In the past two days, the news of "Wind Rising Longxi" has been wave after wave.
Compared with the same period, Pan Yueming's "The Gate of Rebirth" and "The Covenant of the Heart" were also released.
This has to remind people of Dong Jie, a woman who was once related to these two people.
The rise of Pan Yueming in the past two years has made many people notice that this original small fresh meat is actually old to this point.
Thinking about the woman who ruined his career, the "sick" appearance now makes people sigh.
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Recently, many netizens have mentioned "Golden Powder Family", and The Leng Qingqiu played by Dong Jie is the "white moonlight" in the hearts of many people.
Perhaps because the filter of Leng Qingqiu is too strong, so that her simple and cold person is deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, so that she forgets her own appearance.
Dong Jie's family is relatively ordinary, but her mother is very strict with her.
The mother was short-tempered, very depressed in educating Dong Jie, and sometimes used violent means.
Under the strict supervision of her mother, Dong Jie's original lively and active personality gradually became suppressed and became well-behaved and sensible.
Later, at the age of 10, Dong Jie was admitted to the Soldiers' Song and Dance Troupe and studied dance alone in Guangzhou.
As the youngest child in the regiment, alone in a strange place, this makes Dong Jie know more about how to restrain her personality.
She is well-behaved like a simple little white rabbit, and this personality has been maintained until she meets Pan Yueming.
Unlike Dong Jie, Pan Yueming's family is solid, he has liked to perform since he was a child, he was easily admitted to the North Shadow, handsome appearance, and the original acting talent, so that he soon became a popular fried chicken.
He entered the entertainment circle earlier than Dong Jie, and when he met Dong Jie, he was already a well-known actor.
At that time, there were already works such as "Jinghua Smoke Cloud" and "The Legend of the White Snake", and Dong Jie returned to the mainland after receiving the drama in Hong Kong.
As a small actor with no fame, Dong Jie is simple and cute in pan Yueming's eyes, and soon attracts Pan Yueming's attention and arouses his desire to protect.
Under the deliberate care of Pan Yueming, Dong Jie soon fell in love with him, and not long after "The Red Dress", the love affair between the two people was exposed.
Unlike the general celebrity exposure of love affairs, the love between the two of them, known as the golden child by the audience, has been blessed by everyone.
Pan Yueming, as a young student, has been very busy, and Dong Jie's career at this time has also risen because of the popularity of "Golden Powder Family", and the two people can only contact through text messages.
At this time, the relationship between the two is really good, Pan Yueming changed multiple mobile phones in order to save text messages, and Dong Jie simply copied all the text messages.
Under such a sweet atmosphere, Dong Jie became pregnant in 2008, and they had their own love crystallization.
Pan Yueming also made up his mind to end the 4-year love run and give Dong Jie a warm and sweet family.
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Dong Jie's pregnancy was very sudden, and she was completely out of the arrangement of the two people.
The young Pan Yueming is a bit of a straight man who doesn't understand the sense of ritual that women need in marriage.
Because of the hasty decision to get married, Pan Yueming did not prepare a ceremonial proposal ceremony.
Just when he took Dong Jie shopping, he led Dong Jie to the jewelry store and bought an expensive ring for her.
"This ring is quite expensive, so I'll give it to you."
Such a straight man's speech is probably what Pan Yueming will say.
At that time, he was still wearing a vest and large pants, which made Dong Jie feel more regrets and grievances in his touch.
Because of the unexpected increase in wedding arrangements, Pan Yueming, who was in several crews, could not spare time to prepare for the wedding.
This heavy responsibility fell on Dong Jie, who was already 5 months pregnant, in addition to arranging various wedding events, but also preparing a list of invited guests, which made Dong Jie miserable.
Pan Yueming, as a groom, did not help dong jie at all when he needed him the most, and only appeared on the day of the wedding.
To say that Dong Jie has no regrets, no grievances, and no complaints in her heart, then probably no one believes it.
Although in the subsequent interview, Pan Yueming said that he was sorry for Dong Jie, and Dong Jie shook his head and said that he did not comfort him, but this matter happened after all, and no one was able to change it.
