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"Teacher Schenkova beats sheep placenta, teacher, is this something that can be said?"
The recent popularity of this meme on the Internet comes from a conversation between Yuan Li and Sichenkova 10 years ago.
In front of the twenty or thirty reporters present, she directly revealed that Schenkova played "sheep placenta".
Subsequently, she asked calmly, "Is the skin unfolded?" ”
At that moment, Schenkova's face was like a dark cloud covering the sunlight, and it instantly darkened, and her eyes were a question: "What are you asking sheep placenta?" ”
The taste of reprimand was about to come out, and Yuan Li seemed to have not heard it, smiling like a naughty little girl.
This is not the first time they have met.
As early as 2011, they had famous scenes.
This year, Sichenkova was invited to attend the wedding of Yuan Li and her second husband.
At the wedding, she did not stay for a moment, leaving only a sentence: "I wish you a hundred years of reconciliation" and turned away.
It seems that the surface is calm and calm, but it is really hidden and turbulent.
The phrase "reconcile" has plunged countless people into deep thought.
Is it really appropriate to say the word "reconcile" at a wedding?
Perhaps he knew Yuan Li's personality too well, or perhaps he had doubts about her second relationship, so when Yuan Li got married for the third time, Sichen Gaowa did not even send blessings.
It's outrageous to say.
Yuan Li's first husband was an actor, and her second husband was a wealthy foreign businessman, and after wandering for a long time among two men with both fame and fortune, she chose to marry a mediocre, nameless and unprofitable poet.
What is the charm of this poet? They have been married for 3 years, are they okay now?
1.
Yuan Li has always been a free and straightforward person from childhood to adulthood, daring to love and dare to hate.
But before she met Liang Taiping, she never knew that marriage and life could complement each other.
She had always felt that as long as she was loved, as long as someone loved her.
The reason why she has such a concept is all derived from her mother's "eccentricity".
When he was a child, Yuan Li was often scolded by his mother pointing at his nose: "How did you give birth, why didn't you give birth to a boy?" ”
Mother Yuan has always liked boys, so she did a lot of homework before preparing to give birth, taking medicine and injections, and so on.
But no one expected that the birth was actually a girl.
So the dissatisfied parents had to pour their anger on her poor worm.
And every time he faces his parents' unprovoked accusations, Yuan Li always has a kind of doubt in his heart: "Am I so annoying?" Why don't my parents like me? ”
I thought that this kind of thing would not happen when Yuan Li grew up a little longer.
But quite the opposite.
Not long after, the Yuan family's parents gave birth to another son, and this time, Yuan Li's family status became lower, and his heart became more and more lacking in love.
Perhaps because of this, when she was violently pursued by the rich businessman Xu Wei, she did not hesitate to grasp this "life-saving straw".
Xu Wei gave Yuan Li endless favors.
Once, Yuan Li clashed with one of the actors in the crew because of the problem of shooting details, and directly quarreled.
Xu Wei, who learned of this, immediately put down his work and rushed to the crew without stopping.
"I'm not going to shoot this scene!" As soon as Xu Wei arrived at the scene, he heard Yuan Li's loud noise.
I thought he would directly take Yuan Li away from the scene, but he didn't expect him to walk lightly to Yuan Li and say with an incomparably spoiled smile: "If you don't shoot, you won't shoot, and I'll pay you the penalty." ”
After speaking, Xu Wei also handed Yuan Li a box.
Inside the box was One of Yuan Li's favorite bags.
At that moment, even a re-energized kitten will be tamed properly.
In this way, the mode of getting along between the domineering president and the little petite wife lasted for 12 years.
At that time, everyone thought they would get married, but no one expected that in the end, the two broke up because of a drama.
In 1998, Yuan Li and Lu Yi starred in the TV series "Never Look Away".
Perhaps the feeling of lack of love in childhood has sprung up again, or perhaps because of the plot, Yuan Li and Lu Yi interacted very ambiguously on the set.
After filming a scene every time, the two will talk and laugh, and occasionally wipe each other's sweat, like a small couple in the hot love period.
Not only that, when the TV series was broadcast, the scandal between Yuan Li and Lu Yi was also very popular, and countless people thought that they were angry because of the drama and were together.
Xu Wei, who learned of this, called Yuan Li on the spot and asked what was going on.
In the face of such a nervous attitude of her boyfriend, Yuan Li replied very calmly: "There is no thing." ”
Although Xu Wei believes in his girlfriend, once the seeds of doubt are planted, they will soon take root.
So when the scandal between Yuan Li and Lu Yi passed, she and Zhang Guoli spread the scandal.
Because she and Zhang Guoli co-starred in "Iron Tooth Copper Tooth Ji Xiaolan".
In the play, Du Xiaoyue, played by Yuan Li, and Ji Xiaolan, played by Zhang Guoguo, are feelings of mutual liking and admiration for each other.
Perhaps the plot is too real, so that many people think that the two are really together.
Even later, some media hyped up the matter, saying that "Deng Jie slapped Yuan Li for Zhang Guoguo."
The occurrence of this incident made Yuan Li's boyfriend Xu Wei feel the crisis again.
