In the 1980s, a song "Little Poplar" became popular all over the country.
The singer Yan Weiwen has since turned over the salted fish and become popular.
He appeared on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala 12 times, making him famous and becoming a well-known "warrior singer".
What is surprising is that he has a smooth career and is still a good husband with deep feelings and righteousness in marriage.
Yan Weiwen has never made a scandal, but he has been praised by the gossip media for many years.
Accompanied his wife to fight cancer for 34 years, and even willing to endure the pain of playing with his wife for 3 months, he only loved his wife for 40 years.
His deeds are touching.
The deep affection that does not abandon is even more admired by countless people.
In addition, his son-in-law is also a dragon and phoenix among people, not only has a good background, but also has a good character, and is a good man who is as loyal as he is.
As a generation of singers, Yan Weiwen's life experience can be called a big ups and downs, and now he is bitter and willing to complete.
01, overnight popularity, become a famous "warrior singer"
Yan Weiwen was born in Shanxi in 1957.
When he was a child, he did not like to sing, but wanted to become a soldier and defend his family.
However, his father did not favor this road and forced Yan Weiwen to develop towards music.
In elementary school, his father taught him to sing and various musical instruments.
Kung Fu pays off, under the study of Yan Weiwen, he was admitted to the Shanxi Song and Dance Troupe at the age of 13.
However, after entering the song and dance troupe, Yan Weiwen ushered in a big problem.
When my father trained his artistic cells, he did not have the task of dancing.
The other children entered the song and dance troupe, and it was effortless to press their legs and split their forks.
Only Yan Weiwen's body was stiff, and he couldn't even do simple actions such as pressing his legs and lowering his waist.
In the song and dance troupe, after two years of suffering, his fate ushered in another turnaround.
In 1971, the propaganda team of the military region openly selected song and dance talents.
After Yan Weiwen learned about it, he did not hesitate to risk being expelled from the song and dance troupe and secretly signed up to participate.
His singing shocked the judges and teachers.
They all felt that Yan Weiwen's singing voice was very loud and had a righteous force.
Yan Weiwen, 15, entered the propaganda team of the troops.
Later, by chance, Yan Weiwen met a professor in Shanxi.
The professor felt that Yan Weiwen's musical talent was very high, and decided to call him vocal music himself.
In this way, under the careful teaching of the professor, Yan Weiwen's singing skills grew day by day.
He also grew from the initial little singer to a pillar in the propaganda team of the army.
In 1979, the General Political Department Song and Dance Troupe went to the propaganda teams of the military regions in the four places to select talents.
Yan Weiwen successfully passed the exam and became a member of the General Political Song and Dance Troupe.
By 1983, the troupe organized actors to perform on the Qinghai-Tibet Plateau.
For the first time, Yan Weiwen served as the lead singer and soloist on a 4,000-meter-high plateau.
Later, friends around him ridiculed him:
The starting point is high.
Yan Weiwen, who is a little famous, participated in the first Youth Song Competition.
A song "Little Poplar" has since become popular in the streets.
However, the first time Yan Weiwen participated in the Youth Song Competition, he did not win the championship.
But Yan Weiwen did not give up, and later went to the competition many times.
In 1985, Yan Weiwen went to the front line with the troops for the first time to perform.
That time was an unforgettable experience of his life.
Yan Weiwen deeply remembers that the time he went to perform was the Mid-Autumn Festival.
But the soldiers in the atmosphere of war, do not have the mood of the festival.
After the performance, Yan Weiwen listened to the distant sound of artillery fire and felt thrilling.
He had always had a habit of keeping a diary, but he didn't sleep that night or write a diary.
I am afraid that if I write a diary, the next day it will become a last word.
He followed the warriors, waded through the mountains and rivers, and survived those difficult years with perseverance.
This experience allowed yan Weiwen to learn not to give up and bravely move forward when encountering difficulties.
In the blink of an eye, 3 years passed, and in 1998, Yan Weiwen participated in the Youth Song Competition again.
He won the first place in the national professional group in one fell swoop, and also became a well-known big star in China.
But he held the trophy in his hand, but his heart was worried about the body of his beloved wife in the audience.
02, the wife suffered from cancer, did not abandon the companionship for 34 years
Yan Weiwen, 15, and his wife, Liu Weixing, 14, met.
When Yan Weiwen entered the army, the recruits had a "one-on-one" support activity, and the two were assigned together.
Yan Weiwen is handsome and Liu Weixing is lively, and in getting along, they are attracted to each other.
However, when Yan Weiwen wanted to confess, he heard someone say that love could not be talked about in the army.
Once discovered, punishment is made in accordance with discipline.
At the wrong time, what should I do if I meet the right person?
Yan Weiwen could only hide this deep love in his heart.
Later, Yan Weiwen wanted to enter the General Political Song and Dance Troupe to work.
He was very anxious, and going to a new unit meant being separated from his lover.
Yan Weiwen took the initiative to find Liu Weixing and wanted to hear the other party's thoughts.