Under Dong Jie's arrangement, the wedding went very smoothly, and not long after, she gave birth to her son Dingding.
Originally thought that the life would change after marriage, because Pan Yueming's work was more and more, and he spent less time with Dong Jie.
What everyone did not expect was that this small family that had just been formed, without a few happy months, had an accident with Pan Yueming, the top pillar.
During the filming of the movie "For You", there was an accident, and Pan Yueming fell off the cliff with him, and there was an accompanying actress and photographer in the car.
This incident also laid hidden dangers for the marriage of two people.
Dong Jie, who learned of this car accident, rushed to the hospital to see not Pan Yueming at first sight, but his critical illness notice, which really scared Dong Jie.
Fortunately, Pan Yueming turned around at the ghost gate and turned back.
In his words, when there was an accident, he turned out the photos of Dong Jie and his son for the first time, and looked at the photos of the two people, which was able to persist until the arrival of rescue.
Unfortunately, because of this incident, the film replaced him and the female number two.
Dong Jie accompanies Pan Yueming every day and takes care of her son who is less than 1 year old, which makes Dong Jie feel anxious.
It didn't take long for the most unfortunate thing to happen, the female number two, who was the most injured in the car accident, took Pan Yueming and the crew to court.
It turned out that the car accident caused Xia Bingbing's spine to be damaged, and her pelvic bones and calves were also fractured, which eventually caused her to lose the opportunity to walk.
However, she did not receive compensation from Pan Yueming and the crew.
This made Dong Jie's head bigger, on the one hand, her husband, who had just returned from the ghost door and was still lying on the hospital bed, needed to be taken care of, and on the other hand, her son who was waiting to be fed needed to be accompanied, and in addition to the things in court.
Many heavy burdens were pressed on Dong Jie's body alone, making her a little breathless.
It was this accident that the feelings of the two people gradually went wrong.
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Since the car accident, the feelings of the two people are far less sweet than before, career problems, trivia in life, these have made Dong Jie more picky.
The paparazzi even filmed Dong Jie reprimanding Pan Yueming on the street.
The appearance of Pan Yueming obediently accepting the reprimand with his head bowed in the photo does not look like a husband at all, but like a son.
At this time, Dong Jie's career has been in the ascendant, but there have been 6 works released in a year, and she has won many awards, as well as her cold and innocent image that is deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, so that she has begun to gradually tire of the man around her.
Looking at Pan Yueming again, because of the reason of the car accident, coupled with the inability to find his own position after marriage, the career gradually went downhill, which made the relationship between the two people from the beginning of the strong and strong, and gradually turned into a strong woman and a weak man.
But this is not the reason why the relationship between two people really broke down.
For the most important issues between two people, Dong Jie has also mentioned many details of the lives of two people on the show.
If Pan Yueming's straight male behavior when she proposed marriage is acceptable, or if there is really no way to help Dong Jie feel wronged when preparing for the wedding, then the things in life are the last straw that crushes her.
Although the birth of his son made Pan Yueming, a new father, feel very excited, he almost did not intervene or help take care of the children in order to work, and almost all of them were Dong Jie taking care of the children alone.
When Dong Jie felt tired and wanted him to help with something, Pan Yueming always refused on the grounds that he could not meet her requirements.
Although the feelings between the two people are real and in love, Pan Yueming's straight male behavior is probably not acceptable to a woman.
What's more, when Pan Yueming was busy with work and did not have time to take care of Dingding, Dong Jie was also running for her career, taking into account her family and career well.
It is also this model, which is almost comparable to "widowed parenting", that makes the two people really feel a gap.
This also made Dong Jie, who was tired of being dull, plant the seeds of travel in his heart.
This life lasted until 2010, when Dong Jie met Wang Dazhi for filming, which brought a turning point to things.
In "Please Forgive Me", Dong Jie and Wang Dazhi, as male and female protagonists, played lovers in the play.
Putting Wang Dazhi and Pan Yueming together, it can be seen that Wang Dazhi cannot be described as handsome, and even in ordinary people, it can be described as "ugly".
