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Chen Jin, known as the "male version of Chen Daoming", is also known as "mother professional household", typical people red drama is not popular.
In "Do You Know If It Should Be Green Fat Red Skinny", she played the Lord of Binh County, who loves the child to the bone, but beats the Mandarin Duck;
In "All Is Good", she played the son-preference, domineering and unreasonable Su Mu Zhao Meilan.
There are not many scenes of these characters, but Chen Jin interprets the images of these characters to the fullest, into the wood, so that the audience loves and hates these characters.
However, such an actor who has played various "mothers" in TV dramas has publicly stated that he will not have children in his lifetime.
What's going on?
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In May 1964, a young princess was born in a military family in Jinan, Shandong Province, that is, Chen Jin.
His father was a professor at the National Defense University, and his mother was a drama actor.
She also has an older brother, Chen Zhun, and a family of four lives happily in the army compound.
The brothers and sisters are different from other children since childhood, when other children are jumping on leather bands and playing with marbles, the brothers and sisters are not interested, and can only play quietly on the side.
Parents did not get angry because of their "misfit", but taught them: "You must be yourself, do not deliberately please others, to make others satisfied with themselves." 」 ”
It is precisely because their parents instilled such a concept that the brothers and sisters, who grew up mavericks, are "marginal figures" in the compound.
Every girl's nature is to love beauty, and her favorite festival is the Spring Festival, after all, there will be new clothes to wear on that day.
Chen Jin is no exception, but her performance from other girls is always so out of place.
Every spring festival, after Chen Jin received new clothes, she often cut the clothes into a beggar style, becoming a "different" in the eyes of others.
Fortunately, Chen Jin's mother was open-minded and generous, and did not oppose Chen Jin to cut clothes because of this, but instead supported her.
Because our mother carefully cares for Chen Jin's artistic cells, we can see Chen Jin today.
When she was a child, Chen Jin did not feel inferior because she was wearing a "beggar costume", but instead got more pity from her mother, making her more confident and comfortable.
Influenced by her mother, Chen Jin, who grew up, embarked on the road of art, and so did her brother Chen Zhun.
However, Chen Jin studied in the Drama Performance Department of Shandong Academy of Arts, and her brother majored in photography.
Chen Jin, who became a college student, was less restrained by her parents and felt the beauty of freedom.
Chen Jin, like other girls, loves snacks, so peanut rice is a must-have in her bag.
Often during recess, you can eat half a bag of peanuts.
So at that time, Chen Jin was a cute and a little fat girl.
No matter what Chen Jin's appearance was, she was very strict about her homework, almost to the point of pathology.
Lan Ying, the former head of the university department, commented on her: "Chen Jin is a very good student, often in order to figure out the role, for several days in a row are asleep in the early morning, other students think that practice three or five times can be performed, she has to perform more than a dozen times to feel satisfied." ”
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Because Chen Jin has no ambiguity about her studies, she often studies the script, speculates on the role, does not waste time on campus, and polishes her acting skills every moment of the day.
After graduating from university, Chen Jin successfully stayed in the Air Politics Repertory Theatre and became a drama actor.
Soon, the fledgling Chen Jin won the opportunity to play the heroine in the drama "Snow Peak Love".
You know, it is more difficult to participate in the performance of the play, because one person in the play has to play five corners.
Chen Jin, who was competitive and competitive, did not choose to retreat, but instead faced the difficulties.
During the performance, Chen Jin conquered the audience with her superb acting skills, and also won the Performance Award of the Fifth All-Army Literary and Art Conference.
At that time, Chen Jin's amazing acting skills attracted the attention of the famous director Fan Mingren.
When the performance of "Snow Peak Love" ended, Fan Akihito kept inviting her as the heroine to star in the new movie he was preparing, "The Devoured Woman".
After the film was broadcast, many film and television directors threw an olive branch to Chen Jin.
Chen Jin first starred in Shi Xuehai's "Mountains Don't Turn Water".
Since then, the reputation has become famous, and the drama has also won the May Day Project Award and the Feitian Award that year.
After that, Chen Jin partnered with Li Youbin to co-star in the TV series "Tide Rise and Fall" with the theme of naval life, which received a strong response from the audience.
After the drama was broadcast, it not only made Chen Jin's career enter its peak period, but also won the Feitian Award.
Just when everyone thought her star was open, reality gave her a loud slap.
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How high he stood and how hard he fell, just when Chen Jin was singing all the way, he was reduced to an embarrassing situation with no drama to shoot overnight.
At that time, the mainstream aesthetic of the big screen was a small face plate and big eyes.
