"Once, every year," I spent children's day with my brother."
"However, since this year, I have been the only one left."
This is a little girl named Deng Minglu, who posted an article missing her brother on social platforms.
His brother is the child star who has appeared on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala twice, Deng Heming.
This opera prodigy who was chased by God to enjoy the meal and eat, but left the people who loved him early.
Seven years later, my sister also embarked on the road of learning opera performance.
The reason she was able to continue to persevere was tearful.
One
At the beginning of the Spring Festival Gala in the Year of the Dragon in 2012, a little boy who looks like Fuwa appears, carrying a lantern and singing nursery rhymes.
It immediately attracted the attention of a national audience.
Since then, the red belly pocket, tiger head shoes, and peach heart have become the symbols of this cute little boy named Deng Minghe.
At the Spring Festival Gala of the Year of the Snake in 2013, Deng Minghe and his sister Deng Minglu performed the famous program of the year - "Cutting Flowers" on the spring evening.
No one thought that this sensible and lovely child would only have a short life like a flash in the pan.
Deng Minghe was born in August 2006 to an ordinary peasant family in Daming County, Handan City, Hebei Province.
Daming County is located at the junction of the three provinces of Jilu and Yu, with a long history, is a famous historical and cultural city.
Under the influence of Hebei and Shandong, especially Yu opera, the local people can sing two sentences.
Since the age of 1, Deng Minghe has lived with his grandmother.
Grandpa Deng Qinghua is a pipa player of the County Yu Opera Troupe and the only person in the local area who can play the pipa.
When there is a performance, the troupe will call out to Deng Qinghua.
Grandma took Deng Minghe with her to watch Grandpa perform.
Deng Minghe's enlightenment of opera mainly came from his grandfather's edification.
When he was more than two years old, Deng Qinghua was very surprised to find that his little grandson could sing with his mouth open.
Deng Minghe's first appearance on the stage was at a not-so-formal party, and Deng Minghe, who was more than two years old, was not afraid of the stage, and the part that could not sing was prompted by his grandfather in the back.
This performance made him a blockbuster.
Subsequently, Grandpa began to take Deng Minghe to the Old Cadre Bureau Drama Fan Association for rehearsals.
Every fan here can be regarded as the enlightenment teacher of the small stool.
Deng Heming not only has a good external image, but also is very sensitive to tone, and he can catch up with the tune immediately after turning the strings.
Coupled with an amazing memory, and a very high level of understanding.
At the beginning of learning to sing, I lacked the opportunity to perform in actual combat.
In order to exercise the small stool, Grandpa took him to run around with a blowing class.
This is a very hard thing for a child who is a few years old.
After that, the second grandfather, who was in charge of blowing the whistle, became the partner of the small stool, and the red and white wedding stage in the village became his main stage.
However, working outside, eating and sleeping in the wind, eating badly and not eating enough.
In the wind and snow weather, unable to take the car, the second grandfather can only hold a small stool and run all the way.
The harsh environment made the young stools really unbearable, and many times they cried all the way to their destination.
But whenever it was his turn to perform the show, he could immediately dry his tears, enter the state, and sing happily.
Two
Deng Heming's love for opera is from the bottom of his heart.
As Deng Heming's talent in opera performance became more and more prominent, the things taught by his family were obviously not enough for him to learn.
The Deng family played drums and sang opera for 5 generations, and only then did they wait for a Deng Minghe.
On his body, he carries the ideals of the whole family.
After some ideological struggle, Grandpa decided to send him to Huaiyang Zhao Ling Art School to study opera performance.
At this time, Deng Minghe was only 3 and a half years old, and he was the youngest student in the whole school.
A child under 4 years old, with little ability to take care of himself, other children are still spoiled in the arms of their parents.
Komeiga has begun his residential life.
Although parents feel reluctant to give up, for the sake of their children's future, they still make up their minds to agree to their children's study in a different place.
On the first day of going, Xiao Minghe hugged his grandfather and cried.
When Grandpa left, Xiao Minghe grabbed the school gate and called on Grandpa to take him away.
In the days that followed, Naruto's grandfather or grandmother went to see him once every two weeks.
Each time, Deng Minghe gathered around his grandparents, afraid of being left behind by them again.
But I never heard that the child's parents had made a special trip to visit the child.
Until a psychologist told Grandpa Deng Qinghua that prematurely letting the child lose the independent life of the family will bring negative effects to the child's future life.
Grandparents decided to give up their business, rented a house near the school, picked up Koruko every night, and sent her to school the next morning.
Deng Minghe, who could not adapt to the new environment, could devote himself to it every time he studied opera.
