In 2011, Lin Qingxia released her first collection of essays, "Inside and Outside the Window".
In this book, Lin Qingxia wrote word by word: The woman I envy most in my life is Xie Lingling, and presumably all parents of Taiwanese families hope to have such a daughter.
The emotional experience of Lin Qingxia and Xie Lingling is actually very similar, the same marriage to the rich, the same love road.
The difference is that Lin Qingxia did not marry into the giants until she was 40 years old, while Xie Lingling married into the giants as early as the age of 23.
After marriage, Xie Lingling gave birth to five children for Lin Jianyue, but Lin Jianyue frequently spread lace scandals with female stars and female models, without the slightest regard for Xie Lingling's feelings.
In the end, Xie Lingling was also abandoned by Lin Jianyue and swept out of the house.
Although Lin Qingxia did not enter the marriage hall until she was forty years old, she has always lived a comfortable and comfortable life.
It is reasonable to say that Lin Qingxia's married life is happier than Xie Lingling's, so why would she envy Xie Lingling, who was swept out of the house?
What kind of woman is Xie Lingling? What kind of legendary life did she live?
At the age of 8, he starred in his screen debut and won two Golden Horse Awards
Xie Lingling was born in 1956 to a wealthy family in Taiwan.
His father was a Kuomintang general, in a high position, and his family was naturally very well-off.
Xie Lingling has grown up with a beautiful and lovely face, big round eyes, a delicate and tall nose, and is often praised by neighbors as a little fairy.
Although there are eight brothers and sisters in the family, the family atmosphere is still very harmonious, and the parents attach great importance to the education of their children.
Therefore, since she was a child, Xie Lingling has been a quiet and well-behaved girl who knows how to be reasonable.
In 1964, China Film was preparing to shoot a new movie, "Wan Jun's Cousin".
In order to select the actors of the childhood "Wanjun", China Film held a huge audition.
Xie Lingling's parents also helped their daughter sign up, and finally she stood out from more than a thousand auditions and successfully won the precious opportunity to play the role of "Xiao Wanjun".
This role is of great significance to Xie Lingling, because the role of "Xiao Wanjun" is the enlightenment of her dream as an actor.
She played the clever and clever little Wanjun with great beauty, which won the praise of countless audiences.
At the same time, "Wanjun Cousin" also won the Golden Horse Award for Excellent Film, and she also won the Golden Horse Award for Best Child Star for this role.
The first film and television work she starred in achieved such excellent results, which made her parents firm in their determination to let their daughter engage in acting work.
In 1965, Xie Lingling starred in the second film and television work "My Daughter Ruolan".
In the film, she played the childhood "Meng Ruolan".
Subsequently, she once again won the Best Child Star Award at the Taiwan Golden Horse Awards with her youthful and immature acting skills.
He was given the title of genius child star and became a royal actor of Qiong Yao
Winning the "Best Child Star Award" for two consecutive years has made Xie Lingling's fame and reputation rise with it.
She was also given the reputation of "genius child star" by the Taiwanese media, and for a while, it swept the entire island of Taiwan.
She also became the daughter that all Taiwanese families aspired to give birth to.
Her big round eyes seemed to be able to speak, and people could see the emotions and feelings she wanted to express from her clear eyes.
Although there was no definition of "chasing stars" and "fans" at that time, it did not affect the audience's love for her, as long as the TV series or variety shows had her figure, it was necessary to watch.
It can be said that Xie Lingling is winning on the starting line of the road to fame.
However, child stars in the show business circle generally fall into the dilemma of high and low.
Take Lin Miaoke, Jin Ming, Guan Xiaotong and other child stars who have become famous as teenagers, either with age, gradually become disabled, or their acting skills have not improved at all.
Xie Lingling is an exception, when she was a child, she looked sweet and well-behaved, but when she grew up, she became a country.compelling city.
Even Qiong Yao praised Xie Lingling: she was surprisingly beautiful, and her facial features were so exquisite that she resembled a work of art carved out of crystal.
So Xie Lingling became Qiong Yao's royal actress with her beautiful appearance.
You know, in the Taiwanese showbiz circle in the 1970s, it is not too much to say that it is the world of Qiong Yao opera.
Most of the actresses who starred in Qiong Yao's dramas can burst into flames, and Xie Lingling, who already has the title of child star, is naturally no exception.
In the two years from 1978 to 1979 alone, she starred in more than ten film and television works, which is enough to see her super popularity in Taiwanese showbiz.
At that time, she was not only the dream lover in men's minds, but also the appearance that girls could aspire to become.
