On July 28, 2019, Ma Yili posted on the Internet announcing:
"You and I have loved, worked hard, and achieved each other. There is no right or wrong in this. After that, everyone rejoices. ”
The article also posted:
"I love Yi Li, walking halfway, one and two wide, the rest of my life is long, still family and waiting."
The two used weibo copywriting that seemed to be literary and artistic fans to decently end their 11-year marriage.
As soon as the news of the divorce of the two came out, it immediately landed on the first place in the hot search.
However, the article and Ma Yili's comment area are somewhat polarized.
Netizens have shouted that Ma Yili is good, and after restoring her freedom, she will quickly engage in her career and fall in love by the way.
The article has become a "scumbag" in the mouths of netizens.
There is a post like this on the Internet:
How to evaluate Ma Yili?
The comment below goes like this:
She lived out the philosophy of life of a strong person, let go of the past, accepted herself, and finally grew.
In fact, it is.
After the divorce, Ma Yili has participated in excellent works such as "My Motherland and Me" and "Entering Beijing", and this year she also launched "Prosperity", "Dragon City" and so on.
Ma Yili's career is thriving, radiant, and she has lived out the most beautiful appearance of a woman.
On the other hand, the article has become an "unknown actor" and seems to have not appeared on the big screen for a long time.
Not to mention Yao Di's side, he has become a "street rat".
Such a large gap, people can't help but sigh:
What a self-inflicted sin!
After 3 years of divorce, why is there such a big gap between the article and Ma Yili?
After the original article was derailed, why did Ma Yili choose to be patient?
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There is a long-standing saying in the entertainment industry:
Marriages where women are strong and men are weak are often bumpy and bumpy.
Perhaps from the moment the article and Ma Yili were ready to get married, they were already doomed to the end of separation.
Ma Yili's independence stems from her family experience since childhood.
In 1976, Ma Yili was born into an ordinary family in Shanghai's Hongkou District.
Her parents once joined the team in the countryside of Jiangxi, and then returned to the city to settle in Shanghai, the most ordinary working class.
At that time, Ma Yili's family was not very wealthy, but her parents always gave her the best.
Every time it was time to pay her wages, her father would take her to KFC.
In order to save a person's money, he always let Ma Yili go in to eat and watch her outside.
When she was a child, Ma Yili loved to dance very much, and even if her mother was reluctant to eat and wear, she would spend money to send her to dance classes.
Even in the windy and rainy weather, her parents will not have a hint of burnout and still insist on sending her to class.
The sensible Ma Yili understands that her parents are not easy, and she vows in her heart that she will definitely get ahead in the future and let her parents live a better life.
My father used to say to her:
"Although life is more difficult, as long as you work hard, there will be gains, and girls must not do worse than boys,"
Ma Yili firmly took her father's words to heart, and it was from this time that she planted a seed called "independence" in her heart.
After going to high school, in order to reduce the burden on the family, Ma Yili began to work part-time outside.
She herself has a talent for dance, coupled with hard training as a child, and soon successfully entered the variety dance team of Shanghai Television.
She performed with the girls on the dance team, and most of the money she earned was sent back home.
Such a girl is generally very favored by fate.
At the age of 17, Ma Yili was selected to participate in the movie "Liu Haisu", in which she played the supporting role of Chen Xiaojun.
After the movie, she got paid 800 yuan.
Although not much, it was already satisfying for the person she was acting for the first time.
Since then, Ma Yili has become more determined to take the road of an actor.
In 1994, Ma Yili was admitted to the Shanghai Theater Academy with excellent results and became one of the 94 undergraduate students in the Department of Acting.
During her time at the school, she received professional training and honing, and gained a better understanding of acting.
After graduation, Ma Yili met Guan Hu by chance.
At that time, Guan Hu was still an unknown small director who was casting for his film "Night Walker".
When he first saw Ma Yili, he felt that this girl was the perfect candidate for his heroine.
Guan Hu is 8 years older than her, and both of them are engaged in art, so they are very topical.
After filming, the relationship between the two people has long been self-evident.