When Liu Weixing knew that it would be better to go to the General Political Song and Dance Troupe, he did not hesitate to support him.
And told Yan Weiwen that he could contact him by letter in the future.
In this way, they become long-distance relationships.
After the separation, Liu Weixing has been in contact with Yan Weiwen, and the two will call, communicate letters, and exchange heartfelt complaints.
Across thousands of waters, what remains unchanged is a heart that loves you.
In 1982, Yan Weiwen took the initiative to propose marriage, and the two entered the palace of marriage hand in hand.
The following year, his wife gave birth to her daughter Yan Jingjing.
Since then, his wife has taken care of the housework alone, and he has earned money to support the family outside, and his life has been very sweet.
Yan Weiwen's career has risen step by step, and his wife is also happy for him.
But in 1988, before the 31-year-old Yan Weiwen participated in the Youth Song Competition, his wife Liu Weixing was diagnosed with cancer.
The doctor recommended that Liu Weixing operate immediately to prevent the cancer cells from spreading and unable to be treated.
Liu Weixing is caught in a dilemma, on the one hand, her husband is going to participate in the Youth Song Competition, and on the other hand, it is a major matter of life and death for himself.
After thinking twice, Liu Weixing refused to operate, she did not want to operate to affect her husband's career.
Yan Weiwen told Liu Weixing that he was willing to give up the game and accompany her.
But Liu Weixing stubbornly disagreed with the operation, until her husband stepped onto the stage and went to the hospital for surgery.
Yan Weiwen saw that his wife had made up his mind, so he had to follow her and go to the competition.
On the day of the competition, Yan Weiwen asked his wife to stay at home and not to watch his concert.
In fact, Yan Weiwen was afraid that his wife was seriously ill and could not stay up.
However, after Yan Weiwen left, Liu Weixing quietly followed him to the scene.
She had been sitting offstage watching her husband's game.
Even when the heart-rending pain struck her body, her heart felt very happy.
When Yan Weiwen was singing, he saw his wife's uncomfortable expression below, and tears swirled in his eyes.
Under the depth of love, the song is even more moving.
After the game, Yan Weiwen won the first place.
And he also rushed to the stage and hugged his wife tightly.
After that, Yan Weiwen accompanied his wife and embarked on the arduous road of fighting cancer.
When my wife was uncomfortable, she didn't want to eat all day.
Yan Weiwen changed the method to cook for his wife and accompany her to chemotherapy.
At first, Liu Weixing also had negative thoughts, thinking that he was a burden to her husband.
And she was very touched to see that her husband did not sleep all night to take care of himself.
Liu Weixing secretly thought in his heart, he must get better quickly and let her husband rest.
After a long period of chemotherapy, Liu Weixing's condition improved somewhat.
Yan Weiwen's work was also busier, and in the next few years, he had to attend the Spring Festival Gala every year.
His wife was recuperating at home, and he was struggling to make money outside.
I was expecting my wife to get better.
But by 1992, Liu Weixing's condition had relapsed acutely, and he almost died.
Fortunately, the rescue was timely and a life was recovered.
Yan Weiwen, who is at the peak of his career, does not hesitate to give up the opportunity to continue to work hard in order to take care of his wife.
After Yan Weiwen's company, Liu Weixing's physique was much better.
During this time, almost every morning, Yan Weiwen would take the initiative to wake up his wife and get up to exercise.
In 1996, Liu Weixing's condition was serious again.
After many extremely painful chemotherapy, Liu Weixing gradually lost confidence.
She began to refuse to take medicine, to refuse treatment, and to go to another world that was not painful.
Yan Weiwen, who is in good health, in order to make his wife better, did not hesitate to accompany his wife to play the Bottle in March.
Finally, Liu Weixing was touched, and she actively cooperated with the treatment again.
In the years that followed, Liu Weixing's condition has been well controlled.
And all this is inseparable from Yan Weiwen's care.
Every day, he would carefully feed his wife medicine and prepare some small snacks to make her happy.
It is reported that Yan Weiwen bought a lot of cooking books to go home during the more than ten years of taking care of Liu Weixing.
And every time Liu Weixing will force himself to eat more and not to live up to her husband's wishes.
The feelings of the husband and wife are getting deeper and deeper.
But the daughter's emotional problems have always bothered them.
03, Yan Weiwen is very good to his son-in-law
Her daughter was strictly educated by Yan Weiwen since she was a child, and after finishing junior high school, she went to Canada to study.
After graduating from high school, her daughter Yan Jingjing was admitted to a well-known school in the United States and lived in the United States for 4 years.
As soon as she graduated, Yan Jingjing returned to China to develop.
At first, the husband and wife were still very happy, thinking that their daughter loved the country very much and was very sensible.
However, after her daughter returned to China, she has been working hard for her career.
This made Yan Weiwen a little worried, a girl in her 20s, is a good age to get married.
If you miss it, it will be difficult to find an object in the future.
Yan Weiwen asked his friends to see the right boy and introduced him to his daughter.
