his relatives were very excited, and fortunately, 13 years later, his parents are still alive. Everyone was thrilled to see her, and they all thought he was dead, but they didn't expect anyone to come back. Back in his hometown, he opened a small shop and lived a daily life, not having to do everything on his own, as he used to do.
Without the two Vietnamese women, Hoang Gan Dzong would have returned long ago and would not have had to live in the forest for 13 years. They just wanted to use him to live, causing Huang Ganzong to waste the best youth, which was really regrettable. If they were replaced by someone else, how could they not have resentment in their hearts, but Huang Ganzong did not feel that they were just poor people. The only thing to blame is fate, and no one wants such a "bad thing" to happen.
After everything was settled, he wanted to take the two Vietnamese women home and live together. Strictly speaking, they took good care of him for 13 years, and did not have any grievances against him except to restrict his freedom in life. He can't forget this love in his heart, even if his family introduces him to the object, he is not willing in his heart. Just go back to the old residence, but it has been empty, there is no trace of their lives. Both women and children left, probably thinking that there was no husband, and surviving here was difficult, choosing to go elsewhere.
brief summary
Because no one was found, Huang Ganzong could only helplessly return to China, but he could not rest assured of them in his heart. So I opened a grocery store on the Border between China and Vietnam, taking the opportunity to listen to their news and see if there was a chance. If they can still reunite with Huang Ganzong, I don't know if they are willing to follow him to China. Many things in life are quite unexpected, and perhaps this dewy marriage has come to an abrupt end from the day he decided to leave.