In the 1970s and 1980s, Taiwan's concubinage system was completely abolished, but many political and business tycoons still married several wives.
The most famous of these is the Ho Hung Sun family.
However, in order to take care of the emotions of several aunts, He Hongshen did not live together in the mansion as in ancient times.
But even so, the four rooms of the He family still made a lot of trouble, and in the end, the big too tragic death, the third too far away overseas, the second too four too balanced each other.
But the person we are going to talk about today not only lives under the same roof with his wife, but also gets along very well, and once became the most enviable man in Taiwan.
But in an interview, he said: "If there is an afterlife, I will never marry two wives, I am too tired!" ”
What's going on here?
01. Green plum bamboo horse
Because his father was a Kuomintang officer, Kou Shixun grew up in the compound of the Military Region in Taiwan.
After his father's death, his mother supported Kou Shixun alone, and many times, she put him in a neighbor's house.
The neighbor has a little sister named Cui Yaoqi, who is also the original match of Kou Shixun's main house 20 years later.
Kou Shixun and Cui Yaoqi are veritable green plum bamboo horses, and the two have maintained correspondence since then, and after graduation, they naturally entered the palace of marriage.
Cui Yaoqi is a typical traditional girl, plus she grew up in the military region, and she has always pursued marriage once in a lifetime.
She had thought that her love with Kou Shixun was like this, how could she expect fate to make people, when the shy and introverted young man actually put forward an "unreasonable" request that she could not accept after he had money.
02. Throw your arms and give hugs
Since he bought a TV set at home when he was a child, Kou Shixun secretly decided that he would become an actor when he grew up.
To this end, every college holiday, Kou Shixun runs around the various crews, playing passers-by and playing dead people.
Subsequently, well-known TV series such as "Pure Love" were broadcast one after another, and Kou Shixun finally gained a foothold in the entertainment industry.
And the winning streak of "A Cut of Plum" has made Kou Shixun a well-known big star.
I just don't know if I am used to acting as a big old man, and Kou Shixun is also obsessed with the life of three wives and four concubines in real life.
In 1988, Kou Shixun starred in Zhong Kaiqiang in "Priceless Love", and became a popular public lover in Taiwan.
Every time it was time to broadcast, countless young girls sat in front of the TV set, admiring the beauty while fantasizing about marrying Kou Shixun.
Among them is Xu Lidan, who is from a bodybuilding lady.
Xu Lidan's personality is spicy and cheerful, and he is determined to win the man he looks up to.
During that time, Xu Lidan sent a love letter every day, a gift for a few days, and often went to the crew to visit Kou Shixun.
As soon as he came and went, Kou Shixun developed feelings for this woman who looked good and had a bumpy figure.
But where is the friendship of the green plum bamboo horse so easy to shake?
In addition, Kou Shixun still has some contempt for the behavior of raising women.
But since ancient times, xu Lidan has more than three means, and Xu Lidan is one of the best.
When she first met Kou Shixun, she thought about it.
First prostrate low and make small, and when the time comes, then drive away the original match, and the dove occupies the magpie's nest.
Therefore, when Kou Shixun showed hesitation, Xu Lidan showed great sincerity, "I don't want a name, I don't want a share, I just want to live with you." ”
Imagine that the beautiful woman is in her arms, and says that it will not affect herself and the original match, which man can not be moved?
That's right, Kou Shixun fell.
In the next few years, Kou Shixun played the crew couple with Xu Lidan when filming, and returned to his home with Cui Yaoqi during the break to continue to play a good husband.
As they spent more and more time together, Kou Shixun's feelings for Xu Lidan became stronger and stronger.
Xu Lidan's ambition finally could not be hidden.
She told Kou Shixun that she wanted a name, even if the two women served together as a husband, it was better than hiding like this.
At that time, Kou Shixun's heart was also very unhappy.
Xu Lidan has accompanied himself for many years, and has also given birth to a son and a daughter, if he can't give her a name, his conscience will not go.
But if you give her a name, how is Cui Yaoqi in the family good?
Children make choices, adults naturally want it all.
So there was an event that caused a big earthquake in the Taiwanese media.
It turned out that Kou Shixun had taken Xu Lidan back to his home and lived under the same roof as Cui Yaoqi.
The two wives lived upstairs and one downstairs, and lived well.
The news of Kou Shixun and Xu Lidan often makes headlines in major entertainment sections, and Cui Yaoqi already knows this.
When Kou Shixun approached Cui Yaoqi and proposed the idea.
Cui Yaoqi originally wanted to refuse, but she could think about it.
How should a housewife live without her husband?
Since there is no escape, it is better to face it calmly.
In fact, there is another reason why these two women can get along harmoniously, that is, they are truly in love with Kou Shixun.
Cui Yaoqi and Kou Shixun are green plum bamboo horses, and their feelings do not need to be said.
And Xu Lidan was also a myriad of suitors at that time, she could give up the opportunity to marry into the rich and become the main house, and she had to make Kou Shixun a small.
From this, it is not difficult to see that Xu Lidan's feelings for Kou Shixun are no less than Cui Yaoqi.'s
03. Regret in later years: I don't want to marry two wives
As far as Kou Shixun's family harmony index was concerned, it was far superior to other big men with three wives and four concubines.
But why, in his later years, he firmly stated: "If there is an afterlife, he will never marry two wives"?
In fact, if you look at Kou Shixun's recent later life, you can find that the reasons are nothing more than two.
First of all, although Kou Shixun is rich, he is only an actor, even if the film remuneration is very high, compared with Ho Hongshen, Liu Luanxiong and others, it is still 18,000 miles.
Such a family, with a wife and two children, is more than enough.
Can raise two wives, four children but always feel inadequate, especially the two wives inevitably compete for the wind and jealousy, compare with each other, in the end always rely on money to solve.
This can be seen from his itinerary in the past few years.
In 2020, the 66-year-old Kou Shixun was hospitalized for a stroke, and did not rest long before continuing to return to the crew to shoot, just to earn an extra film remuneration.
Let me ask, which big guy who has been in the midst of a thousand flowers in the past 70 years will still make money so desperately?
Secondly, Cui Yaoqi was able to swallow her anger and agree to Xu Lidan's entry, on the one hand, she was worried that she did not have the ability to make money and could not afford to support herself; on the other hand, it was for the sake of her children.
But now, the child has long grown up, and Cui Yaoqi has also saved a lot of coffin books.
Naturally, he would rather not have a husband than see Xu Lidan, a fox billet.
Therefore, in his later years, Xu Lidan had a dispute with Cui Yaoqi and made Kou Shixun a head two big.
In desperation, Kou Shixun finally bought another mansion and let Xu Lidan's mother and son move out.
Finally, in recent years, many Hong Kong and Taiwan artists have come inland to seek gold, and Kou Shixun is no exception, forced to make a living, he has successively filmed popular dramas such as "Like Rain Like Fog and Like Madness", "Orange Red", "BraveHeart 2" and so on, which has been well received by many audiences.
However, since the story of monogamy was spread inland, Kou Shixun's fame has plummeted, even to the point where everyone spits on him, and his income has dropped sharply.
Combining the above three points, although Kou Shixun was a gentleman when he was young, he seemed to be shackled in his later years, and it is no wonder that he regretted it.
It is worth mentioning that Kou Shixun violated the moral bottom line, and his old age finally ushered in punishment, and I hope that everyone in front of the screen can take this as a warning, and do it and cherish it.