In order to win the red girlfriend, Guan Hu got the resources of "Huan Zhu Ge Ge 3: Heaven on Earth" for Ma Yili.
In the play, Ma Yili played the role of Xia Ziwei, although this role was much complained about, but it still became popular in a controversy.
However, with the popularity of their careers, the feelings of the two have changed.
Ma Yili has a strong personality, and Guan Hu is a somewhat macho person.
Careers make them busier, less and less communicative, and more and more quarrelsome.
Whenever there is a contradiction, Ma Yili's "girlfriend" Liang Jing will go to comfort Guan Hu.
Over time, Ma Yili and Guan Hu's relationship was broken, and eventually he and Liang Jing came together.
In 2005, Ma Yili and Guan Hu broke up.
After that, Guan Hu married Liang Jing, and she also continued her acting career.
During the filming of "Jinyi Wei", Ma Yili met a man who changed his life - the article.
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Born in Shaanxi in 1984, he is an authentic Xi'an Hanzi.
He has been particularly interested in literature and art since he was a child, and often "self-directed and self-acted" in places where no one is.
In his junior year of high school, the article was escorted by the School of Arts of Sichuan Normal University to study film and television performance.
But he didn't want to follow the path set by others, so he gave up the guaranteed quota.
So, the 18-year-old article secretly bought a ticket and got on the train to Beijing.
Coming to Beijing, he went to the Beijing Film Academy and the Central Academy of Drama to investigate.
After returning to Xi'an, the article changed all his volunteers to the Central Academy of Drama.
After graduation, the article began to run dragon sets in the entertainment industry, but he had no background and no connections, and he could only play some tepid roles.
On the contrary, Ma Yili, who is 8 years older than him, has already made a big splash with dramas such as "Huan Zhu Ge Ge 3", "Black Hole", and "Struggle", and is a big sister in the entertainment industry.
There is no harm without contrast.
Ma Yili treats the article as a younger brother, and often teaches him some small skills when playing against him.
The article also has a good feeling for this big sister, thinking that she is very easy to get along with, and will boldly ask her any questions.
After coming and going, the two actually had feelings.
Later, the two secretly fell in love, because they did not want their private lives to be exposed to the public, so they did not choose to go public.
But all this can not escape the paparazzi's eyes.
Once, when Ma Yili and The Article were out on a date, they were photographed by paparazzi, and the photo made headlines the next day.
The title reads:
"Ma Yili was photographed dating a mysterious man."
After reading it, the article was not happy, and said to Ma Yili:
"How did I become a mysterious man?" I'm an actor too! ”
Ma Yili cried and laughed, and could only comfort him:
"As long as we're happy together, no matter what people say."
The difference between the two is here, the article is more concerned about the self of other people, while Ma Yili goes his own way, concentrates on only doing his own things, and does not care what others think.
Later, because of the more and more paparazzi revelations, the feelings of the two were also made public.
The outside world is not optimistic about this pair of sister-brother love, thinking that Ma Yili has been famous for a long time, and the article is just a small actor without fame.
But Ma Yili loves the article too much, and in the midst of a controversy, she still married the article.
Soon after, Ma Yili gave birth to a daughter, Wen Junzhu, who also had a nickname named Wen Aima.
Listening to the name can also be heard, which is the meaning of "article Ai Ma Yili".
After marriage, the two worked hard in their careers, but after marriage, Ma Yili inevitably lost some resources because of pregnancy and childbirth.
And the cause of the article is getting better and better.
Not only with "33 Days of Lost Love", he won the 31st Popular Film Hundred Flowers Award and the Best Actor Award.
He also starred in the "Journey to the West" directed by Xingye, incarnating as a first-line actor with great commercial value.
People become famous, and their mentality slowly changes.
Seeing the strong Ma Yili at home, the article no longer had the feeling it had before.
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In 2014, the article was photographed having a private meeting with Yao Di, and his demeanor was very intimate, which caused an uproar in an instant.
It is reported that the night before, the article had begged Zhuo Wei not to burst out big materials, but Zhuo Wei relied on his "professional quality" and refused the request of the article.
