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January 2019 was a highlight for Lulu Qian, a post-80s beauty doctor, who had the honor of becoming a tenured professor of bioengineering at the California Institute of Technology. This is the second Chinese person to receive this honor after Mr. Qian Xuesen in 1939.
Qian Lulu, who was married 4 times and divorced 3 times, really succeeded in counterattacking!
When the news reached The country immediately caused an uproar. Some netizens praised her while giving her sincere blessings, and some netizens mocked her for relying on marriage and men to "ascend" to complete the counterattack, and were controversial about her success. After all, after 4 marriages and 3 divorces, there are not many women who can still achieve such success in their careers.
What kind of strange woman is she?
01 Divorced 2 times, 3 husbands jointly "lifted" her to become a doctor from a famous Chinese university
Lulu Qian graduated from the School of Life Science and Technology of Shanghai Jiaotong University in 2007 with a Ph.D. in Biochemistry and Molecular Biology. Who would have thought that she went from an ordinary undergraduate graduate to a Doctorate, in just a few years, through 3 marriages. Some people say that it was her 3 husbands who jointly "lifted" and fulfilled her dream of a doctorate at a prestigious university in China.
This seemingly incredible but real thing has made many netizens relish it. Some people praised her history of struggle, thanked her for daring to be herself, and the words were full of admiration. There are also people who talk about her wonderful emotional experience, and her words are sour. But no matter how you look at her, you can't hide the fact that she has always been excellent from childhood to adulthood.
From primary school to high school, Qian Lulu is an enviable "other person's child" whether it is appearance, temperament or academic performance. She is smart and ambitious, and has represented the school in the Olympiad mathematics competition and won awards.
During the college entrance examination, because of her dysfunctional performance, she lost touch with famous universities and was finally admitted to only an ordinary university. Fortunately, her university was merged by the prestigious Southeast University. Qian Lulu is gentle and gentle in appearance, has excellent academic performance, and has attracted much attention from everyone on the university campus. At the beginning of her love, she harvested her love from many suitors, and entered the palace of marriage with her boyfriend who was both good at character and learning after graduation.
Although she was married, her childhood dream of becoming a scientist did not stop her marriage. Her husband knew her pursuits and goals, and did not bind her to marriage, but fully supported and helped her prepare the examination materials. After her unremitting efforts, she was finally admitted to the graduate school of Shanghai Jiaotong University.
In her graduate school days, she cherished every minute of her studies at school. Busy, hard-working figures can be seen everywhere in the study room and in the laboratory. She is beautiful in appearance and talented, and she has always brought her own light, which has deeply attracted the "school grass" brothers who are studying together in graduate school.
Xu was separated from her husband, or had the same language and ambitions as "School Grass", so Qian Lulu chose to divorce her first husband after deep thinking, and married the "School Grass" brother who admired her, cared for her, and took her to grow.
In the eyes of teachers and classmates, the second husband is a promising academic reserve talent. He spared no effort to help his wife with experiments, check papers, prepare materials...
No matter what attempts and choices Qian Lulu made after his scientific research was blocked, he never gave up, accompanied and encouraged her. Help her beloved wife complete her graduate studies, help her choose the professional direction of her doctoral studies, and make Qian Lulu more confident to be herself.
The impact of married life on women's careers and studies has made many people deeply experience and sigh, but Qian Lulu is well balanced, and her focus on her career makes her husband sigh. With his help and encouragement, she was able to devote herself to the scientific research she loved, and grew and excelled.
Who would have thought that during her doctoral studies, she would meet a high-achieving student who studied with her phD. The two are attracted to each other and see each other as they always are. He is well-informed, has a unique thinking, and has a thorough understanding of the research topics, which has benefited Qian Lulu a lot. Walking with excellent people will always stimulate her desire to explore upwards.
Qian Lulu's second husband loved her but understood her better. Since he can't give her more, he can only bear to let her and the people of the same frequency pursue their dreams together.
Qian Lulu was lucky in her marriage and met a good person.
The third husband, like Qian Lulu's previous two husbands, gave her great support and help on the road of scientific research, making the road to doctoral study that was difficult to graduate much smoother. Three years of study, she only took more than a year to graduate, which is a speed, but it is also full of their hard work and unremitting efforts.
Analyzing Qian Lulu's success history, let us clearly see that she can always choose the right track according to her own advantages and work hard towards her goal. For her, marriage has never been the kind of love entanglement and entanglement of most women, but people of the same frequency are attracted to each other and promote together.
She was not shackled by marriage, and what remained unchanged in her heart was her scientific dream. Because of this, although the marital feelings are changing, her career is always moving forward.
If she, like most of us women, puts her family first after marriage, gives up her pursuit and love, and gives up her perseverance, how can she achieve extraordinary achievements in her career? Based on this, I believe that many people can't do it.
Good people always work harder than we do. What reason do we have to live through the best of our best years without any pursuit? What other reason is there to stop in the trivialities of love and marriage, or even in a chicken feather? There is no shortage of people in this world, even if you start late, as long as you have dreams, adhere to love, and make efforts, you can still reach the other side of success.
02 How successful a person is depends on who he is with
In "The Old Man of Mountains and Rivers", it is said: Everyone can only accompany you for a while, and sooner or later they will have to separate.
The best spouse should be an ally in your life's struggle. Your spouse's knowledge, vision, and ability to control your life will improve your pattern and affect your life.
An ordinary female college student becoming an enviable doctor has made many people out of reach and impressed, but Qian Lulu has not stopped struggling when she comes here.