From the age of 3 to 5, Deng Minghe has been studying opera with Zhao Ling, and the two have a very deep relationship.
Seeing that Deng Minghe had learned well, Teacher Zhao recommended him to participate in the opera column "Pear Garden Spring" on Henan Tv.
Deng Minghe, who appeared on the big stage for the first time, easily won the silver medal of the children's group.
This means that with it, there are more and more performance opportunities and competitions.
However, in the eyes of Deng Minghe's aunt, his nephew Deng Minghe lost the childhood that a normal child should have.
Living in the circle of adults every day, many times even more sensible than adults.
While everyone else was concerned only about whether he flew high or not, perhaps only this aunt cared about whether he was tired of flying.
Unfortunately, the little aunt spoke softly, and Deng Minghe's life had long been arranged by the elders in the family.
Three
Not long after, Xiao Minghe ushered in the greatest opportunity in life.
In 2011, in the 15th section of the Chinese Children's Opera Plum Blossom Award, Deng Minghe came out on top.
This year, Deng Minghe was just 5 years old, and his efforts and understanding were far beyond his peers.
In the same year, he received an invitation to perform at the Spring Festival Gala on the "I want to go to the Spring Festival Gala" program, and the general director of the Spring Festival Gala that year was Ha Wen.
After the Spring Festival Gala, Deng Minghe was completely red.
Since then, the commercial performances and interviews with Deng Minghe have been endless, earning millions of dollars a year.
Whenever this happened, Deng Minghe did not forget to bring his sister Deng Minglu.
And the one who accompanies the two children on the show is always the grandfather.
Compared with his younger sister, the older Deng Heming appeared more confident.
5-year-olds on talk shows and don't shy away from the stage.
Not only was he receptive to being called "little stool," he also loved it.
Each time, his performance was both natural and mature, and he didn't see any tension at all, like an adult who had been practicing for years.
The younger sister on the side is slightly childish and nervous.
Whenever the host mentioned the parents, the grandfather would say that he had always been with the child.
Deng Minghe always said that his favorite person was his grandfather.
If Grandpa is not at home, he must hold Grandpa's pillow to sleep peacefully.
In addition, Grandpa also promised to find a good school for Xiao Minghe and train him to become a college student.
But fate made a big joke to this family.
In February 2013, Deng Minghe was diagnosed with leukemia.
This news was like a thunderbolt on a sunny day for the Deng family.
The only grandfather who came out to face the media could not cry.
Deng Minghe's parents quit their jobs and came to Beijing to take care of their sick children wholeheartedly.
Since only one parent can accompany her, her mother lives in the hospital to take care of Korumi.
Father and grandfather rented a house near the hospital and cooked and took to the hospital every day.
Strong Little Naruko, whether it is intensive treatment or waist puncture, bone marrow puncture is very strong.
No matter how uncomfortable it was, he held back his tears and thought about putting up with it.
He was always like a warm little sun, comforting his parents under great pressure and bringing joy to the children in the same ward.
6 months later, Deng Minghe recovered and was discharged from the hospital, and his mental state at that time was very good.
A month after being discharged from the hospital, Deng Minghe returned to school.
Unfortunately, fate caused him to fall ill again after stopping treatment for 3 months.
His family accompanied him to the hospital and underwent a hematopoietic stem cell transplant.
Half a year later, Komeiga's body took a sharp turn.
On the fifteenth day of the first month of 2014, when he was admitted to the hospital for treatment again, Deng Minghe's body could no longer withstand the intense treatment method.
In the last two months of his life, Korukawa had serious complications in his lungs and could only lie in bed to take oxygen and could hardly get out of bed.
On April 28, 2015, Korukawa closed his eyes forever.
Deng Minghe, who has left countless wonderful performances, has only lived in the world for a short period of 8 years.
He may really be a playful Fu doll, who comes to play in the human world and goes back.
Four
Deng Minghe's departure plunged the entire Deng family into immense grief.
The family could not believe that the carefully raised child had left forever.
Gradually, Grandpa shifted the focus of cultivation to his younger sister Deng Minglu.
Deng Minglu was born in 2008, 2 years younger than her older brother Deng Minghe.
Deng Minglu has also been deeply influenced by the art of opera since childhood.
With Deng Minghe Zhuyu in front, Deng Minglu has always followed the pace of his brother.
Because at that time, I had the successful experience of cultivating my brother.
In 2011, Deng Minglu, who was less than 3 years old, was also sent to Huaiyang, Henan Province, to study opera performance with Deng Minghe at the Zhao Ling Art Academy.
Deng Minglu has a very deep relationship with his brother.
