After losing his two sons in 4 years, Lin Yongjian collapsed in tears on the spot
In 2014, Lin Yongjian said in an interview that he had hidden grief in his heart for more than ten years, and it turned out that the enthusiastic and sensible Lin Dajian was not Lin Yongjian's only child.
In fact, as early as when he and his wife Zhou Dongqi were just married, Zhou Dongqi was pregnant with a child;
Unfortunately, Lin Yongjian, a new father, had not yet had time to immerse himself in joy, and he found out that just the process of giving birth to a child would cost ten thousand yuan;
And he rummaged through the boxes and cabinets, and only cobbled together thirty thousand pieces, considering that there were still old people to raise.
Lin Yongjian's even breaking a penny in half is not enough, so the couple can only be forced to give up the child.
Lin Yongjian's first child can be said to be a victim of life, forced to give up his own child, as a parent how can not be heartache.
But in order not to let the tragedy repeat itself, the couple worked even harder.
To his surprise, the money problem was solved, but he still failed to keep his second child.
Because this second child died in the work that Lin Yongjian and his wife fought for, but this life refers to the life of his second child.
In 2007, Lin Yongjian and Zhou Dongqi were shortlisted for the sketch contest, and in order to succeed in one fell swoop, the couple rehearsed day and night.
Just 5 days before the start of the sketch contest, Zhou Dongqi miscarried without warning.
Let me ask who can withstand the successive blows, Lin Yongjian is only a comedian, not a wooden man.
This time he almost fell into depression, but forced by reality, the couple could only walk on the stage of the sketch contest as if nothing had happened.
On that day, Lin Yongjian laughed at all the audience in the audience, but his and his wife's hearts were dripping blood.
Seeing this, I would like to say that for Lin Yongjian's first child, although he was forced to lose, it also just shows that he is a responsible father.
Even if you choose to be born, it will only make this dilapidated family one more person who suffers.
And the departure of the second child really made him miserable, after all, Lin Yongjian had prepared everything to meet him at this time.
It wasn't until 2010 that the 40-year-old Lin Yongjian really hugged his fat son and named him Lin Dajian.
The reason why he used the completed project was not because he was unusual, but because in his opinion, it was extremely difficult to give birth to a child smoothly.
Maybe 99% of people thought that Lin Yongjian would spoil this old man, but the truth was just the opposite.
The parenting gap between Lu Yi and Lin Yongjian
Lu Yi is probably the person who does not want Lin Yongjian to go to "Where Daddy Goes" the most, Lin Yongjian used a detail to prove that it is not the big gap in the nature of children, but the gap in the parenting methods of parenting.
Looking closely, Lin Yongjian left the room on the front foot, and his son Lin Dajun quietly packed a bottle of drinks from the recording scene into his backpack on the back foot.
This situation in the average family is nothing more than two results, one is angry education, the other is subconscious neglect.
Lin Yongjian just happened to be the first type, and Lu Yi just corresponded to the second kind.
Just saw his son in public to take the drink for himself, Lin Yongjian immediately did not beat a fight, publicly roared that his son was not addicted, and even locked the child up;
Even he himself was so angry that he directly proposed the strike, and this kind of tiger father's education method also made Lin Dajun become an upright man from a young age.
On the other hand, when her daughter Belle was accused of stealing money by Huang Duoduo in the process of selling bayberry on the street, he did uncharacteristically criticize Belle.
It's just that he was angrily scolding his daughter the whole time, why didn't he complete the task of selling bayberry like other children, and didn't mention stealing money.
Perhaps it was not because Lu Yi tacitly accepted his daughter's theft of money, but because he did not take this "small matter" in his heart at all.
But in any case, although Lin Yongjian's methods of educating children are severe, it is only for the issue of principle that he would rather overcorrect than be hasty.
And although Lin Yongjian is strict, he is not an unreasonable old father;
As soon as his anger subsided, under his good inducement, Lin Dajun finally timidly said his "motive for committing the crime."
It turned out that the reason why he would put all the drinks into his backpack was not to swallow it, but to share it with children who did not have drinks.
Lin Yongjian, who learned the truth of the matter from his son's mouth, must have been happy and annoyed, happy that his child was not the kind of greedy and cheap person.
The chagrin is that he should not be mad at the child before he has found out the truth, and finally, he holds the child and apologizes.
It is this kind of education method of grace and power that has raised Lin Dajun into a good child who is upright and kind, and will not resent the harshness of his parents.
So it is not so much that Lin Yongjian's son is participating in where his father went, but rather participating in the Metamorphosis.
For example, Lin Dajun and Xia Xia were arranged to complete the task of protecting ice cream together, but the two children could not resist the temptation of "bad uncle" Hu Jun.
Under a struggle of thoughts, he ate the ice cream without a bite, and Lin Yongjian, who saw all this in front of the screen at this time, was already angry to the point of deformation of his facial features.
When the mission was over, he couldn't wait to give Lin Dajun a bitter criticism, and did not use the excuse that he was just a child as an excuse to show him mercy.
Perhaps because of such a principled old father, 5-year-old Lin Dajun has never disappointed.
Lin Yongjian's son made this move to Shakli's daughter, and it is difficult to believe that this is a 5-year-old child
This heart-warming scene took place in the recording scene of Where Daddy Went in 2015...
At that time, a group of children were watching their fathers complete the task on the shore, and Shakri accidentally fell into the quagmire during the game because of a waist injury.
The scene was full of laughter, but his daughter Summer began to wipe away tears because of her distressed father;
Lin Dajun on the side smiled one second and blossomed, and the next second he saw Summer wipe away tears and immediately braked to close his smile.
He also warmly patted Summer's back to show comfort, a 5-year-old child, not only can empathize;
I also understand that things that the parties think are not funny cannot be taken as jokes, and I am afraid that it is difficult for even adults to do it, let alone children.
And this is not the first time that Lin Dajun has shown extraordinary empathy, such as one of the shows, Zou Shiming's son Xuan Xuan shouted to eat meat.
At this time, Lin Dajun did not hesitate to share the chicken wings he had painstakingly obtained with Xuan Xuan;
If this is under normal circumstances, it will be enough, but this recording is in a harsh environment, so this chicken wing is also particularly affectionate.
No wonder Xuan Xuan did not forget to confess Lin Dajun even before going to bed, and what's more, Lin Daxuan's kindness had already smoked and carved his lungs.
At that time, Lin Yongjian took him to a dilapidated brick factory to experience life, where he met a seventeen or eighteen-year-old sister.
This girl is the daughter of a brick factory worker, using the holiday time to move bricks to save tuition, hearing this, I believe most people will feel bitter for this girl.
After all, not only is the environment in the brick factory poor, but moving a brick can only earn 2 cents, and how long does it take for a thin girl to earn enough tuition.
But everyone present only left their impression of the girl in bitterness, and only Lin Dajun was thoughtful about his sister's life.
When it was time to leave, he asked Lin Yongjian's consent and left the sister's phone number.
Many years later, the girl who was asked for a phone number by Lin Dajun was admitted to Ningbo University.
Lin Yongjian's family funded her tuition for four years of college, and now the girl's family conditions have been completely changed.
From a young age, he can think differently and put himself in the shoes of others, and what is more valuable is that Although Lin Dajun is Lin Yongjian's old son.
But he has never been used to a stinky body, but is a delicate, calm and atmospheric little warm man.