After that, netizens pulled out that the article and Yao Di had known each other as early as 2011 when filming "The Naked Marriage Era".
Yao Di has a more gentle personality, which is in stark contrast to Ma Yili.
In the face of overwhelming insults, the article chose to apologize, but there was not much apology between the lines, but there was a taste of excuse for itself.
Because of the "see you on Monday" incident, the article became a "scumbag" that everyone insulted.
At this time, everyone was very concerned about Ma Yili's thoughts.
Unexpectedly, she posted on the Internet:
"Love is not easy, marriage is not easy, and do and cherish."
And do and cherish.
This sentence became the golden sentence of the year.
Everyone was secretly stunned, can Ma Yili be so tolerant?!
However, there is a saying that it is impossible to reunite the broken mirror.
Even if the wound is repaired well, it will leave a scar on the heart.
In the next 5 years, although Ma Yili still insisted on this marriage, the hurt in her heart could not go back.
Ma Yili began to awaken, she understood that a woman should become her own queen rather than attach herself to others.
In 2017, Ma Yili starred in a "First Half of My Life".
When playing this role, many viewers were worried that the role of Luo Zijun would make her very embarrassed.
But Ma Yili did not care too much about other people's opinions and still took over the role.
With the role of Luo Zijun in the play, she won the best actress at the 24th Shanghai TV Festival "Magnolia Award".
After that, she won the Huading Award for Best Actress in a Chinese Film with the movie "Find You", achieving a gorgeous turnaround.
In July 2019, Ma Yili announced her divorce from the article.
It is still a more sensational copywriting, and there is no dog blood tearing X war.
The article and Ma Yili jointly announced that they ended their 11-year married life.
It is reported that after the divorce, the two daughters lived with Ma Yili, and the outside world said that this was Ma Yili's most brutal revenge on the article.
In fact, Ma Yili simply wanted to retaliate against the article, just thinking that her daughter would be better off following her mother.
After the divorce, the article and Ma Yili's situation can be described as very different.
In the past 3 years, Ma Yili's career can be described as thriving, starring in many film and television works such as "Miss Aisi Detective Collection", "In the Distance", "Find You", "Live Quietly in an Uneasy World", "Qipao Beauty Detective" and so on.
It even appeared on the Forbes China 100 Celebrity List, which can be described as a winner in life.
In addition to acting, Ma Yili often shares her reading and parenting experience on social platforms.
Her two daughters have also grown up and are very sensible.
On the other hand, the article is not so good.
Because there was no scene to shoot, he had to turn to the backstage to become a director, but he did not stir up too much splash.
To be honest, leaving aside the quality of the film, even if he shoots well, the audience will not buy a bad artist.
When he shared a recent photo of himself online, he couldn't tell it was a man in his thirties.
The hairline has to go to the back of the head, and there is no blood on the face.
In recent years, the article has some broken jars and broken feelings, not only being photographed urinating on the ground, but also losing the only bit of popularity because of bad films.
I have to say that after the divorce, Ma Yili and the article are two people, it is simply a day and a place.
The article should have had a great future, but he did not cherish Ma Yili and did something derailed.
Only to fall into today's end!
After 3 years of divorce, looking at the respective situations of Ma Yili and the article, I understood why Ma Yili had to be patient in the first place.
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The first aspect is that Ma Yili's daughter was still young at the time, and she was pregnant with her second child at the time, afraid that the blow to the child would be too great.
The second is that Ma Yili has the wisdom of a little woman.
It might have been a good choice if she had divorced outright at the time, but she didn't want to cater to the public to establish the image of an independent woman.
True independent women are knowledgeable, patient, and never lose their judgment at any time.
She did not divorce her husband decisively after seeing her cheating, but after experiencing calm and judgment, she decisively let go.
This is the wisdom unique to "Commander Ma".
After the divorce, she did not say bad things about the article in front of others, but used her own actions to prove to others how beautiful she lived.
When we sigh for Ma Yili, we also admire her strength and wisdom.
I admire her courage to stand up after experiencing pain.