"Every cattle man must have a firm core, so that it is not easy to be blown away by the wind in the universe."
Have you denied your ability to write because one of your carefully written manuscripts was returned? Do you think that the leader's words have ulterior motives because they look at you when they are admonished? When such questions keep haunting your mind, you don't think about tea and dinner, and you can't sleep at night.
Is this because we are too fragile? Too susceptible to outside interference?
We tend to care about the evaluation of others and are accustomed to defining the coordinates of our own lives in the evaluation of others. However, this is equivalent to handing over the keys of your life to someone else. In this impetuous society, we are too vulnerable to external interference. We often become embarrassed by the evaluation of the outside world and gradually shake our original intention. What should we do? Only make yourself strong!
The so-called "powerful" is not a domineering dictatorship, nor is it arbitrary. In the face of criticism and accusations, we may as well delay our experience, slow down a little, and build a wall of self-defense. In the face of denial and blame, we may as well take a deep breath and tell ourselves that I am not so sensitive to these things, the universe is vast, life is so long, and this matter is only a dust in the trajectory of my life. What I need to do is focus on the present, to do every real thing in my hands, to live every moment of life.
If a person always cares about other people's opinions, always cares about the voices of the outside world, and always spends too much time on mental consumption, then he will often end up being tied and accomplish nothing. But some people can always firmly hold the sails of their lives in the rough seas. This is a realm, but also a rare wisdom of life.
Therefore, it is not enough for a person to have talent and wisdom, because when you are too concerned about external evaluation, you cannot go all out. When you really have this trait, you will find that all the waves you think are terrifying may be just small waves in the long years. That's when you have that "nucleus of certainty." Your heart firmly believes that you can get things done, and no matter what kind of voice comes from the outside world, you can follow your heart and automatically block out the noise. Don't blindly follow, don't be anxious, according to your own rhythm, step by step forward, sure that the final destination must be what you want.
Only by keeping the external voice to the minimum, focusing on what we want, not being swayed by unnecessary opinions and ideas, and lightening up, can we go further and easier. Only by refocusing our attention on self-improvement can we put on the armor of confrontation with life. Therefore, stay away from mental intrigue, and take daily study seriously, treat half-week exams, and treat daily life.
Life can not be a horse flat river, the days will not be smooth and smooth, life is to constantly grasp the time, grasp the direction, sad things will always pass, will be forgotten, what we need is a solid and wearable heart, to fight against the difficulties of life.
Let the noise be noisy, have self-knowledge, I have a variety of styles, and there is no dispute with the world. I just have to be generous and brave to move forward!
Anchor: Xie Lianfeng
Anchor: Zhang Yanling
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Copywriter: Xie Lianfeng
Anchor: Xie Lianfeng Zhang Yanling
Audio clip: Zhang Yanling
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