"If I hadn't encountered true love in this life, I would have passed like this, but Heaven had its own arrangements, and he sent Wang Ling down."
In 2015, Gao Shuguang took his newly married Yan'er's beloved wife Wang Ling on the show together, and it had been exactly 12 years since Gao Shuguang's last marriage.
He thought that this life had passed like this, but he met Wang Ling, who was 16 years younger than himself, and the two quickly fell in love and married.
However, Wang Ling is not an insider, not only can she not help Gao Shuguang in her career like Jiang Shan.
Moreover, Wang Ling, like Gao Shuguang, once had a failed marriage.
To be fair, although Wang Ling has a great advantage in age, she is inferior to Jiang Shan in terms of appearance and temperament.
So why did Gao Shuguang become gentle and considerate because of her, incarnating as a warm husband.
Where is she stronger than Jiang Shan?
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Wang Ling often thought that if she hadn't met Gao Shuguang, perhaps she would have spent the rest of her life alone.
Before meeting Gao Shuguang, Wang Ling experienced a 10-year marriage.
The ex-husband is Zhang Cong, the son of a wealthy businessman, and after marriage, the two ran Shanghai Yajia Fashion Porcelain Industry Co., Ltd. together, and they are husband and wife and partners.
But ten years of wear and tear away each other's love also made them feel that the marriage had no point in continuing.
Life in the world, living in the present, coupled with the fact that the two have not had children for ten years, for each other, whether the marriage ends or not, there is no bond between the two.
So after some thought, Wang Ling ended this marriage with Zhang Cong.
This failed marriage has brought Wang Ling a great influence, and after the divorce, she has been in a very "Buddhist" state for marriage and feelings.
It was even good to think that this life was like this, after all, she didn't need anyone to rely on to live.
Wang Ling immigrated to Brazil with her parents at the age of nine, and only returned to China at the age of twenty-one.
In addition to the company she co-runs with her ex-husband, she also represents ceramic tableware and glassware products of well-known brands at home and abroad, as well as serves as the executive director of Wang's Caviar Company.
With a job and an income, she can be busy with work, busy with life, busy with her little sisters to drink, shopping, and live some relaxed life.
But the sisters around her still hope that she can talk about love while she is still young, especially the actor Wang Lin, and the champion Zhuang Yong, who took the initiative to introduce her boyfriend, and Gao Shuguang is one of them.
Once, Wang Lin took the initiative to send her a message saying that she wanted to introduce a friend named Gao Shuguang to her.
At that time, Wang Ling did not think about it and asked Wang Lin if the other party could drink, and after receiving a positive answer, Wang Ling gladly agreed.
Wang Ling believes that drinking is the most able to see a person's character, and can also see what many people can't see when they are awake.
Therefore, whether she knows friends or boyfriends, she will definitely examine the item of drinking.
Wang Ling initially only went to the appointment with the attitude of drinking and knowing and seeing, but what Wang Ling did not expect was that this time she met the person who accompanied her for the rest of her life.
Gao Shuguang also had a marriage before meeting Wang Ling.
In 1995, during the filming of "I Want to Have a Home", Gao Shuguang fell in love with Jiang Shan and married at the end of the filming of the TV series.
This marriage was called the happiness of the ideal into reality at the time, but because of the drama, it will eventually break up because of the drama.
In October 2003, Gao Shuguang and Jiang Shan ended their eight-year marriage, and their daughter Gao Yixin was raised by Jiang Shan.
The eight-year marriage ended in divorce, which also made Gao Shuguang very sad about marriage, so it also made him change his attitude toward marriage.
In the past, it was enough to have love, but later he would consider whether two people were suitable.
So for more than a decade, although there were still people who often pursued him, he never chose to remarry.
Two people who have been involved in marriage meet under the line of friends, and fall in love with each other at first sight, quickly confirming the relationship.
Later, Wang Ling said this about the development of their relationship:
"Everything is so natural, everything is just right."
Such a feeling may only be understood by those who have experienced it, and not long after they were together, Gao Shuguang proposed to Wang Ling.
