As a famous modern Chinese writer, Lu Xun has created many classic literary works. In his pen, many characters have their own souls and thoughts.
He integrated his works with the social environment of the time and used literature to awaken the sleeping sons and daughters of China.
At that time, China was in the midst of a fierce situation, and in the face of the crisis, Lu Xun did not mess with himself. He clearly realized that if we want to completely solve China's predicament, we must go through ideological emancipation. Using words as his weapon, he struck hard again and again, hoping to get more people to join the national salvation movement.
Lu Xun was enthusiastic and heroic, and he was worried about the country and the people. From his article, you can see how desperate he was at the time to change the status quo in China. And many Chinese sons and daughters were also inspired by Lu Xun and finally chose to join the ranks of the revolution. I believe that most people only know Lu Xun's literary works, but know very little about his emotional life.
Lu Xun has experienced two marriages in this life, but for Lu Xun, only the marriage with Xu Guangping can be called a real marriage. Before Xu Guangping, Lu Xun had also married a woman named Juan.
Born into a shangjia family, Juan is a typical traditional woman, not only has not received a new education, but has not even read a few books. But for Lu Xun's mother, such a woman is the first choice for marrying a daughter-in-law.
So without asking Lu Xun's opinion, Lu Xun's mother married the Zhu family. At this time, Lu Xun was studying in Japan, and when he heard such news, he was naturally angry. Lu Xun pursues ideological fit, and in the face of such a woman who can't read big characters, Lu Xun really doesn't want to get married.
The marriage period dragged on for five or six years, and finally Lu Xun's mother used her serious illness as an excuse, which tricked Lu Xun back to China to let the two get married. Lu Xun and Juan basically had no communication, and on the third day of their new marriage, Lu Xun packed up and returned to Japan.
In the face of her husband's indifference, Juan did not complain too much. This is perhaps the greatest virtue of traditional women, no matter what kind of situation they are in, they never forget to serve their in-laws.
Three years later, Lu Xun returned from his studies in Japan, and after returning to China, he still avoided his communication with Juan as much as possible. In Juan's heart, he actually admired her husband very much. She respected him for being cultured and thoughtful, and she took care of his daily life, which was enough for Juan as long as she could be with Lu Xun like this.
Until the appearance of Xu Guangping, Zhu An was completely dead.
In 1927, Lu Xun and Xu Guangping were together, and the next year they gave birth to a son, Zhou Haiying. Perhaps it was only then that Juan understood that he and Lu Xun were not the same person, and sooner or later they would be separated. In the face of Lu Xun's behavior, Lu Xun's mother was also very angry, but this did not affect the feelings of Lu Xun and Xu Guangping in the slightest.
For the next ten years, Juan continued to serve her in-laws with all her heart. Although he sometimes hears some rumors related to himself, Juan doesn't care too much.
In 1936, Lu Xun died. In the many years that Lu Xun and Juan were married, Lu Xun can be said to have failed to fulfill his responsibility as a husband.
However, although Lu Xun had received a new education at that time, he was still unwilling to directly disobey his parents' orders. As the daughter of a rich family, Juan could have found a better person to marry, but under the influence of feudal ideas, Juan only knew how to blindly obey her parents. When Lu Xun did not want to get married three times and twice, Juan should have expected that this marriage would not be happy.
But Juan still had a little illusion about Lu Xun, even if he didn't want to be in the same room with him, Juan still took care of his life with hard work. Didn't Juan really have a complaint in his heart? Of course not, but she buried these complaints in her heart.
After Lu Xun's death, Juan decided to sell Lu Xun's relics to prevent himself from seeing things and thinking about people. However, this act was opposed by many literati, and Juan complained: "You always say that Lu Xun's relics should be preserved, and I am also Lu Xun's relics, and you must also save me." This was the first time Juan had complained since she became Lu Xun's wife.
However, in the end, Zhu An still listened to everyone's opinion and kept Lu Xun's relics. Juan's marital status is actually a true portrayal of many traditional women after marriage, they have no choice, do not dare to resist, they can only do their part of the work. As for the husband's behavior, they cannot restrain it, and can only blindly obey.
Nowadays, everyone has the right to love freely, and they should cherish such opportunities and actively seek out their other half. Instead of being irresponsible for their own feelings and arbitrarily stirring up the feelings of others, only those who truly respect the feelings of others will be respected by others.