Some people say that if Gu Yiye and Qingmei are really together, they may end up having a bad time like Xiao Jiang's parents. It is also said that Xiao Jiang's parents were originally very compatible, and they were still in love even if they were divorced, and neither of them married again, but in the end they were still unhappy.
In fact, this contrast is not very scientific. Qingmei and Gu Yiye are both from the army compound, they are green plum bamboo horses, the door is right, and the two are equally excellent, they are the most suitable. And the era they are in is already the 80s, and Xiao Jiang's parents are not in the same era, not a type, and the concept of love and marriage is also different, and it is impossible to compare.
Xiao Jiang's parents are obviously not a good match. Xiao Jiang's father was from a grassroots background as uncultured as Gao Liang, while her mother was a famous pianist.
The marriage of Xiao Jiang's parents can be compared with "Parental Love". It's just that they are not like Jiang Defu, a naval officer from the same rural background, and Anjie, the daughter of a capitalist, in "Parental Love", the two worked hard to learn how to get along after marriage, how to tolerate and accept each other, and finally lived a happy and happy life in decades of bumps and bumps.
Jiang's mother is not as patient as Anjie, she is a famous pianist herself, and she is also very busy at work. Jiang's father was bent on the army, and Jiang's mother could not bear to take care of the children alone, take care of the housework, and gather less and leave more, and they did not have much opportunity to communicate.
So Jiang's mother proposed divorce many times, Zheng Yuan did not agree at first, and then a few years were sent abroad, and the work needed to be kept secret, so he agreed to divorce. Zheng Yuan may have loved Jiang's mother and never remarried, because he himself said that he had only loved this one woman in his life.
But Jiang's mother did not see that she did not say such things, and from the only few telephone communications with Zheng Yuan, all that was conveyed was dissatisfaction and complaints, and did not reflect the love for Zheng Yuan. She did not remarry after marriage is not a sufficient reason to still love, many women are not willing to find it again after divorce, not necessarily because they have always loved their ex-husband, right?
It is also a seemingly mismatched marriage - Jiang Defu and Anjie in "Parental Love" seem to be more admirable than Jiang's parents in handling the love marriage relationship.
The forms of marital love are varied, each different, and whether you can live happily depends on management. Even if two people like Gu Yiye and Qingmei, who outsiders feel are very compatible, if they are really combined, they should be like Jiang Defu and Anjie, and they should operate well in order to complete their lives together.
However, I believe that with the IQ and emotional intelligence of the two of them, they will do better.