So he made a request to Yuan Li: "We have been talking for 12 years, it is time to get married, after marriage you can not shoot, I will raise you." ”
Such a seductive condition would have been agreed to if it had been placed on an ordinary girl.
But Yuan Li did not agree.
At that time, Yuan Li was 31 years old, and she felt that she had more possibilities and did not want to be bound to this man.
So in 2003, the two people who disagreed chose to break up.
2.
This breakup, Yuan Li's feelings are like hanging, one suitor after another surging forward.
The first is actor Zhao Ling.
The two came together because they starred in "The Colonel's Daughter".
The day he first entered the crew, Zhao Ling felt that Yuan Li was very beautiful and was his dream lover.
So he took the initiative to talk to Yuan Li.
At that time, Yuan Li had already had a world in the film and television circle, and in this crew, he was also a predecessor.
Therefore, Zhao Ling often went to Yuan Li with the reason of asking for advice on acting.
Yuan Li likes self-motivated boys, so every time Zhao Ling asks her a question, she will patiently answer it.
Gradually, Yuan Li, who had always been sensitive, sensed that something was wrong.
She found that every time the two of them read the script, Zhao Ling would always peek at her consciously or unconsciously.
This made Yuan Li still a little surprised in his heart.
So she directly punctured this layer of window paper and asked Zhao Ling face to face: "Do you like me?" ”
Yuan Li's words made Zhao Ling blush instantly, and he subconsciously nodded.
"Then let's try." Yuan Li has always been very blunt, and she does not like the gradual and slow development of feelings.
In this way, the two fell in love.
After 4 months in love, they got married.
From love to marriage in only 4 months, Yuan Li's model of pursuing love has always been fast and intense.
She always thought she could get more love when she got married.
But she realized that she was thinking wrong.
After marriage, Zhao Ling is like a changed person, because his career has not developed well, he has become very decadent, and he is addicted to alcohol all day.
Yuan Li persuaded him not to listen, so Yuan Li, who really couldn't stand it, directly proposed: "Let's get a divorce!" ”
One sentence contained all her disappointments about the marriage, and she didn't want to be sorry for herself.
But Zhao Ling did not agree at all.
How can a rich and beautiful wife let go easily?
He insisted on refusing to marry Yuan Li.
But this kind of little trick could not subdue Yuan Li at all, she directly fought a lawsuit, and the divorce was properly resolved.
During that time, it was often rumored: "Independent women are the most attractive, and Yuan Li is synonymous with independence." ”
That's right, Yuan Li is indeed independent and indeed charming.
Four years later, Yuan Li fell in love with Canadian businessman Lin Bowen.
Lin Bowen is 10 years younger than Yuan Li and is very painful.
So when Yuan Li met Lin Bowen, she really felt that she had met true love.
So she once again adopted the fast and intense love mode, and after only 4 months of acquaintance, she got married.
I have to say that young men really hurt girls.
Lin Bowen has praised Yuan Li on TV many times, and also showed his love for Yuan Li in front of the national audience: "She is my only one, I love her." ”
Such a romantic confession, Yuan Li's lonely heart was like being washed in with a touch of sunshine, incomparably warm, she muttered to herself: "This life is him!" ”
Yuan Li felt in Lin Bowen that her first husband had not given her happiness.
So in order to keep happiness, she is willing to continue to deepen this feeling.
And the way to deepen this is to have a child for him.
However, yuan Li's children did not stay long after independence and left the world.
This made Yuan Li very painful, and at the same time, it also made her see a lot of facts clearly.
Perhaps it is the cultural difference between the East and the West, during Yuan Li's pregnancy, eating and sleeping is very inconvenient, but Lin Bowen never helps.
Even when Yuan Li lost his child, Lin Bowen did not say a word of comfort.
Gradually, Yuan Li found that he and Lin Bowen had a great conflict of ideas and concepts.
They often quarrel over this.
So this time, Yuan Li couldn't help it and chose divorce.
3.
Yuan Li, who divorced again, has always thought that he can't find true love.
Don't even know what you want most?
She had always thought that the most important thing for the two to be together was to have love, so she had been running for love.
At that time, she never felt that marriage and life needed to complement each other.
In her eyes, marriage needs love and passion, and life needs to be down-to-earth and plain, and if she wants to integrate the two, it is a little difficult for her.
Until the appearance of Liang Taiping.
In 2019, Yuan Li once again announced the news of his marriage on the social platform.
As soon as the incident came out, countless people thought that Yuan Li was joking, and even some people lied in her name that the marriage was fake.
However, Yuan Li himself soon came forward to clarify the matter.
She did remarry, to an ordinary poet named Liang Taiping, who was 11 years younger than herself.
Liang Taiping was different from other men.
He has a "quiet" in his bones, he does not like to play games or drink and play, only likes to read quietly at home.
In college, he had a good habit of reading famous books and philosophical articles.
Like shen congwen, Wang Xiaobo and other works, Liang Taiping has seen it more than 5 times.
It is precisely because of these books that Liang Taiping has a rich accumulation of cultural knowledge.
Gradually, he began to write articles and poems modeled on these celebrities, and even held solo exhibitions.
