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Editor / Little Love Letter
Several years ago, the well-known movie star Liang Chaowei was at a movie launch, and the reporter asked him how to spend his leisure time. Liang Chaowei joked to himself:
"I'm an ordinary person, life is relatively simple, usually it's just a flight to London to feed the pigeons..."
The whimsical trip to the airport to catch a flight to London, and then go to a cup of afternoon tea and the pigeons in the square for half a day, such a life is really casual and comfortable.
But Liang Chaowei's "casualness" is not the first case in the show business circle, as early as the 1990s, Liu Zhibing had already done so.
A phone call made him make a temporary call, flying from Chengdu to Beijing.
However, he did not go to drink tea and relax, but to meet the beautiful person he was looking for, Ru Ping.
1. Tough guys have tenderness
Liu Zhibing, the leader of the current "Bayi Factory Actor Troupe", is a national-level actor, who has been filming for 45 years since he was 14 years old.
There are countless awards and honors, and in the eyes of the audience, many people may not be able to call his name, but they will definitely recognize his familiar face.
In life, Liu Zhibing is an ambitious northeastern man, but also because he grew up in a family of intellectuals, under the surface of this iron-blooded man, there is a heart with thoughts and emotions.
Before meeting his current wife, Ru Ping, Liu Zhibing had a marriage in his twenties, and he and his first wife also had a son, named Liu Sibo.
Liu Sibo
It is only with the development of the two people's careers that Liu Zhibing and his wife gradually have a gap, they have different goals of struggle, and different opinions affect the collision of personalities.
When his son was three or four years old, Liu Zhibing and his first wife parted ways, and the family of three was left with him and his son.
After the divorce, Liu Zhibing was in the year of establishment, and he could be regarded as young and promising, and his talent was complete.
Returning to singleness, he failed to find a suitable person to cover the trauma left by marriage for a long time to come.
"From my first marriage and divorce to the time I met Ru Ping, it took me five years.
Coming out of the process of healing and then determining that you have renewed confidence in your future career and emotions is not something that can be summed up in a few simple words. ”
Before knowing Ru Ping, Liu Zhibing had also met people who had a good feeling for himself or a good feeling for himself, but no one could stay by his side for a long time.
The wound in Liu Zhibing's heart had been waiting for a dose of medicine that was really suitable for him.
The opportunity to work, Liu Zhibing met Ru Ping.
Similarly, some people will feel strange when they hear the name, but when it comes to the "Shangguan Wan'er" played by Ru Ping in "Wu Zetian", it will definitely arouse the memories of many people.
When playing Shangguan Wan's childhood, Ru Ping was 28 years old, but in the play, she was as beautiful as a teenage girl.
It may be difficult to guess that at that time, Ru Ping was not only a third year old, but also a mother with a two-year-old daughter in real life.
However, the years of the early nineties were more or less mixed with some pain for Ru Ping and Liu Zhibing.
Both people struggle with each other in their first marriage, going through a process of sweetness, quarrel, disappointment, and sadness.
Perhaps it was because of this similar experience that fate deliberately arranged the fate of the two of them together.
After suffering the same pain, you can know the cold and warm of the other party, and five years of hesitation have made Liu Zhibing understand how precious Ru Ping's appearance is.
2. Watch for happiness
After the first cooperation and acquaintance, Ru Ping and Liu Zhibing had a preliminary understanding of each other.
Heaven arranged that soon there would be a play for them to star together and play a pair of lovers, which was undoubtedly the best time for their feelings to heat up.
However, Liu Zhibing could not wait, the scene had not yet been filmed, he had already taken the initiative to launch a "pursuit" for Ru Ping.
Liu Zhibing has a good brother who is in the same unit as Ru Ping, and when there are any suitors or any dynamics around Ru Ping, he will tell Liu Zhibing at the first time.
Because in the eyes of their group of friends, they are very optimistic about Liu Zhibing and Ru Ping together.
At the suggestion of a friend, Liu Zhibing made a phone call to Ru Ping. This phone call is very important, not this phone call Liu Zhibing can't see his inner thoughts, let alone know early that he and Ru Ping have so many common hobbies.
Liu Zhibing is influenced by her family and loves literature and art, and Ru Ping grew up reading in a pile of books. The two people invariably have a common love for literature and literature.
But to Liu Zhibing's surprise, Ru Ping, who looks gentle and quiet, is actually a football fan like herself!
When the phone rang, both of them were watching the ball. It doesn't matter if you don't ask, you open the conversation box as soon as you ask.
Later, Ru Ping had a drama performance in Beijing, and Liu Zhibing, who was originally working in Chengdu, temporarily bought a ticket for Zhang Fei to Beijing after he knew about it.
That night, in the crowd, Ru Ping unexpectedly saw Liu Zhibing's figure.
"Why are you here?"
"I'll take a look, learn to learn..."
Liu Zhibing's sudden appearance, the friends around him all knew his intentions, and so did Ru Ping. But that layer of window paper was not immediately broken.