At that time, Chen Jin's appearance was not outstanding, plus xiao chubby, and he suffered a lot from being photogenic.
Even if the director appreciates Chen Jin's acting skills, considering the mainstream aesthetic, he can only choose to refuse.
For Chen Jin, who is not very confident in appearance, he carefully asked his friends around him with the photo, but the person blurted out: "It's too ugly, and I don't want you to look for a nanny." ”
This sentence, like a thorn, deeply stung Chen Jin's heart.
Similarly, before the actor audition, he must give his artistic photos to the director to choose.
When the director saw Chen Jin zhenren, he felt that she and the photo were not the same person and shouted that she was deceived.
Once, when chen jin's ass had not yet sat down, the director did not hesitate to refuse Chen Jin: "You go, this role is not suitable for you." ”
As soon as she walked out, she heard the director complain to the person next to her: "This photo is very beautiful, how can I be so ugly." ”
This sentence deeply hurt Chen Jin's self-esteem.
Chen Jin, who was originally confused and anxious about the future, after the conversation between friends and directors, felt that he was really not suitable for acting, and finally chose to change careers.
Chen Jin did not hesitate to apply for a training course on fashion design.
After half a year, Chen Jin found that going around and around, or only the position of actor, so that he had the most sense of achievement, he could only choose to return to the entertainment circle again.
Since then, in order to strengthen her ideals, Chen Jin has begun a 20-year-long road to weight loss.
For the audience, it is normal for actresses to diet in order to be photogenic and fit the role.
But Chen Jin's diet, it can be said, has reached the point of almost perverting.
Not eating a grain of rice, staple food can be understood, but she only relies on a peach and a cup of coffee every day, which makes her good friend Chu Zhibo very incomprehensible.
In order to have a good body shape, she also insists on high-intensity exercise training every day, three hours of hot yoga and a kilometer swimming never falls.
This persistence is exactly 20 years.
Self-disciplined people, if they can't succeed, really can't say it.
Chen Jin, who is 172 years tall, is only 86 pounds, which shows how cruel she is to herself.
Every time she is in the same frame as other actresses, the temperament that emanates from her hands and feet has to fascinate people.
Therefore, Chen Jin said in a certain program that he was quite dedicated in maintaining his figure, which was by no means a joke.
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Fortunately, Chen Jin's efforts for so many years have been rewarded, and the originally bleak career has ushered in a turnaround.
In 1996, Chen Jin starred in the movie "Campus Pioneer".
Not only was it well received by the audience, but it also won the Feitian Award, and since then, Chen Jin's career has soared.
Since then, he has starred in film and television dramas such as "Turning Out of the World" and "Flowers Not Flowers", those characters, whether they are decent or villains, no matter what industry they are in, Chen Jin pinches their personalities, and has to say that they are just right.
Because of this, Chen Jin's drama path has become wider and wider, and her acting skills have reached the point of pure fire.
In many variety shows and interview programs, many female stars said that as they get older, they can only play the role of mother-in-law or mother, and they are very resistant to such roles in their hearts, feeling that these roles are not helpful to their careers and grow up very slowly.
But Chen Jin does not think so, can accept the normal state of life, old age, illness and death, often play the role of mother-in-law or mother, otherwise we can't see her wonderful performance in "Ode to Joy" today, vividly playing Zhao Qiping's mother.
Coupled with the popularity of TV series such as "Do You Know If It Should Be Green Fat Red Skinny" and "All Is Good", Chen Jin, who has few scenes, has made the audience remember deeply.
Therefore, Chen Jin was rated as the honor of "Golden Supporting Role", which made Chen Jin's career once again add a bright color.
Under normal circumstances, if an actress's career has entered a period of steady development, the public's attention to her will shift to her emotional life.
Chen Jin couldn't dodge this spell either.
However, her love life is different from that of ordinary female stars.
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Chen Jin has declared many times that she is an unmarried person.
This has to start from Chen Jin's childhood.
It turned out that Chen Jin and his brother Chen Zhun agreed not to marry each other and not to have children, but to accompany each other until they were old and support each other.
Although there has been no substantial progress in married life, in the past 20 years, Chen Jin has been accompanied by a man, that is, Wu Gang.
Before Wu Gang met Chen Jin, he had a 15-year marriage, and his ex-wife was Tang Jing.
Due to the breakdown of the couple's relationship, they could not live together.
Considering that the child was in a critical period of schooling, Wu Gang consulted with his ex-wife to hide the child first and let the child successfully complete his studies.
But it wasn't long before Wu Gang had a scandal.
