In August 2020, actor Tong Dawei posted a cross-dressing video with his wife Guan Yue on social platforms.
And caption: "20 years ago, she was a freshman student, and I was a senior in college." 20 years later, she's still with me."
This sentence makes many netizens wonder, obviously the impression of Tong Dawei husband and wife is a "teacher-student love" relationship.
I believe that many netizens have heard that Guan Yue is Tong Dawei's teacher, but this is actually a widely circulated rumor.
Tong Dawei and Guan Yue were born in the same year, the same age, and studied and taught in two schools, how can it be a teacher-student relationship?
However, the love between the couple does have elements of teachers and students, but it is another version of the story.
01
Guan Yue, born on March 6, 1979 in Changchun City, Jilin Province, is a native of Jilin Province.
Tong Dawei was slightly older than Guan Yue and was born 1 month and 3 days earlier.
Guan Yue's family is well-off, a small rich family, and her parents have always cared for her growth.
When Tong Dawei was exhausted and breathless because he was carrying 50 pounds of rice upstairs.
Guan Yue is enjoying the spoiling of her parents and practicing singing and dancing every day.
In 1998, Guan Yue, who had just graduated from school, went to a key primary school in Changchun as a trainee teacher.
But soon after, she felt that she was not suitable for the work of a teacher, so she gave up the opportunity to turn positive and went to Beijing alone to develop.
In 2000, Guan Yue considered returning to school, and after much deliberation, she chose to apply for the Beijing Film Academy.
On the day of the second test, Guan Yue was very nervous, and the skits performed frequently made mistakes.
The examiner, seeing her urgency and unnaturalness, kindly gave her a chance to start over.
Sure enough, the second performance effect was much better, so she was successfully admitted to the Beijing Film Academy.
The chief examiner was very famous, his name was Huang Lei.
Later, it was very coincidental that Guan Yue was assigned to Huang Lei's class during the class assignment and became Huang Lei's student.
In her impression, Huang Lei is a teacher who is usually tolerant and humorous, but is very strict in class.
In a class of "unleashing nature exercises", Guan Yue laughed when performing on stage, and was very severely criticized by Huang Lei.
"If an actor laughs on stage there are only two possibilities. One is that the sense of faith on the stage is not strong, and the other is that they are too appreciative of themselves. ”
"No matter which one, they don't deserve to be actors!"
That was the first time Guan Yue saw Huang Lei so angry, scared to cry, but he also took Huang Lei's teachings to heart.
Although Guan Yue studied acting, she actually tried her hand at singer and host work during her time at school.
In her opinion, many things in art are connected, and she is willing to try new possibilities.
After Guan Yue graduated from Beiying in 2004, he chose to stay in school as a teacher and embarked on the same path as Huang Lei.
At this time, Guan Yue and Tong Dawei were already boyfriend and girlfriend relationship, but the two had not made this relationship public.
02
The two first met in 2001, when Guan Yue was a freshman at North Film, and Tong Dawei was about to graduate from the theater.
At that time, Tong Dawei had already stepped into the film and television circle with one foot and was selected to star in the male protagonist of the TV series "Jade Guanyin".
Before the filming of the play began, he ran to Beijing to find a friend to relax.
Tong Dawei's friend happened to be Guan Yue's class assistant, which was about equal to guan Yue's "uncle".
One day, he had a sudden idea and proposed to want to see the students' performances in Beiying.
In fact, he wanted to meet the beauties of the North Shadow, and then he met Guan Yue.
On the day he went, Guan Yue and a few classmates were rehearsing a stage play.
When Tong Dawei saw Guan Yue's first glance, there was just a beam of light hitting Guan Yue's body, and her whole person was surrounded by beams of light.
Tong Dawei instantly remembered the picture of Yang Rui (Tong Dawei) falling in love at first sight when he first saw Peace of Mind in "Jade Guanyin".
"The sunlight overhead poured down like a waterfall from the high windows of the training hall, coating the girl's silhouette with a misty haze and splendor."