Although Liang Taiping is very talented, he is indeed inferior to Yuan Li's previous two husbands.
But it was precisely this poor poet who really conquered Yuan Li's heart, so that Yuan Li finally realized the nourishment of love and the beauty of marriage.
During that time, it was often said that "the world that readers see is very thorough." ”
Indeed it is.
So when Yuan Li met Liang Taiping, she was immediately attracted by the "transparent" energy in his body.
Yuan Li has always been a lively and energetic person, and it is inevitable that there will be some impulses when doing things.
But Liang Taiping was different, he always stood silently behind Yuan Li, using the power of "Jing" to protect her.
Once, Yuan Li went to the countryside with her husband to pick strawberries, and he was happy, but he did not expect to rush out of the manor next door and run in.
The two little ones are not very old, they love to make a fuss, and they are messing around with the little strawberry trees.
He even ran around in the countryside and kicked all kinds of earth pits over and over again.
Big pastoral, instantly more "stained".
In the face of such "evil deeds", other people picking in the countryside have reminded them, but how can the two children with turnips older listen to it?
So it's time to play or play.
At this moment, Yuan Li, who had the aura of a queen, appeared.
She directly picked up the back collars of the two little guys, pulled them out, and warned them very seriously: "If you make trouble again, I will tell your parents!" ”
In a word, the two little guys who were instantly frightened and cried, wiping their tears while walking home.
Looking at the back of their departure, Yuan Li suddenly panicked.
They won't tell their families, will they?
Although the child did something wrong, she should not be so fierce, and yuan Li became a little confused for a while.
Just then, Liang Taiping came over.
He saw through Yuan Li's heart, hugged her shoulder and comforted: "In the future, don't follow the emotions, you must follow your own heart, and it is easy to solve it rationally, and we will buy something to send to the two children and apologize." ”
Liang Taiping's way of handling it has always been so, quiet and rational, which makes Yuan Li have a sense of stability in his heart.
But even so, their relationship has not been recognized by the public.
Not long after the two got married, someone broke out that Liang Taiping's family was not in good condition, and after marriage, he could only live in a small apartment with Yuan Li.
In the eyes of countless people, Yuan Li has always been noble, she has money and a career, plus the first two husbands are also famous and advantageous, so many people feel that only this type of person is worthy of Yuan Li.
The arrival of Liang Taiping just happened to break this type, so countless people could not accept it.
Some people even said that Liang Taiping was not worthy of Yuan Li.
However, whether the accompaniment is not worthy is not something that we outsiders can decide, for this matter, Yuan Li also specially issued a text to support her husband, saying that she is not worthy of him.
Not only that, in terms of loving Liang Taiping, Yuan Li is still vigorous.
She responded to her husband's love with the same type of poetry and praised him as a rare avant-garde poet.
Yuan Li once said that the biggest gain he and Liang Taiping had was to know what he wanted.
She had always wanted the love of others, and wanted others to give her love.
But she forgot that if she wants others to love her, she must first love herself.
And the appearance of Liang Taiping is to make up for this in her heart.
Liang Taiping often took her to the library to read books to improve her knowledge.
At the same time, Liang Taiping and Yuan Li will often do public welfare together.
They set up a special group about "pneumoconiosis patients" and led volunteers into the mountains to help them.
As long as he is with Liang Taiping, Yuan Li has always been full and happy.
However, the only regret is that there are no children.
In 2019, Liang Taiping said that he wanted a child, but now that 3 years have passed, this wish has never been realized.
But so what?
Even without children, Liang Taiping still loved Yuan Li fiercely.
In the past, Liang Taiping did not like to expose too much information about himself on social platforms, but he was willing to make changes for his wife.
He knew that marrying a big star would surely usher in a storm of discussion, but he was not afraid.
He was willing to give his wife countless senses of security, as long as it was what Yuan Li wanted to do, he was willing to accompany him.
Although Liang Taiping is 11 years younger than Yuan Li, he has never been less in love.
He told Yuan Li the beauty of this world and used the ability of "Jing" to make Yuan Li feel deep love.
4.
As of 2022, Yuan Li is nearly 50 years old.
In her life, life has always been ups and downs.
Because of the family environment since she was a child, she has always had "negative" expectations for marriage.
She hopes that marriage will heal herself and that she can feel love in her marriage.
However, when she experienced two failed marriages, she found that marriage could not only rely on love, but also needed to be suitable in all aspects.
So when she fell in the whirlpool of love and fell again and again, she finally met her true love Liang Taiping.
Although their pair is very unpopular with the public, the love between them has not been reduced by half a point.
Liang Taiping healed Yuan Li and let Yuan Li see the world of "Jing".
Similarly, Yuan Li also added the color of "moving" to Liang Taiping's life.
Moving and static is the best match.
A good marriage will make each other progress and make each other better.
No matter who it is, if you want to form a husband and wife with each other and have a harmonious family, you must not only have the ability to love, but also need to run into all aspects.
Maybe life has given you countless ups and downs and made you uncomfortable, but think about it from another angle, maybe this is to pave the way for your good life in the future?
Be yourself well, be kind to others, and you will eventually be bitter.