In May 2013, Wang Ling's birthday was also in the middle of this month, so she planned to celebrate this birthday with Gao Shuguang.
But it just so happened that there was a very good movie at that time that found Gao Shuguang, and Gao Shuguang was very impressed with this movie.
Wang Ling and Gao Shuguang said that their birthday party could be moved to Dali, Yunnan Province, where the filming was held, so that they would have the best of both worlds.
Wang Ling's intimate behavior made Gao Shuguang feel very moved in his heart, and at the same time, he was also considering taking the opportunity to propose to Wang Ling.
On the day of Wang Ling's birthday party, the scene was full of flowers, all her good friends were on the scene, and Gao Shuguang wore a white shirt and knelt down on one knee towards Wang Ling in the presence of everyone:
"Wang Ling marries me, okay, give me the rest of your life, and I will definitely take good care of you."
Wang Ling was surprised and happy at that time, and in Gao Shuguang's earnest and affectionate gaze, she also nodded generously and agreed to the marriage proposal, so she handed over the rest of her life to Gao Shuguang.
The weather in Dali that day was very good, just like Wang Ling's mood that day.
Some people may say that she was impulsive, experienced a failed marriage and dared to flash marriage so easily, and also married a married man.
But love is love, she believes in Gao Shuguang, and she also loves Gao Shuguang deeply.
If fate doomed her to fall in the marriage again, she also confessed.
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It turns out that after people fall on their heads for the first time, the second time they will become more cautious and serious, whether it is Gao Shuguang or Wang Ling, they have paid twelve times more seriousness and patience for this marriage.
More than three months after the marriage, Wang Ling became pregnant.
At that time, Wang Ling and Gao Shuguang were in Canada, and when they returned to China for examination, Wang Ling was very happy, and Gao Shuguang was even happier like a big boy jumping up directly.
For the arrival of this child, the couple is full of expectations, especially the mother-to-be Wang Ling:
"I belong to the monkey, this child is also a monkey, and Gao Shuguang will have to manage two monkeys in the future."
And Gao Shuguang, who was about to become an old father, loved Wang Ling even more.
Not long after confirming his pregnancy, Gao Shuguang began to buy everything he wanted, from his wife's maternity clothes to clothes and toys after the birth of the child.
Gao Shuguang also specially took Wang Ling abroad to meet his daughter Gao Yixin.
For this daughter, Gao Shuguang has always felt very indebted, so he will regularly go abroad to see her, so he has to have children when he remarries, so he should talk to her.
Fortunately, Gao Yixin is very well-behaved and sensible, not only gets along well with Wang Ling, but the two often go out shopping and eating together.
And when Gao Shuguang and her daughter said that she was about to have a younger brother, Gao Yixin was also very happy, and even said that she could bring it to her later, and she could play with her brother.
Such a harmonious family relationship made Wang Ling also very comfortable, before she was worried that she would not handle the relationship with Gao Shuguang's daughter, and now it seems that she is worried.
The only sad thing is her more serious morning sickness reaction, this is her first pregnancy, so the temper and taste are more "strange".
For example, she doesn't have much appetite during the day, but at night, Wang Ling wants to eat all kinds of things, and the shops that eat things are very scattered, sometimes even distributed in the four directions of southeast, southwest, and northwest.
Fortunately, Wang Ling met a good man like Gao Shuguang, no matter how late, no matter how far away, Gao Shuguang would drive out to buy Wang Ling back one by one, rain or shine, without complaint.
Under the care of Gao Shuguang, although Wang Ling's pregnancy was relatively hard, she still felt the happiness of being cared for, and gave birth to her son smoothly.
When Wang Ling gave birth to her son, it was close to Gao Shuguang's 52nd birthday, so Gao Shuguang took a photo on her birthday to announce the birth of her son:
"Heaven gave me an unparalleled birthday gift! Thanksgiving! Boy, we can have a birthday together every year. Mom worked hard and loves you. ”
Many people can't believe that Wang Ling and Gao Shuguang have completed marriage proposals, marriages, pregnancies and other things in more than half a year, but they have lived so happily.