At the age of 23, he met Lin Jianyue, who had high hopes since he was a child
During her career in the entertainment industry, Xie Lingling met Lin Qingxia, who also has the beauty of the city.
At that time, Lin Qingxia could only match Xie Lingling.
Originally, she continued to go down this road, and in the future she would be able to achieve great success and fire lin Qingxia, after all, even Lin Qingxia herself personally expressed her envy for Xie Lingling.
Unfortunately, Xie Lingling's acting career ended in a hurry at the age of twenty-four.
This is all because of the appearance of a man named Lin Jianyue.
In 1979, at the age of twenty-three, Xie Lingling met the man who had influenced her life.
Lin Jianyue can be regarded as a legend in the business world.
His father, Lam Pak Hin, is Hong Kong's top billionaire, worth more than 60 billion yuan, and married a four-room wife.
The Lin family is definitely a well-known and prestigious family in Hong Kong.
Lin Jianyue is from the second room mrs. Yu Jewelry, although Yu Jewelry is not generous, but it holds great power and has absolute right to speak in the Lin family.
Therefore, Lin Jianyue has always been cultivated according to the standards of the heir.
From the age of thirteen, he was sent by his parents to Canada to attend junior high school, and then went to a university in the United States to study business, preparing for the future inheritance of the family business.
After finishing his studies and returning to Hong Kong, Lin Jianyue was immediately promoted to chairman of Lixin Group, and also managed five companies including Huanya Media.
But Lin Jianyue, who grew up rich and raised, did not have much ambition for fame and money, but only had a special love for beautiful women.
Lin Jianyue fell in love with her at first sight and entered the marriage hall at the age of 24
As one of the most famous actresses in Taiwan at that time, Xie Lingling was loved by countless audiences and also attracted the attention of Lin Jianyue.
When he first saw Xie Lingling, he was deeply intoxicated by the beauty of the other party's country and city, and immediately launched a passionate pursuit offensive.
He also knows that his sweetheart is surrounded by many excellent suitors, so he will fly to Taiwan to find Xie Lingling in his spare time and strive to spend more time with her.
He will not only often go to the crew to visit the class, pick up Xie Lingling to and from work, but also accompany Xie Lingling to walk alishan and travel with Sun Moon Lake.
In addition, Lin Jianyue is also very good at using money offensives.
At that time, as long as he bought clothes for Xie Lingling, he would buy out all the sizes and colors, afraid that his dream lover would collide with someone else's shirt.
Xie Lingling, who had almost no love experience at first, was still a little helpless in the face of Lin Jianyue's enthusiastic attack.
However, under the unremitting pursuit of Lin Jianyue, a veteran of the love field, Xie Lingling still gradually developed affection for him, and the two soon came together.
Xie Lingling's childhood was spent in the crew, like a canary in a cage.
This also leads to her always looking forward to the outside world.
Unexpectedly, Xie Lingling and Lin Jianyue fell in love for only one year, and they entered the marriage hall together in 1980.
Fortunately, unlike other rich families, the Lin family did not dislike Xie Lingling because she was just a drama.
Lin Jianyue's mother was very fond of this well-behaved and obedient daughter-in-law.
He gave birth to three sons and two daughters for the Lin family, and was quite favored by his mother-in-law
The wedding of the two was very luxurious and exquisite, with more than 140 tables and many celebrities from Hong Kong's business and performing arts circles invited.
Xie Lingling also married into the rich family under the witness of the media and relatives and friends.
After marriage, at the request of her in-laws and in-laws, she suspended her acting career and chose to fade out of the show business.
Conservative in her thinking, she only wants to be Lin Jianyue's xiannai helper.
But the daughter-in-law of the rich is not as relaxed as imagined.
Mother-in-law Yu Baozhu hopes that her daughter-in-law can open up branches and leaves for the Lin family as soon as possible, and the old man's thinking is feudal and conservative, so naturally she hopes that she can have more sons.
Of course, Xie Lingling did not disappoint her in-laws and soon gave birth to a son and two daughters for the Lin family.
Yu Baozhu was still insufficient, felt that there were few people, and let her daughter-in-law give birth to a pair of twins.
In addition, as a rich daughter-in-law, you also need to abide by strict rules.
For example, every day to get up early to serve tea to the in-laws to ask for peace, at home also to dress dignified, exquisite.
Xie Lingling never complained and always obeyed her in-laws, so she gradually got yu Baozhu's affirmation and favor.
