The concept of "hollow heart disease" may have been heard by everyone, and it was originally proposed by Professor Xu Kaiwen, an associate professor at Peking University. During the consultation, he found that some college students with very good grades showed low mood and confusion about the future after entering the school. And it is difficult to get relief through several psychological counseling.
Being able to enter Peking University shows that these students have a strong ability to understand the knowledge in books, for some concepts and scientific deductions, and algebraic calculus. But entering the university, at that moment, some people lose their sense of superiority because they find themselves in the gap between themselves and the people around them in these theoretical learning that were originally dominant; Others went to a major university and finally had the opportunity to stop temporarily, but found that they had no other feelings except theoretical study, resulting in depression and depression.
For the state of "hollow heart disease", many psychologists have given their own ideas. I think that with Bion's theory of epistemology, the grid diagram, we may be able to find a new way of thinking.
Bion was a psychologist of the Klein School, but he did not stick to Klein's theories, but developed his own unique and profound ideas.
One of the most inspiring is his theory of knowledge, which uses grid diagrams to illustrate the thinking process of people understanding the world and mastering knowledge, and the different psychological states brought about by it.
The rampage of the Bion grid diagram includes the A beta element, the B alpha element, the C dream, the D pre-concept, the E concept, the F concept, the G scientific deduction system, and the H algebraic calculus (which will not be repeated in the long run).
Many people with "hollow heart disease" have high IQs and are very good at concepts, scientific deductions, and algebraic calculus. The problem is that when going from H, G, F upward to E, D, C, it becomes inflexible and uncomfortable.
The best state of mental health people is to be able to have certain abilities on these levels, that is, to be able to flow freely between various levels psychologically.
So how can people with "hollow heart disease" be able to flow from algebraic calculus to scientific deduction systems, to concepts, back to concepts, and then upwards?
I think it's possible to stay at the "concept" level. Of course, it is best to accompany and guide the psychological counselor, from the "concept" to slowly go deep into the "concept", and then go up.
Recently came across a book called The Book of Solace, written by David M. Whitby. Starting from 52 key words that soothe the soul, this book provides a perceptual understanding of these words that are easy to be solidified by people. That is, from the concept of this word to the concept and feeling of this word, it is equivalent to starting from the concept of F to the concept of E and the concept of pre-D in the grid diagram.
Such as loneliness. People with "hollow heart disease" must also know the concept of loneliness. But what does loneliness really mean? Under the guidance, he may think that loneliness is no one around. But from experience, we know that no matter who is around, they will feel lonely. So from the concept of loneliness to the concept of loneliness.
The author mentions that acknowledging feeling lonely seems to be rejecting or betraying others, as if they are not good companions, or that their lives are not fun enough and interesting enough to attract us, and the search for true loneliness becomes radical.
After thinking about it, we understand that loneliness is not about rejecting the outside world, "the infiltration of loneliness teaches us to rethink ourselves." Does this loneliness make you feel much better?
Take anger, for example. Do people with "hollow heart disease" have anger? Of course they knew the word anger, and perhaps he never expressed his anger, but more of a hopelessness and confusion.
The author puts it this way, "Anger is the deepest form of caring: caring about the other person, caring about the world, caring about yourself, caring about life, caring about the body, caring about the family and all our ideas, caring about everything that is fragile and can be hurt." ”
This passage goes from concept to feeling.
Written by David. Whitt was both a philosopher and a poet. Philosophy emphasizes logic and concepts, while poetry is the expression of elements from the sensory level to the A-level beta element.
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