"You have to believe that you deserve all the good. May all people continue on the road to the future, feel that the world is worthwhile, and all things can be expected. ”
This is a sentence from the first track in "You are a little cute on earth".
Yes, life is very annoying, but we are all still cute, and we can still maintain the love and yearning for life in the cuteness.
But there are some roads, and we must learn to walk on our own, with the ability to move forward fearlessly, towards a better life.
Learn to repair yourself in order to get out of the flock
Chu Xiao Rail told such a story in "You Are a Little Cute in the World":
One student and two other classmates were renting together, and when she failed to pass the graduate school and cried all night, the two roommate girls comforted her, and even brought her food to the bedside.
The student sister, who was cured by her roommate, had a decision the next day that she would fight again. The roommate who also failed the examination advised her: Forget it, this is fate.
But Xuemei said: I want to try, maybe I can succeed.
After that, the roommate alienated her and no longer had the intimacy of the past, and then the student sister finally succeeded and rushed to share happiness and joy with the roommate.
But both roommates shirked their troubles and couldn't celebrate with her. What broke her even more was that when she came home at night, she saw two roommates taking a stranger to see the house.
It turns out that four years of affection is not as good as an empty house; it turns out that if you want to share joy with others, not everyone is willing; the greatest malice is not words, but the world is not worth it.
Human nature is complex, some people want to share happiness, some people just want to connect with life, and everyone seems to be right.
In the past, the good of others was really good, and the cold of the present is also the cold of the bone.
Zeng Guofan said: If there is a spring of ben, do not give up day and night, Yingke and then enter, let go of the four seas.
In a person's life, if you want to become a person who is released from all over the world, you will encounter the cow, ghost, and snake god in the four seas.
There may be the malice of those around you, and there may be familiar strangers, but accept everything outwardly, accept yourself inward, and then you will become a wolf and walk out of the flock.
Thus seeing the larger world and having a broader life.
Even if no one applauds, you must live beautifully
I don't know when it started, there are few true feelings in the circle of friends, and it is no longer a haven for venting personal feelings.
They are all adults, no one is willing to pay for your unhappiness, bad emotions, and no one cares about whether you are happy or unhappy, whether life is good or not.
From the moment they lost their circle of friends, more and more people fled the circle of friends.
Many people say that sending a circle of friends was just to record life, but some people refined it for two hours in order to send a one-second picture, which became a "show" in the circle of friends.
Sometimes it is sent out purely for the sake of "like", because social means expectation, but there is also a gap in the response to expectation.
I also have to admit that many of the current "likes" are marketing and profit-driven. When the hair ring carries a utilitarian purpose, the brush circle also carries the ups and downs of the mood.
Those floating on the surface of you and me, in addition to expending mental effort, there are helpless and careless "traps".
Under the utilitarian situation, there is no sincerity, most of the time it is just one show after another, and the promotion of success, money and profit.
The circle of friends, more hair, annoying people; no hair, but also seems a bit of a scheming and city government.
One of my favorite writers, Haruki Murakami, once said: "People are born lonely and incomprehensible, and the so-called communication is just a search for comfort."
For a long time, I escaped from the circle of friends, but in the past two years I have returned to the circle of friends.
Hair ring, not to be able to resonate and empathize, but just to let yourself survive these years, get nourishment, and bring a little warmth and inspiration to this indifferent world with your own strength.
If the heart is unharmed, it will not be hurt. Even if no one responds, it is necessary to live a wonderful life alone.
This is the steadfastness after maturity, and it is also the firmness to see through everything and still love.
The world is good, but so are you
When the dream is getting farther and farther away, the heart is switched by impetuosity, when talking about the dream, it will feel far away, and when it comes to lifelong growth, it is a bit mysterious and mysterious.
Reading seems to be just a way to escape from life, and the personality is becoming more and more withdrawn. But when it all follows the inner decision, everything becomes happy.
I've heard a quote like this:
The law of the world, those who seek it above will get it, those who seek it will get below, and those who seek it can only get the world.
In other words, how big our dreams are, how long we wish.
If you just guard your own acre and three points, you will never see the world outside the sun; if you always stay in your comfort zone, you will never see the wider world beyond your ability.
So when the people around you tell you not to waste your efforts and whimsy, don't daydream, you can't become a big instrument, don't care what others say.
People who struggle to survive from being isolated and ridiculed laugh and say: The world is good, and I am good.
The past is not important, yesterday is not important, how to live tomorrow is important.
Life begins with inferiority, and then accumulates step by step, until the energy becomes stronger and stronger, until it shines brightly.
And the efforts and prospects at each stage determine what kind of person we will become in the future. Even if we don't know who we understand? But when you move toward a goal, you will one day witness yourself living as yourself.
Hu Shi said: Everything yesterday has become me today, don't think about it, let alone mourn. From now on, you can plant as much as you harvest.
Everything was the best arranged.
Go forward and don't be afraid, because you are a little cute on earth.