At this moment, just like that moment, the romantic plot in the script really takes place in real life.
The girl took away not only Tong Dawei's gaze, but also his heart.
Tong Dawei stared at Guan Yue intently, a little dazed, and Guan Yue also happened to be looking in his direction.
He couldn't help but feel a little proud, thinking that the other party must have noticed his "handsome boy".
As everyone knows, this is actually a beautiful misunderstanding, at that time Guan Yue was more than 400 short-sighted, and he was just a vague shadow in Guan Yue's eyes.
After falling in love with Guan Yue at first sight, Tong Dawei began to run to Beiying all day to see Guan Yue's rehearsal.
Tong Da was happy for himself, but he was bitter about the students.
There was a stranger staring around all day, making them a little uncomfortable during rehearsals.
Guan Yue later admitted in an interview that he and his classmates hated this stranger who came to see rehearsals all day.
If it weren't for Tong Dawei standing with the teacher all day, he would have been "politely" invited away.
However, at this time, Tong Dawei only thought about how to get close to the water tower platform first, and developed a vigorous love with Guan Yue.
Later, he always used the name of his friends to invite Guan Yue to dinner and come out to play together.
In this way, Tong Dawei chased her for three years, and Guan Yue's feelings for him slowly changed from "dislike" to "like".
In 2003, at Guan Yue's 24th birthday party, Tong Dawei plucked up enough courage to show her his heart, "Let's talk about love."
"It's okay to be in love, but let me take care of you."
For this only request, Tong Dawei was also happy to be willing.
The two finally took a step out of the door and established a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship.
03
After the broadcast of "Jade Guanyin", Tong Dawei gained a super high reputation and was gradually recognized by the audience.
Then in 2006, he was photographed by Director Zhao Baogang and starred in the then popular drama "Struggle".
With the drama "Struggle", it won the "Best Popularity" award at the first BTV annual film and television festival.
After three years of dragging with Guan Yue, Tong Dawei has become one of the top male stars in the entertainment industry.
At the same time, his perception of himself gradually changed.
"Marrying so early will not cause many viewers who like me to leave me?"
Tong Dawei, who would often joke "let's get married", began to show his struggle with marriage.
In Guan Yue's view, this transformation is "inflated" after becoming famous, from the past "self-confidence" to "pride".
During that time, Tong Dawei lived completely in his own world, and many times ignored the feelings of others.
Once, Guan Yue and Dong Xuan made an appointment with a few friends to go out and sing k, ready to call Tong Dawei a piece.
At the beginning, Tong Dawei always expressed his reluctance to come on the phone, so that Guan Yue had to ridicule "he is not rare to play with us."
After the back came, he sat down for a little while, and then directly dragged Guan Yue away, and did not say goodbye to the others.
Guan Yue simply felt like his boyfriend had changed people, so the two would have conflicts over some small things.
After a fight, Guan Yue proposed that "or we should both calm down for a month."
Tong Dawei casually agreed indifferently, and then directly proposed that we break up a month later.
After the breakup, Guan Yue endured in his heart for a while and could not accept Tong Dawei's attitude.
Although he has been saying verbally, "What is great, find a better one than him in the future", but there is still some reluctance in my heart.
At that time, she was in Hengdian, filming "Detective Di Renjie III" with Dong Xuan.
Dong Xuan actually saw her inner thoughts, and it was not easy to say it directly, so he comforted her next to her.
On the other side, Tong Dawei actually quickly repented, and he found that he could not do without Guan Yue at all.
He locked himself in his home and did not want to go out, and every time he went out, he always felt that the sky in Beijing was gray and lifeless.
He tried to numb himself with alcohol, but found that after drinking, the tears could not help but flow.
Tong Dawei had the idea of looking for Guan Yue to compound, but he had no choice but to call the other party and did not answer at all.
He went to Guan Yue's blog again and found that she and Dong Xuan were filming in Hengdian.
One day he couldn't bear it and booked a ticket from Beijing to Hangzhou.
After getting off the plane, he knew that now he was going straight to Hengdian, and the other party might not be willing to see him, so he had to dial Dong Xuan's phone first.
