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Recently, I often see netizens discussing the TV series "Love Deep rain and rain", discussing the two characters of Fu Wenpei and Xue Auntie, and seeing many netizens say that they would rather have a mother like Aunt Xue than a mother like Fu Wenpei.
When we compare the children of these two people, we know who will have a better life, as Fu Wenpei's daughter, Yi Ping's life is very hard, and their mother and daughter are driven out of the house by Aunt Xue and live in a broken alley.
She has to worry about money every day, she goes to be a singer at a young age, sings in the wind and moon place to make money, just to support herself and her mother, and she is not supported by her mother, anyway, it is very difficult.
At the same time, her half-sister Ruping lives a carefree life, she grew up living in a mansion, enjoying the love of her parents, can go to college with peace of mind, fall in love, do not have to worry about money, and live a very easy life.
In contrast, do you think that with a mother like Aunt Xue, life will be much better, although it seems that she is a very hot woman, but she is using her own spicy to bring a stable life to her children.
As Fu Wenpei's daughter, because of her kind heart, she lived a hard life together, and was forced to grow into an adult, to the heart that should be by an adult, and the life was very bad.
Judging from the origins of Fu Wenpei and Aunt Xue, Fu Wenpei is even better, because she is from a famous and prestigious family, and she is a bridesmaid, and Aunt Xue's origin is very bad, as a famous and prestigious family, why did she lose to Aunt Xue?
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In fact, the reason is very simple, Fu Wenpei is from a famous family, the education received from childhood, must be a good wife and mother, learn to be gentle and humble, she also shows this way.
At the beginning, Lu Zhenhua looked up to Fu Wenpei, because she was like Lu Zhenhua's first love, so he married her home, from the perspective of their identity and status, it is really a good match, one is an officer with social status, one is a famous lady, put in the present, such a combination is simply not too good Oh.
But the problem is that their society at that time was completely different from now, in the society at that time, a man could marry several wives, as long as he had money and could support himself, and Lu Zhenhua had such an ability, he was not short of money, so he saw one and loved one.
In that environment, marrying a man like Lu Zhenhua means that you will definitely not get his exclusive favor, and if you want to get his favor, you will definitely need some means.
And Fu Wenpei, who came from a famous and prestigious family, has never experienced such a cruel society since she was a child, where she understands these cruel social laws, she is a person who does not argue and does not grab, what you give me, you do not give me, I cannot beg you, I love face very much.
If Lu Zhenhua married a wife like her, then her life was still relatively leisurely, but she married back to the hot aunt Xue, which naturally turned her life upside down and made her restless. No, Fu Wenpei and Yi Ping were driven out by her.
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Aunt Xue and Fu Wenpei's origins were just the opposite, she was not as carefree as she was from childhood, but from a drama, and from a young age, she relied on singing opera to earn living expenses, and in that era, drama had no status.
Because she grew up in such an environment, she became a very observant and very spicy personality, when she was looked at by Lu Zhenhua, she did not hesitate much, but felt that her good life was coming, marrying a man like Lu Zhenhua, and she would not be able to eat and clothe worry-free in the future.
Marrying Lu Zhenhua really changed her life destiny, and since then she has been a broad wife who wants to enter the glory and wealth of Lu Zhenhua, and she no longer has to look at people's faces every day, and she does not have to go out so hard to beg for a life.
It is not enough to marry Lu Zhenhua, because he still has several wives, her position is still precarious, she is well versed in the law of the jungle of society, the weak eat the strong, only if she is strong enough, can she consolidate her position, and her children can enjoy happiness with them.
With her pungent personality, Lu Zhenhua's other wives were certainly not her opponents, and in the end, the Lu family became her own world, one person dominating Lu Zhenhua's mansion and taking her daughter to live a worry-free life.
For Fu Wenpei and Yi Ping, she hated themselves to the bone, even if she had driven them out of the house, she still regarded them as a thorn in her eye, and she was eager to kill them all and never have any trouble.
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It is their different personalities that lead to their different endings.
Fu Wenpei is a lady of everyone, a gentle personality, not to argue, and blindly pursues a good reputation, does not want to be looked down upon, very white lotus, resulting in her own life is very bitter, and her daughter also suffers together.
This is her destiny, because she is such a person, she can't be a hot person like Aunt Xue, if she is also very hot, then the subsequent plot must be rewritten.
And Aunt Xue, she is a very aggressive person, very good at thinking for herself, she even unscrupulously achieves her own goals, without any entanglement, and there will be no sense of moral uneasiness, because she has no morality.
If she is in the jungle, then she is the king of the forest, and no one can easily enter her territory, because she will not allow others to step in, and she will do everything she can to guard her enclosure.
Such a Fu Wenpei, when she met such a snow aunt, she naturally became a defeated general.
If it is you, do you want to live like Fu Wenpei, not to argue, to keep your reputation as a so-called everyone's bridesmaid, or to live like Aunt Xue, to do your best to scramble and create a better life for yourself?
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Article illustration | Stills of "Love Deep rains down"