The emperor threw the towel that time, is it really the queen who does not know how to communicate
Some people say that Empress Yixiu can't get the emperor's love, in part because she doesn't understand the emotional communication between husband and wife.
This statement stems from a meal by the empress.
The emperor and the empress ate, and because the duck soup was so stewed, the emperor drank three bowls in a row.
While drinking soup, the emperor praised the empress's craftsmanship, and did not forget to thoughtfully persuade the empress to let the subordinates do these tasks and save trouble.
The empress is also very virtuous, saying that this is the duty of a wife, and although she is an empress, she is also the wife of the emperor.
If this meal continues like this, the atmosphere will be as happy as a folk family.
But the duck soup was so delicious that the emperor wanted another bowl.
At this time, the queen did not let me drink. Say the old ancestor's rules, eat no more than three, although this duck soup is good, but it is already the third bowl, and it is not good to drink again.
The emperor was also very obedient, and he really stopped drinking, and said that it was fortunate that the empress reminded him.
So much better, husband and wife respect each other, wife and husband, everyone continues to eat quietly, and they are at peace.
The empress was still not exhausted, and said again: "If you do not favor and understand moderation, you will be able to last a long time."
This sentence sounds exhortatory, but it also has a sense of discipline.
So the emperor was angry: diet is like this, so is people, you mean to say this!
The emperor means, don't you mean that I am partial to Concubine Hua and spoiled?
The empress did not react and returned the word: Emperor Shengming.
Look, admit it!
This woman, who really regarded the emperor as her husband, nagged again and again. But the emperor is the emperor after all, unlike the folk husband.
You can persuade him to drink less soup because it is to care for him and remind him to pay attention to his body, but you cannot teach him how to behave.
Because the empress's words were inappropriate, the emperor was enraged.
Based on this inference, the empress is not happy with the emperor, the relationship between husband and wife is not good, and the queen does not understand the emotional communication between husband and wife, which has a lot to do.
In fact, if you think about it, is the queen really a person who can't speak? If she couldn't speak, wouldn't her mother's worldly personality have collapsed long ago?
If you think about it again, the queen's sentence "do not favor, understand moderation, and stay long" is actually nothing wrong.
When people reach middle age, they can't overeat!
As for the emperor saying that "so are the people", the empress thought that it was only the emperor's discussion of that sentence, so she complimented the sentence "Emperor Shengming".
So the emperor was angry, why?
The plot goes back to before the emperor goes to Gyeongin Palace, and you may have the answer.
The chancellor sang in the courtroom: "The emperor's favor for the young generals and other beloved subjects is generous, but the majority of mortal subjects are easy to succeed and difficult to keep their merits."
Then the Emperor said, "You are reminding you to beware of some people who have relied on merit and made waves."
The meaning of this minister's participation is that the emperor is too favored by Nian Tangyao, there is no moderation, but "success is easy, it is difficult to keep merit", too much preference, it will be spoiled and pampered, and it will not last long.
Because of this participation, the emperor temporarily cancelled his plan to eat with Concubine Hua and went to the Empress's Gyeongin Palace instead.
As a result, it can be imagined that the emperor was already on fire, and the empress was crooked and straight, and the topic of the minister was raised.
The same question was asked twice in one day, and it was no wonder that the emperor was upset. Moreover, she did not eat or sleep, and when she ate, the queen did say more.
However, the emperor was very willful at that time! I didn't eat the dishes, I didn't drink the tea, I wiped my mouth, Threw the towel away, and then said, "I'll go see Huafei," like a gambling child, turned around and left.
Such willfulness can only be displayed at will in front of the queen, because in his heart, such a "virtuous wife" as the queen can tolerate his occasional bad temper.
Because he once said that if he was an idle prince and had an empress and a virtuous wife, Zhen Huan and Shi Lan's two beautiful concubines would be enough!
In the emperor's heart, the empress was still a wife.
So, do you still think that the queen does not understand communication?
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