After some greetings at first, Dong Xuan heard what he meant and said come on.
"Whoever he is, I have to go and see him."
At first, Guan Yue showed great resistance, until Tong Dawei moved out of Zhang Jiahui and his wife, and then agreed to eat together.
Originally, Zhang Jiahui happened to be filming in Hengdian at that time, and his wife came to visit the class that day.
Tong Dawei had a plan, and while inviting Zhang Jiahui and his wife to dinner, he told Guan Yue that Zhang Jiahui and his wife invited them to dinner.
Guan Yue admired Zhang Jiahui very much for such a predecessor, and it was not easy to refuse, so he reluctantly agreed.
During the meal, Tong Dawei deliberately introduced Zhang Jiahui and his wife to his girlfriend, and he was ready to propose.
Zhang Jiahui did not understand the inside story, and he also echoed the kind words of congratulations.
He looked at Guan Yue and did not rush to deny it, thinking that there was a drama, and then it was a dead chase.
After some ideological struggle, Guan Yue was finally willing to believe him again.
04
Soon after Tong Dawei and Guan Yue reunited, he decided to go to the Civil Affairs Bureau to get a license to get married in October of that year.
On the way home with the marriage license, Guan Yue also jokingly said, "How can I forgive you?" ”
In 2008, Tong Dawei and Guan Yue held a grand wedding in Beijing, inviting many relatives and friends to attend.
Among them, there are many well-known figures in the circle such as Wang Jinghua, Zhao Baogang, Wenwen, Hao Lei, Yi Nengjing and so on.
In the face of friends and family, Tong Dawei confessed affectionately, promising that this would be the only wedding in his life.
In the same year, Tong Dawei picked up their first child outside the delivery room.
Today, the two have conceived three children, and the family of five is happy and happy.
After marriage, Tong Dawei can be called the man with the least scandal in the entertainment industry, but he is also known as having a versatile CP face.
Working with many actresses such as Ma Yili, Sun Li, Tong Liya, Bai Lily, and Chen Qiaoen will make people feel very matched.
And Yu Mingjia, who he cooperated in "Mendi", directly collided with Guan Yue's face, with a similarity of more than 80%.
Audiences who do not understand Guan Yue and Yu Mingjia are very easy to confuse the two, that is, they do not know that Tong Dawei will occasionally be in a trance.
So don't look at Tong Dawei's peach-colored scandal, but Guan Yue will occasionally be jealous because of the plot he plays.
On the other hand, Tong Dawei did not care about these things at all, once he went to visit the class, and just happened to encounter a kiss scene of Guan Yue.
Guan Yue and the male characters who played the opposite role were very embarrassed, but Tong Dawei did not care at all, and happily took pictures with his mobile phone.
When the couple joined hands in the interview program, when the host asked the secret of marital happiness, Guan Yue gave the answer: mutual tolerance.
Tong Dawei belongs to a very fickle personality in his daily life, and he thinks of one play after another.
The family agreed to go out to play, Tong Dawei's front foot just decided to go to land A, hung up a phone kung fu and suddenly wanted to go to place B.
Guan Yue was annoyed at first that he was so fickle, but then he got used to it.
At first, whatever he said was casually agreed, but he waited for him to finalize it.
Guan Yue is actually a person who usually has a small temper, and Tong Dawei will tolerate all of her tempers.
And the two also agreed that the quarrel would not be overnight, and the problem should be clearly stated before going to bed.
That is, the bedside quarrel and the end of the bed, there is no overnight worry between the husband and wife.
Tolerating each other's shortcomings and taking the initiative to adapt to each other's living habits may be the reason why the two can always have a stable relationship.
Now Tong Dawei often shares the food he makes with his family on social platforms.
It seems that Guan Yue not only has a happy heart, but also has a happy stomach, which is really enviable.
If Guan Yue were to look back on their love, she might be glad to have forgiven Tong Dawei.
The prodigal son will not return to the gold, and know how to cherish those who truly love you.
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