But such a man who looks far less than Pan Yueming has a different charm, and he can make women fall for him in different ways.
To describe it in a more literary and artistic way, Wang Dazhi's emotional intelligence is very high, he understands women's hearts, knows how to please women, in the face of such sugar-coated shells, compared with the boring life at home, the seeds in Dong Jie's heart began to sprout.
In early 2011, Dong Jie had already begun to prepare nutrients for seed germination.
She replaced the assistant that Pan Yueming had prepared for her, remitted all her income to her mother, and began to interact frequently with Wang Dazhi on social platforms.
Compared with Dong Jie's obscurity, Wang Dazhi's reaction was more obvious, but no one at that time saw it, such an obvious confession.
On the third anniversary of his marriage to Pan Yueming, he openly expressed that "it is time to itch".
Until 2012, Dong Jie's studio came out to announce that the two people had divorced, and even forcibly crowned Pan Yueming with three deadly sins: addiction to D sex, not doing housework, and x incompetence.
This basin of dirty water splashed on Pan Yueming's body, making him instantly degenerate from a good man to a "scumbag" attacked by the whole network.
In the face of the ridicule of the whole network, Pan Yueming could only say: "Life is like a drama, I am Xu Xian who is pressed under the Leifeng Pagoda." ”
However, under such circumstances, Pan Yueming still did not want to say that Dong Jie was not, but sued Dong Jie's agent for defamation.
All this seems to have nothing to do with Dong Jie, and even Wang Dazhi stands on Dong Jie's platform in his own dynamics, saying: "Give Dong Jie a quiet space."
A marriage that was only divorced verbally, because Dong Jie had once been deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, and she cried in an interview during this time, which made the public believe that Dong Jie was the victim.
For a while, the Internet was full of verbal criticism of Pan Yueming, and no one thought that it was the paparazzi Zhuo Wei who rescued Pan Yueming from the abyss.
Five months after the farce began, Zhuo Wei broke out a shocking photo.
In the photo, Dong Jie is kissing Wang Dazhi, and such news makes all public opinion turn to her.
Dong Jie went crazy and quickly proved herself, saying that Pan Yueming had paid for someone to follow her.
Although Zhuo Wei is a paparazzi, he has his own bottom line, and naturally does not allow Dong Jie to slander himself, and more explosive news comes out of his mouth.
"I already knew that Dong Jie and Wang Dazhi were healed, and we took pictures of them together. But the photos are not convincing enough. That's why I focused on her after this incident. ”
At this time, the whole network was in an uproar, and this farce has been pulled for nearly a year, and the people around Pan Yueming finally couldn't help but come out and break the news.
When everyone thought that Dong Jie and Pan Yueming had divorced, whether they would marry Wang Dazhi, a staff member by Pan Yueming's side said that the two people had not divorced.
At this time, it had long been rumored that Wang Dazhi had cleared his home, and his friends revealed that Wang Dazhi had not divorced.
The double marriage cheated, and such news made people see through Dong Jie and Wang Dazhi's personalities.
However, the dirty water splashed on Pan Yueming's body has always existed, which has completely made Pan Yueming's career fall to the bottom.
The relationship between Dong Jie and Wang Dazhi lasted only a year after this incident, and the two broke up peacefully in 2014.
After watching the two divorce for 10 years, Dong Jie lived alone with the top and made a new debut for her son's living expenses.
And Pan Yueming also came out of this relationship and had a new girlfriend.
Wang Dazhi was not affected in any way, and his emotional career blossomed, which was the least affected among the three people.
In fact, looking at the breakdown of two people's marriages, it is nothing more than three common reasons.
The marriage that was originally strong and strong has gradually become a strong woman and a weak man. The second point is that Pan Yueming himself is too straight male, and after marriage, he pays too much attention to his career and ignores Dong Jie's feelings. Third, both sides are too busy in their careers, have little contact, and gradually weaken their feelings, so that the third party can take advantage of it.
Fortunately, now Pan Yueming has also come out, and his career has returned to the peak.
It's just a pity that the top, in the tug of his parents, lost the father's love that should have belonged to him.