Unexpectedly, the daughter had long been in love, and the other party was still a bully-level boy.
At first, Yan Weiwen was very happy and felt that his daughter had a good vision.
But when I inquired, I learned that the future son-in-law is not only excellent, but also has an excellent family background.
(Li Hehe's family)
Li Hehe, a child born into a diplomatic family.
His father, Li Zhaoxing, was a former minister of foreign affairs, and most of his mother's relatives also held diplomatic positions.
Whether it is family lineage or personal ability, Yan Weiwen recognizes it.
But as an old father, I can't help but worry that the other party is so good, will my daughter be wronged when she marries?
Perhaps the other party's family also looked up to Yan Jingjing, and soon after, Li Hehe's parents called and took the initiative to talk to Yan Weiwen.
As soon as they met, Li Hehe's parents said that they liked Yan Jingjing very much.
They hope that the two children will get married sooner.
Yan Weiwen nodded, he was also very satisfied with this excellent son-in-law.
In December 2008, Li Hehe and Yan Jingjing hosted a grand wedding ceremony at a five-star hotel in Beijing.
On that day, many of Yan Weiwen's friends in the circle participated.
Such as Cai Guoqing, Guo Da, etc., were present.
After marriage, Yan Jingjing and Li Hehe lived alone.
But the young couple disagreed and often quarreled.
The Cold War has plunged marriage into crisis.
At this moment, Yan Weiwen took the initiative to stand up and persuade her daughter to learn to tolerate and understand each other.
At first, Yan Jingjing also complained to Liu Weixing, saying that her father did not love himself and loved his son-in-law.
It was not until after 2010, with the birth of her daughter, that Yan Jingjing understood Yan Weiwen's strong love.
Since Yan Jingjing changed herself, her husband is also changing.
In the past, Li Hehe was somewhat macho and rarely took care of housework.
But seeing Yan Jingjing tired, he felt a pang of guilt.
I feel that I shouldn't let my wife give everything and do nothing myself.
Over time, Li Hehe began to study with Yan Weiwen, and as soon as he returned home from work, he would rush to do housework.
After his wife gave birth to a pair of babies, Li Hehe would also gently take the children to play.
Later, after the children were older, Yan Jingjing also found a job.
Sometimes when Yan Jingjing was working overtime or did not drive to work, Li Hehe would drive to pick up his wife.
Her husband's carefulness made Yan Jingjing quite moved, and she felt that her life was very good.
She had always envied her mother and had a good husband.
Unexpectedly, the husband has now become a good man like a father.
Under the polishing of life, yan jingjing and her husband's feelings have become more and more intense, and they no longer quarrel between the two ends of the three days.
As for Yan Weiwen, he is even more protective of the two babies born to his daughter.
As long as there is no performance, he will take the initiative to pick up the two babies to come home.
He will carefully bathe the babies, coax them to sleep, and take them out to play.
Although Yan Weiwen is old, he and his wife have some difficulty in taking care of the two babies.
But the couple saw that the two babies grew up day by day, and their hearts were quite happy.
In recent years, Yan Weiwen's workload has decreased a lot, and he is also happy to enjoy life.
In 2019, he also posted a picture of eating fried sauce noodles.
After the epidemic, Yan Weiwen rarely went out, and usually spent more time at home with his grandson.
In April 2022, Yan Weiwen appeared at a high-level dinner.
At the dinner party, Yan Weiwen sang a song, and he could see that he was very excited.
Yan Weiwen, 65 years old, accompanied his wife to fight cancer for 34 years, after experiencing half a life of twists and turns, finally ushered in the consummation of the family.
Husband and wife are harmonious, daughters and sons-in-law are happy and sweet, and one grandson is even more lively and cheerful.
Epilogue:
Teacher Yan Weiwen has not made a scandal in his life, nor has he been on a variety show, and his popularity is not as high as that of traffic stars.
But he has accompanied his wife to fight cancer for decades, and he also washes and cooks for his wife at home, which can be called the three best men in the entertainment industry.
However, Mr. Yan Weiwen is not only a model husband, but also a good father.
He used his own actions to affect his daughter's marriage, from the original quarrel to the current sweetness and happiness.
As the saying goes, if you marry a good wife, all three generations will be happy.
And to Teacher Yan Weiwen, there is a good man to support the family, and the children and grandchildren are full of perfection.
In fact, what the outside world does not know is that Teacher Yan Weiwen is still doing good deeds every year.
When encountering disasters in China, Teacher Yan Weiwen will also silently donate money.
Whether it is the Wenchuan earthquake in 2008 or the flood in 2021, he has donated money.
It's just that he has always acted low-key, and he has not publicized it to the outside world.
Looking back at the lives of Yan Weiwen and Liu Weixing, from meeting at the age of 15 to three generations of the same church.
They have experienced wind and rain, but also greeted sweetness, and finally overcame all difficulties and achieved a good story in the entertainment industry.
Teacher Yan Weiwen's behavior is worthy of admiration and learning.