When the time came for them to enter the group to shoot a drama together, it was a coincidence that the role played by Ru Ping in the play has been pursuing the role played by Liu Zhibing.
Such a plot arrangement, for two people who already have a good feeling, is not the most appropriate one to add an accelerant? Inside and outside the play, the relationship between Liu Zhibing and Ru Ping naturally developed with the trend.
"When I was filming the whole scene, I always liked him and pursued him all the time. In the end, I thought it was the way it should be. ”
Liu Zhibing's pursuit outside the play, Ru Ping made the same response in the play.
It's not so much that they're acting, it's better to say that they express their feelings in the life of the characters.
A scene of love, Liu Zhibing and Ru Ping established a love relationship, and later the two were married for many years, and the director of that play also said that he was their red bride.
It's just that the love between the two of them is no longer as pure and simple as the love of young people.
There are many other factors to consider besides each other, the first of which is that they both have a child.
Liu Zhibing's son, Ru Ping's daughter, is eight years old.
What should they do to get two children to accept each other and accept a new family. Liu Zhibing said that it depends on two words - sincerity!
3. We are all in this together
In the autumn of 1998, Liu Zhibing solemnly proposed to Ru Ping.
They each carry their children, from strangers in the sea of people to intimate relatives, after experiencing failure, they once again plucked up the courage to join hands and enter marriage.
Liu Zhibing's son, Liu Sibo, was exactly a hundred days older than Ru Ping's daughter Xi Wang. The newly formed family, one son and one daughter, just made up a "good" word.
"At the time, I thought it was the best part for him, because I had imagined before that it would be best if I married again and had children."
The identity of the stepmother did not make Ru Ping feel burdened, and she liked Liu Zhibing's son very much.
I have to say that Liu Zhibing and Ru Ping have done a very good job in educating children. After getting married, the first time they spent the New Year together, Liu Zhibing told his son:
"From now on, you are the brother, and you have to have the responsibility to learn to protect your sister and let your sister."
Ru Ping's daughter Xi Wang
Liu Zhibing's son is very sensible, whether it is for his new mother Ru Ping or this sister who suddenly appeared, he has shown the appearance of a son and an older brother.
The brother was polite and generous, and the sister was not happy.
"Why are you letting me? If I'm wrong, doesn't it mean that I'm used to it? ”
A child has responsibility, a child is not squeamish. The new family soon established an intimate relationship, but when the tongue and teeth bumped, not to mention the two young children.
After the brothers and sisters got acquainted, it was inevitable that when there were arguments and fights, sometimes the family also made the chickens and dogs jump.
Liu Zhibing and Ru Ping have a way, in addition to teaching children to distinguish between right and wrong, they will pour more love into each other's children. Liu Zhibing was very fond of this stepdaughter.
When they first married Ru Ping, they bought a house in Hangzhou as a new home, and at that time, Liu Zhibing rode his car every day to take his daughter to school and after school, while staring at the decoration of the house and taking care of her daughter meticulously.
At first, the daughter just sat behind Liu Zhibing, and then the daughter was willing to put one hand around him, and then the daughter would directly wrap her hands around his waist and lie her head on his back.
Such a process is the most real process for Liu Zhibing to close the distance between her daughter.
"My mom and dad love me. Having said that, I may not quite believe it, but in a way, my uncle (Liu Zhibing) loves me more. I feel like I'm the happiest kid in the world. ”
Ru Ping's daughter once wrote in an essay that this may be an affirmation that many biological parents cannot get, but Liu Zhibing did it.
He sincerely cherished his daughters, cherished his wives, and guarded their families.
Now, a pair of children have grown up to be more sensible and considerate, graduated from the Central Academy of Drama and the Jiefangjue Art Academy respectively, and are engaged in the work of actors.
Liu Zhibing and Ru Ping have cooperated in many film and television works over the years, and are a model couple envied by friends in the circle.
Some time ago, the two also starred in "We Are Good Together", which played a story of Captain Zhiqing and his first love reuniting after forty years.
Husband and wife, full of highlights.
In addition, Liu Zhibing recently starred in the hit drama "Lady's Law", and the acting skills of the old drama bone are impeccable.
Liu Zhibing sent Ru Ping a pair of shoes, and Ru Ping liked those shoes very much and always felt very comfortable to wear. Marriage is like shoes, it is uncomfortable to wear or not, only you know.
There is no one hundred percent perfect marriage, there is no smooth marriage, and there will be friction between two people who are in love.
Just like Liu Zhibing and Ru Ping, although Liu Zhibing is a good man who cares for his family and loves his wife, he is not a man who is romantic enough and emotional.
Ru Ping is also a person who likes the sense of ceremony. But even if there were some disappointments and small emotions in his heart, Liu Zhibing could always fill the vacancy somewhere else.
What people are looking forward to is not the end of the white head and the old one, but the process of knowing each other in the process of ups and downs.
Tolerance, trust, honesty and cherishing, such marriage and love are truly precious!