In 2007, she graduated from Shanghai Jiaotong University with a Ph.D. degree. By chance, she met the most important noble person in her life, Professor Winfree, who later became her fourth husband and helped her to the glory of life. Professor Winfree is a major figure in computer science and bioengineering at the California Institute of Technology and has a pivotal role in academia.
How successful a person is depends on who he is with. Dance with wolves, and one day you'll become a wolf too.
Qian Lulu has a lofty heart, will not be satisfied and moved by men's low-cost efforts, she always wants the person who can give her more help on the road to building her dreams, and walk shoulder to shoulder, fortunately, she met. When Lulu Qian was a visiting scholar and teaching assistant at the California Institute of Technology, Professor Winfree gave her the support and help she could.
He admired her talent, and even more admired her dedication and tenacity to academic research. He knows the hard work she has put in for her ideals, and he knows her perseverance in achieving her ideals. So he was willing to use whether he would continue to teach at the school to put pressure on the school, just to get her a professorship.
If a husband is like this, what does the wife want? Love itself also requires worship and mutual appreciation.
In this world, not all husbands can do this for their wives without complaint or regret, and not all women will be surrounded by such excellent people and willing to pay, even if they are beautiful. Only because Qian Lulu is the one who has never stopped working the road to becoming excellent, she is relying on herself and has won the respect and deep love of 4 husbands.
Although it was difficult to become a tenured professor, and this road was extremely difficult for her, the couple never gave up. Qian Lulu and her husband studied different topics, and she set up her own laboratory to lead the research team to study and explore day and night. After more than ten years of perseverance, she finally realized her dream of becoming a tenured professor at a world famous school by relying on her own strength in January 2019.
All counterattacks are prepared, and all light is a foreshadowing of continuous efforts.
Qian Lulu's success, in addition to her own efforts and strength, also benefited from her rational and intelligent choices. I had the privilege of making Professor Winfree her life partner and mentor. Walking with such a high person, she will be outstanding, extraordinary, and finally successfully reach the top.
03 Hard work and no effort, live a different life
Qian Lulu's career is successful. Although many people ignore her persistence and efforts, they are critical of her 4 marriages. In fact, whether a person's marriage is happy or not, there is never a standard answer. But for everyone, who doesn't want to live the way they expect it to be? Although she has a powerful husband leaning over, she has never been the woman who enjoys the glory behind her back, and she has to live herself out of her own suffering.
Hard work and no effort, in fact, live a different life.
Qian Lulu refuses to make a vase, she is confident, enterprising, and emits a kind of light that inspires you to want to become better. Although her success is inseparable from the help of her 4 husbands, if she herself does not have the blessing of true talent and practical learning, and does not pay the efforts that ordinary people cannot pay, how can the temporary help of others be exchanged for long-term achievements.
When she was fighting at night in the laboratory and overcoming difficulties, how many of us were eating snacks, brushing vibrato, and wasting her youth. When she searched tirelessly for many years, we couldn't even persist in a few months of study.
To be different from ordinary people, you can stand out and amaze everyone.
In September 2017, she led her lab team to develop a DNA robot with sorting and handling functions. This robot can work in multiple linkages, with high efficiency and accuracy, and can also transfer the set target to any designated location for processing.
When the results were published in the journal Science, it boiled over the academic community, and she also received praise from everyone.
In the face of these, Qian Lulu was indifferent. She said their lab wants to focus on developing a product for the general public that can be used universally, rather than robots that are only used in specific scenarios.
Later, she also tried to draw a portrait of the Mona Lisa in DNA. Match the four bases in the DNA exactly to form a stable structure that is what they want. This achievement was placed on the cover of the world-famous magazine "Nature", which caused a lot of surprise.
Before becoming a tenured professor, she and her team devoted themselves to scientific research, publishing nearly 10 high-gold papers in the world's leading newspapers and magazines. All the results are full of the painstaking efforts of her and her team members, and also show her solid basic skills and extraordinary strength.
Those who questioned her "superiority" and scientific research ability are also slowly changing, recognizing her excellence and uniqueness in love, marriage and scientific research.
He is not excellent, even if he meets Bole, there is no talent to match it, and he will not become that thousand-mile horse. Opportunities are always for those who are prepared and hardworking. Qian Lulu has been focusing on working hard for more than ten years to be a better self, which is very rare.
Write at the end:
Good people are often subject to a lot of controversy.
Whether you envy, marvel at Qian Lulu's experience, or question or scorn, it does not prevent her from standing at the forefront of science and continuing the cause she loves. All roads lead to Rome, and no matter how she arrives, her efforts, her non-giving up, and her love of scholarship are worthy of respect.
In marriage, Qian Lulu could have lived a happy life by relying on her own appearance and the man behind her, but she was not comfortable with the status quo and did not completely attach herself to men. Stubborn and tenacious like her, with her own honest efforts, relying on her outstanding talent to climb to the peak of life.
In her career, she was independent and courageous. Lead the team, cut through thorns, challenge new topics again and again, and achieve remarkable results. She used her scientific research to prove to the world that she deserved the best people and the best honors.
When her life is facing a turning point, she can be rational, break the world's ideas, not afraid of rumors, and make choices. Excellent people are more worthy of excellent people to complete. Her 4 husbands have never stopped her from making progress, and they can do their best to support, help and achieve her life goals, which is really precious.
Qian Lulu counterattacked from an ordinary undergraduate to a tenured professor in a world-famous university, all the way to twists and turns, all the way to hardships, she finally realized the dream of becoming a scientist. Strive to live yourself as a ray of sunshine and live towards the sun.
I hope that she can not forget her original intention, forge ahead, and meet a better self in a higher place.