It turned out to be a photo of Wu Gang and Chen Jin being together by the media.
Many viewers do not know the truth, and think that Chen Jin is in love with Wu Gang, who is still in marriage.
In desperation, Wu Gang clarified positively that he and Chen Jin were only good friends, and that he and his ex-wife Tang Jing had divorced a long time ago, but considered the child's studies, and had not been announced.
After this incident fermented, Wu Gang's children learned the news of their parents' divorce from those news and calmly accepted the reality.
Since then, the relationship between Chen Jin and Wu Gang has quietly come to an end.
Until July 2021, some media exposed the intimate photos of Chen Jin and Wu Gang on the street, and Wu Gang skillfully took out his wallet and naturally put it in Chen Jin's bag, after which Wu Gang drove a car and sent Chen Jin home.
Judging from this news, is Wu Gang and Chen Jin just a faint gentleman's friendship?
This needs to start 20 years ago.
That year, Chen Jin was 38 years old and Wu Gang was 42 years old, and the two co-starred in the TV series "Seventeen Days of Life and Death".
In the play, they play a husband and wife, the two just started together, and there is no special feeling, but over time, Chen Jin's special temperament fascinates Wu Gang.
So, after the filming, the two became good friends who talked about everything.
It was also during that time that Wu Gang officially ended his first marriage, which made the media catch the wind.
In life, Wu Gang is a gentle and considerate good man who knows how to understand and take care of others.
Whenever there is no drama to shoot, I cook at home, full of fireworks.
He also often asked Chen Jin to come to his home for dinner.
Over time, Chen Jin and Wu Gang found that each other was a person who really understood each other, but the two supported each other, silently accompanied, not in love, not married.
With the silent help of Chen Jin, Wu Gang's career has also improved.
With the continuous improvement of Wu Gang's acting skills, he gradually found his own role positioning, so the Wu Gang we see on the big screen is a role such as a soldier and a police officer.
In 2021, Wu Gang participated in the TV series "Storm Dance", which received unanimous praise from the audience.
Now 62-year-old Wu Gang, with outstanding temperament, does not look like a 60-year-old man at all.
Age is a plus for Wu Gang, which exudes infinite charm and attracts many fans.
Since Wu Gang's divorce, there has been no news of remarriage.
For him, it was very satisfying to have Chen Jin, a confidant, by his side.
Chen Jin, 58, and Wu Gang, 62, don't need to get married at all.
The marriage certificate is just a blank piece of paper, and only companionship is the longest confession.
In the past 20 years, no matter how many storms the two sides have experienced, how many people and things have been opened, there is a healthy body, and there is a confidant to accompany them, this is the greatest satisfaction in life.
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Some time ago, Chen Jin said in a variety show that due to his father's advanced age and poor health, he and his brother Chen Zhun often went to take care of his father.
But after a long time, Chen Jin said that she often woke up in her sleep, afraid that she would have alzheimer's disease and no one to take care of her.
But his brother Chen Zhun knew Chen Jin's thoughts, so he swore an oath: "Jin Jin, I am willing to live a little longer than you, so that I can take care of you for a lifetime." ”
His brother's words made Chen Jin burst into tears, and his heart could not be calm for a long time.
Since Chen Jin chose not to marry and be infertile, did she ever regret it?
Chen Jin said in Lu Yu's show that her favorite words are: "Loneliness is to stand freely, not attached, not afraid." ”
She enjoyed this loneliness, not living for others, and living only for herself in her life.
She is very satisfied with her life and behavior, enjoys her current state, and never wants to change.
He often says to the people around me: "I don't need to make others satisfied, I just become myself." ”
Chen Jin is used to going alone, and every time after filming, she leaves silently, never having too much intersection with other people, which makes people feel very confused.
However, for Chen Jin, a person for a lifetime, always get along with himself, the road of life, or rely on their own to complete.
Similarly, the elder brother Chen Zhun also loves an independent and free life, and is nearly sixty years old and has not been able to marry and have children.
For the final choice of Chen Jin and Chen Zhun, even if we have a lot of confusion, we can only choose to respect.
Recall that the celebrities we are familiar with, Van Gogh, Hemingway, Haizi, etc., are all people who enjoy solitude and have done many things that ordinary people cannot understand.
Regardless of the outcome, all we can do is respect them, after all, our own lives are for ourselves.
Life is not easy, we do not need to thirst for the understanding and recognition of others.
When we encounter others who do not understand and are sarcastic, we can only smile and face it, regardless of gains and losses.
No matter what happens in the future, we must strive to live the life we want, and it is enough.