The woman said 80,000 is my pre-marital property, you don't give me money, I want to sell the car, after saying that I drove away, the result was that the man's brother was injured, the man asked her to leave the car and take it to the hospital, and the woman did not hear and drove away
Two years ago, 38-year-old Chen Lili met Zhang Wu, who was two years younger than her, under the introduction of a friend. Both were divorced, both wanted to find someone to live a good life, and finally entered the marriage after a year of talking.
Zhang Wu has a son who has been following him since the divorce. The mother helped to take it, before Chen Lili married, the mother-in-law only said one word, the two want to get married she did not object, as long as Chen Lili was good to her grandson. He also said that the family had a lot of business debts and could not afford to raise more children for the time being, so he told Chen Lili not to have children.
Chen Lili agreed, but for Zhang Wu's son, she always did not save money. The mother-in-law saw that no one bought her grandson's shoes when they were broken, so she asked Zhang Wu to take her grandson to buy clothes and shoes.
Unexpectedly, Chen Lili saw it and complained next to it, saying that children don't have to spend so much money.
This made Zhang Wu unhappy, and he wanted Chen Lili to treat his son as his own child. He didn't have high requirements, as long as he and Chen Lili ran the family well.
However, Chen Lili opened a milk tea shop with her own joint venture before marriage, and after three days of business fire, Chen Lili said in front of another partner that she had paid for it and asked Zhang Wu to give her a contract, indicating that she had shares.
The milk tea shop was Zhang Wu alone, even if he was busy, Chen Lili did not go to help. Zhang Wu was very unhappy, no one helped when he worked, and when he saw that he was making money, he asked him for money every day, and the two often quarreled over this.
This makes Chen Lili feel that the relationship between the two is not stable enough, she thinks that it may be that the two do not have a common child, they want to have a child and hope to have a common topic with Zhang Wu, which can also reduce contradictions and the two can have a good life.
However, when she learned that she was pregnant, her in-laws immediately told her to beat up the child. Chen Lili refused, she really wanted to live with Zhang Wu before she wanted to have a child.
Chen Lili's approach made the Zhang family dissatisfied, plus Chen Lili always said that her pre-marital property was 80,000, which was hers, and Zhang Wu had to return her.
But her 80,000 yuan has already paid for a car with Zhang Wu, because Zhang Wu did not give her money, Chen Lili called her family and drove the car away.
Zhang Wu's brother wanted to go up to stop it, but was accidentally injured by Chen Lili's car and had to go to the hospital for surgery.
Zhang Wu told Chen Lili to leave the car behind, and he wanted to take his brother to the hospital. Chen Lili said that I drove back at night, but I didn't come back until the evening.
This made the Zhang family even more disappointed in Chen Lili, because Chen Lili drove to sell the car to get money.
When asked why Chen Lili did this, Chen Lili may have taken money too seriously, after all, the 80,000 is indeed her premarital property and wants to have a sense of security.
It turned out that Chen Lili's marriage before made her very sad, after the divorce she found a real estate sale, relying on her own efforts and frugality to buy two suites and a car.
After getting to know Zhang Wu, the two talked, and at that time she saw Zhang Wu's poor situation, but she didn't care. She said that if you want to talk well, let's talk seriously, in order to show that Zhang Wu is sincere, she also wants Zhang Wu to buy her a ring, which cost more than 6,000.
But the next day, when she went to work, she saw that her colleagues bought more than 10,000 rings, and she felt a little uncomfortable in her heart, and she also wanted more than 10,000 rings.
Later, she also considered her age when she had a child, but she decided to give birth for the sake of the two of them.
It's just that the Zhang family really doesn't recognize this child.
In fact, from Zhang Wu's point of view, Chen Lili has a house and a car, in his opinion, it may be that Chen Lili has a car and a house.
Since you can have a car and a house, it means that the ability is not bad, the two do business together, and they are not afraid of not making money.
But unexpectedly, Chen Lili valued money too much, and she wanted to save money, but when she bought the ring, she only wanted Zhang Wu to buy it for him.
No matter how you look at it, it's a bit of a double standard.
Although the ring represents the love of the other party, it is also necessary to do what you can.
In Zhang Wu's view, Chen Lili paid for the partnership, at least to help. Even if you want to divide the money, you have to wait for the end of the month or the end of the year to make a summary, after all, the cost of employees' wages, the rent of the store and so on must be subtracted first, and the balance is a profit profit.
This is not the same as paying people for part-time work.
Chen Lili is obviously insecure, the conditions for the man she is looking for are also average, and the family is still in debt. Knowing that the other party does not want children, he insists on having children, just to use children to maintain the relationship between the two, which is the wrong approach.
There is nothing wrong with the child, there is nothing wrong with the parent. But when you are born, you have to bear the bitter fruit yourself, and don't wronged the child.
For Chen Lili, since she has no sense of security, she wants money to lean in. Before marriage, he notarized his house and car, and then he and Zhang Wu did a good job in the milk tea shop business.
Business is getting more and more prosperous, and the small days will naturally get better and better. Only with money and ability can we create a better life for our children.
Children are never tools, don't make excuses for problematic feelings. #情感点评大赏 #
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