Yu Baozhu was particularly fond of this meek and virtuous daughter-in-law, and even arranged her to the company to learn how to do business.
In this way, Xie Lingling relied on her own efforts to change from an ordinary drama to a bright and beautiful "perfect daughter-in-law".
Her husband has a gossip with a number of actresses, but she is reluctant to divorce
The simple Xie Lingling thought that as long as she managed the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, she would be able to gain a foothold in the Lin family, but she did not know that her relationship with her husband had changed.
At first, Lin Jianyue was still very considerate of the dream lover who was hard to catch up with.
But for a gentleman like Lin Jianyue, thoughtfulness and patience have a shelf life, and marriage is a shackle that cannot be broken.
Gradually losing interest in Xie Lingling, he began to linger among the flowers again.
What hasn't changed is that he still has a keen interest in female stars in the entertainment industry.
In 1991, Xie Lingling had just given birth to a pair of dragon and phoenix fetuses for him.
He then spread a lace scandal with Yuan Yongyi, who had just won the crown of Hong Kong sister and was in the limelight.
Lin Jianyue repeated the same trick and launched a crazy pursuit of her, throwing heavy gold and sending many gifts.
Soon after, he once again had a lace scandal with Wan Qiwen and Weng Hong, the champions and runners-up of Yajie.
Xie Lingling, who had just walked away from the ghost gate, saw that the front page headlines of the gossip magazine were all her husband's lace scandals, and her heart was also sour.
Yu Baozhu advised his daughter-in-law: Men are born with sexual affair, and it is enough to turn a blind eye.
Xie Lingling, who has been poisoned by feudal thought for a long time, also feels that a woman's divorce is a shameful thing and will be looked down upon.
Therefore, she still chose to forgive and tolerate, not knowing that her regression made her husband more unscrupulous.
Her mother-in-law drove away Wang Zuxian for her, and she lived more soberly after the divorce
The appearance of Wang Zuxian also made Xie Lingling realize how fragile their marriage was.
At that time, Wang Zuxian had just broken up with Qi Qin, and it was in the emotional window period.
Lin Jianyue picked this time and chased the goddess Wang Zuxian into his hand.
Unlike the previous small fights, this time Lin Jianyue, who was blinded by passion, filed for divorce from his wife.
This love triangle has also made headlines on the front pages of major Hong Kong gossip weekly magazines, and Wang Zuxian has also been labeled as a "third party" and "fishing for a woman" and other negative labels.
Yu Baozhu was already very fond of Xie Lingling, the daughter-in-law, and naturally did not want her son to divorce her daughter-in-law, and she was even more reluctant to let Wang Zuxian, a "third party", enter the house.
So Yu Baozhu publicly responded to this matter and angrily criticized Wang Zuxian: "The daughter-in-law of the Lin family is only Xie Lingling, who is the prostitute who my son spent 30 million to summon." ”
Although the mother-in-law openly supported Xie Lingling, she herself was very crisp and neat, and did not drag the mud and water at all.
In 1995, Xie Lingling formally divorced Lin Jianyue, ending a fifteen-year marriage.
Not only did she get custody of her five children, but she also received up to $400 million in alimony.
In love, she lost everything, but in reality, she can be regarded as a winner in life.
Lin Jianyue naively thought that he would be able to live with Wang Zuxian after his divorce, but he did not expect that his mother would not compromise and resolutely did not allow Wang Zuxian to enter the Lin family.
In the end, under the pressure of society and reality, Lin Jianyue and Wang Zuxian still failed to reach the end.
After the divorce, Xie Lingling's life became more and more fulfilling.
She continued to learn how to do business, how to invest, and soon gained a foothold in the business world.
It is worth mentioning that in 2004, she also spent thousands of dollars to buy all the shops in Guanqian Street in Suzhou.
Today, this commercial street is still very prosperous, which shows how sharp her business vision is.
Although divorced, her feelings for her ex-mother-in-law have never changed, and her mother-in-law treats her as if she were a daughter, and she will be present every year on her mother-in-law's birthday.
epilogue
From the popular child star to the perfect rich daughter-in-law, Xie Lingling just calmly said: "Thanks to the ups and downs of life, let me learn more things, to have today's Xie Lingling." ”
She has made a perfect rich daughter-in-law, and she has also become a strong woman who is independent.
She can sacrifice the devastating star path for love, and she can also give up meaningless marriage at all costs.
There are many female stars who marry into the rich and eventually become canaries.
Even if Xie Lingling is in a big club, she has not forgotten the importance of independence and self-improvement, and has never lost herself.