But only the two of them knew that they seemed to be arranged by Heaven for marriage, and they had both experienced a failed marriage.
Attitudes towards marriage and relationships are more mature, and after getting together, they find that they are really a good fit.
Wang Ling belongs to the more toss-and-turn people, often going out at night to ask friends to drink, while Gao Shuguang belongs to the more homely people, more introverted people.
After being together, they got along surprisingly well, Wang Ling occasionally stayed at home with Gao Shuguang to rest, and Gao Shuguang occasionally accompanied Wang Ling to go out to parties and drinks, and lived a world of two people.
In addition to the differences, the two actually have many of the same living habits, and Wang Ling and Gao Shuguang both like sports.
So sports became their common hobby after marriage, and the two often exercised together and strengthened their bodies together.
There are many differences between the two, but they are willing to run into each other, and there are many similarities between the two, but they are willing to share with each other.
Maybe that's why their marriage has been able to go through year after year.
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As for where Wang Ling wins compared to Jiang Shan, not in the family lineage, not in the background, of course, not in beauty, but in the time of meeting Gao Shuguang.
When Jiang Shan and Gao Shuguang were together, they were still relatively young to each other, and they were not mature enough to treat marriage, so they finally chose to end because of their immaturity.
When Wang Ling and Gao Shuguang met, it was precisely when they matured.
Because both people have experienced a failed marriage, similar experiences have allowed them to empathize with each other and understand how to get along in marriage for a long time.
As for Wang Ling, I have to say that she is a very "cool" woman.
If she loves deeply, even if she and Gao Shuguang know and fall in love for a long time, she dares to enter the palace of marriage with him again;
If you don't love, ten years of marriage will end when it ends, and you will definitely not drag the mud and water and refuse to entangle.
And all this is because she has confidence, she has knowledge and education, and she has her own career.
For her, marriage and love will only be the icing on the cake in her life, and will definitely not become the whole of her life.
It is this pride and self-improvement that makes Gao Shuguang deeply fascinated by her, and it is her dashing and independent that allows her to be herself in marriage.
Therefore, women should be like Wang Ling, the lover loves herself first, does not regard love as the whole of life, does not put all the security on the partner, and considers her own life before pursuing love.
A simple job, a salary sufficient for our lives, etc. can become the basis for our pursuit of love.
When we live our lives well and make ourselves better, excellent people and love will come as promised.
Now that her son is 6 years old, she no longer needs Wang Ling to accompany her all the time, and Wang Ling can be busy with her own work and occasionally visit Gao Shuguang.
Judging from the photos she posted, although she did not have Jiang Shan's gentle atmosphere, she maintained a good figure and looked youthful and energetic.
Marrying Gao Shuguang is actually inevitably compared by the media and Gao Shuguang's predecessor, but each flower has its own fragrance, and Wang Ling, as the second wife, actually did a very good job.
Not only treating Gao Shuguang's daughter kindly, but also continuing to support Gao Shuguang in pursuing his acting work, and his "Backlighter" recently starred in is being broadcast.
Gao Shuguang rarely starred in network dramas with suspenseful crime themes, and I believe that under the new theme, Gao Shuguang's acting skills can be better played.
In addition, Gao Shuguang recently has "Lady's Law" to meet with everyone, and "Backlighter" is different from "Lady's Law" about the collision and game of workplace elites, laughter and tears in life.
These two completely different works, two completely different roles, Gao Shuguang can also control it properly, and has to make people admire the acting skills of the old drama bones.
In fact, Gao Shuguang's popularity in recent years is not as good as before, but he still exerts his residual heat to continue to bring good works to the audience, and seriously plays every role, which is believed to be indispensable to Wang Ling's support.
Both husband and wife work hard in their respective areas of expertise, accompanying each other when they are together, and worrying about each other when they are not together.
Married for 7 years, they are still them, and they are also the best appearance of love.