Her brother is her umbrella, and Aeon guards her.
When they were young, the brothers and sisters were playing in the countryside and saw a snake.
Deng Minglu cried on the spot, although Deng Minghe was also afraid, he would still protect his sister.
After starting to study opera, Deng Minghe always helped his sister correct her expressions and movements.
After Deng Minghe first appeared on the Spring Festival Gala, he became the "Fuwa Baby" in the hearts of the people of the whole country.
Almost every time he goes on a show, he brings his sister with him.
The first time Deng Minglu went to the Spring Festival Gala, he was also with his brother.
Two invincible and cute young dolls, pen and hand to cut flowers, simply cute.
In fact, before going on stage, Deng Minglu was particularly nervous and did not dare to take the stage, Deng Minghe patted his chest and said: "Don't be afraid, there is a brother!" ”
Xiao Minglu, who successfully performed on the spring evening for the first time, agreed with her brother that she would attend the Spring Festival Gala every year from now on.
Who would have thought that this would be the last time Deng Minghe would appear on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala.
Because at this time, Deng Minghe was already suffering from leukemia, but he was mistaken by his family for a common cold and fever.
After his brother left, Deng Minglu's mood was particularly depressed.
Even to the point of crying as soon as I heard Yu Opera.
The strong grief and longing for his brother led to Deng Minglu's uncontrollable sadness as soon as he heard the opera, let alone study.
Because I cried as soon as I listened to the opera, the school's Peking opera course could not continue.
And the death of Deng Minghe also made Grandpa suffer a lot, overnight, almost ten years old.
He didn't have the heart to continue to teach Xiao Minglu to sing.
In this way, Deng Minglu did not study opera for a long time.
Until one day, the ticket lover who sang with Deng said to him: "You can't always be immersed in the sadness of the past, Minglu is also a good seedling of singing, you can't delay her." ”
After listening, Deng decided to cultivate his little granddaughter well, but he still decided to listen to Deng Minglu's ideas first.
After Listening to Grandpa's words, Xiao Minglu was a little hesitant.
In her heart, she was eager to continue to study opera, but she was afraid that when she heard the play, she would think of her brother, and she would cry when she thought of her brother.
As soon as Deng heard that his granddaughter was willing to learn drama, he was relieved.
Grandpa Deng Qinghua advised Xiao Minglu: "Brother will always look at you in heaven, as long as you sing the play well, your brother will be happier than he can sing himself." ”
Slowly, Xiao Minglu came out of the sadness of missing her brother and continued to study opera.
Deng Minglu is not only talented, but also works harder, and she continues the path her brother has traveled.
She finally got her own "Spring Festival Gala Invitation".
Deng Minglu carried her brother's dream and boarded the Spring Festival Gala in 2017.
While studying Peking Opera, Deng Minglu also did not forget the study of Yu Opera.
In Deng Minglu's eyes, his brother is a little genius in opera and a benchmark in his heart.
In Deng Minglu's story, his brother will always be the protagonist.
In the story of Grandpa Deng Qinghua, his brother Deng Minghe will never be indispensable.
Almost every time on a talk show, the host will mention his brother Deng Minghe.
As soon as she heard her brother's name, Xiao Minglu couldn't help but cry.
Even choked up to the point of being unable to speak, his brother would always be an indelible existence in Xiao Minglu's memory.
Deng Minglu, 14 years old this year, has come out of nowhere.
An excerpt from "Chaoyanggou", which used to be sung with his brother, now has a fixed little partner Chen Guohao.
Her performance of "Mu Guiying Hangs Up" is already very skilled, but there is no longer any guidance from her brother.
Deng Minglu missed her brother with her own practical actions.
I believe that every time Deng Minglu performs in the future, his brother will be in the sky, smiling at her.
Xiao Minglu is also just as she said, she will carry her brother's dream and continue to sing.
In fact, from deciding how to raise children, to accepting interviews and attending programs, it can be seen that Grandpa Deng Qinghua has a unique position in the Deng family.
Parents who should accompany their children are more like invisible people.
What they are absent is not only the child's childhood, but even the child's life.
The parents of the Deng siblings rarely appear in front of the camera, and after Deng Minghe left, they seemed to be more low-key.
They may regret spending too little time with Deng Minghe, and there are hardly many fond memories of spending time with their children.
By the time he was able to stay with his child for a long time, the child had fallen ill.
However, when Deng Minglu mentioned her family, there was still only her brother and grandfather, and her parents seemed to be absent from her life.
When the child's education is all pushed to the elderly, and parents only know how to enjoy the fruits of education, is the child's scenery and success really the result that parents want to pursue?