"Warm And Warm Contains Light": On the scale of love, the more you pay, the more tragic the ending
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Sanmao said: Don't forget what others say when they are angry, because often that is the truth, and don't hate the person who said it, because this is another way for you to see yourself.
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Love is like a master trick, whoever moves first, whoever loses the game.
It is often the one who is hurt in love who is deep in love.
Some people would rather be wronged than leave.
Some people choose to forget until they meet a new relationship to make up for the previous one.
A particularly effective way to do this is to simply forget the memories associated with them.
Instead of getting along with each other, it is better to forget about each other.
Just like the song sung by Andy Lau: "Give me a glass of unloving water, in exchange for me not shedding tears all night."
All sincerity, let it rain and wind, the love paid can not be returned. ”
There is no water of forgetting love, but there is one "forgetting love" clinic.
Today, I recommend a movie "Warm Inner Light", also known as "Eternal Sunshine of a Beautiful Mind". More than 220,000 people in a certain flap scored a high score of 8.5.
The film tells the story of the introverted and calm Joel Barry (Kim Carey) who meets the frank and easy-going Clementine Klowski (Kate Winslet) at a party, and the two become lovers. Like the average couple, their days are spent in sweetness and quarrels.
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On Valentine's Eve 2004, when Joel carefully prepared gifts and came to clementine for an argument not long ago, he was surprised to find that clementine didn't remember him at all.
It turned out that the impulsive Clementine could not bear the pain of the quarrel between the two, and went to the "Forgetting Clinic" to delete the memory of Yoel.
Joel can't forgive Clementine's willfulness and can't bear the pain of losing her, so he also goes to the "Forgetting Clinic" and asks the doctor Dr. Howard (Tom Wilkinson) to erase the memory of Clementine.
The memory-erasing program begins to kick in, and Joel wanders through his memories, and he finds that the time he spent with Christine, whether painful or sweet, is precious, and he doesn't want to forget the woman he loves dearly.
However, once the program is started, it cannot be reversed, and Joel can only try his best to hide Christine in the deepest memory, the corners of time that Christine did not appear in reality, in order to preserve this love.
There are many men like Joel in life, they have a wooden personality, they dare not pursue love, enjoy the emotions that others bring to him, including love, friendship and others, he will not respond too much.
When others are tired, they choose to leave, and then he feels that some feelings are missed and cannot be turned back.
However, the film gives people a chance to look back, after Both Joel and Christine have lost their memories, the two meet again at the station, and the inexplicable affection for each other returns.
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This time it was still Christine's initiative, she took the initiative to talk to this unassuming man, and also strongly invited him to return home.
In fact, Christine is also a simple little girl, but she is an active type.
The first time they met, she invited men to her house for the night, and prepared to have something with the men, causing the men to flee in fright.
Men are still very happy in the face of this kind of battle with girls. When they got home, they called the girl, and they fell in love again.
Love at first sight with a shadow on one's back is not worth cherishing even if they are together.
Joel meets Christine at a friend's party, and he feels good at the back of the girl in orange.
Later, when he saw the girl talk to him first, he was very happy in his heart.
The girl is also self-cooked, and the first time they meet, they directly sandwich the dishes inside the Yoel rice.
After the two were naturally together, the two often played together.
Christine is a wayward girl, and many decisions and ideas are unbelievable. She has no planning for things, and her mood is also rainy and sunny. Faced with such a Christine, Joel loves and hates. The two often quarreled, but they reconciled quickly.
Once when the two of them were on a trip together, she watched the lively fireworks on the street and suddenly made a decision to marry Yoel and have a child. I thought Joel would be very happy to hear Christine's words, but Joel said coldly that he didn't want to talk about this topic. Christine got angry and said why not talk about it. And Joel directly said that she was more willful and could not be a good mother.
Christine was hurt in her heart, she felt kind and loving, she had wanted a child for a long time. Unexpectedly, the two had been in love for several years, and they turned out to be this image in each other's hearts. The two broke up unhappily.
Another year of Valentine's Day is here, and Joel, as usual, prepares to prepare a gift to ask For Peace, as if the quarrel of a few days ago did not exist.
Unexpectedly, this time, Christine directly acted as if he did not know him, and kissed others in front of him. He couldn't stand it, and he got a complaint from a friend.
When he learned that Christine went to the "Forgetful Clinic" to delete memories related to himself, he only thought it was ridiculous. He thought he was the best of all the men she knew.
He hated the wayward Kristin for deleting his memories without telling him, looking at the busy "loveless clinic", and there were more men and women who were hurt in their feelings. He eagerly asked the doctor to also delete his memories of Him and Christine, and the Doctor, seeing his anxious appearance, decided to perform surgery on him that night.
Obviously, it was Joel who moved his heart first, and it was Also Joel who did not cherish this relationship. Sometimes love at first sight is an illusion of love.
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Even if it is another heartbeat, it will be a repetition of the same mistakes
Someone commented on the film, saying: "After watching it for many years, I no longer agree with the love point of view inside." No matter how many sweet memories two people have together, they cannot withstand the irreconcilable contradictions found when reason is separated. Maybe you will fall in love with this person again, but this person is still the wrong person, even if you lie down and look at the stars together, it is just a meaningless repetition. ”
After the two met again, the two still quarreled often. Once after an argument, Christine was so sad that she went to the bar for a drink and came back in the middle of the night.
Christine saw that Joel was actually full of emotions in the middle of the night, and the guilty Christine apologetically apologized to him and crashed his car.
At this time, Joel was angry, and when he saw his girlfriend return in the middle of the night drunk, he actually drunk and drove his car directly, and he was furious. Yell at him directly, saying she was an alcoholic, saying she could just knock someone to death. Looking at the angry Joel, Christine directly said the actual reason:
"You're scared because I'm out there late, and you want to break your little head and figure out, did she sleep with someone else tonight?"
"Christine, I guess you slept with someone tonight, or how could you make someone like you?"
Watching Joel calmly say these words, Christine directly packed up his things and left the key to the house before leaving, and the first relationship between the two ended completely.
The second time the two were in love and preparing to get married, they saw a disc they had previously deleted with memories of each other. This time Joel stopped Claystin before she left, and the two finally smiled.
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Love should be bright and upright, and it must not be deceived
Someone who steals memories of your and your boyfriend's hot love affair and steals their own underwear in the name of loving you, can you accept this pathological feeling?
I don't think normal people can accept it.
In the film, Pike steals memories from her time with Joel in the process of deleting Cleistine's memories, notes the points where Cleistin is touched by Joel, and steals several pairs of Cleistin's underwear.
He quietly hides his bad intentions, constantly using the contents of the notes to approach Christine, making Christine feel that Pike is the person who knows her best, that he knows the food she likes and wherever she wants to go.
Christine faces the courteous and somewhat strange Pike, and she always feels that their relationship is not right, and she still can't fall in love with Pike, who seems to know her.
There are many scenes in the film depicting the beach and the train, which is actually a metaphor for the passage of time and the dissipation of love.
There are a lot of people who think that the film ends with the two of them going to the beach where the two of them know each other again, and they are running happily on the beach, and the two of them should be together again.
I think that the two of them have let go of this feeling, even if they start over, the problems with each other are still not solved, it is better to become friends and ask for nothing.
As Lao She said in "Divorce": Life may be like this, more experience is less fantasy, and the pain of reality is balanced with practical pleasure.
There is no perfect love, only the reality of constant running- and running.
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