Some people say that a woman who has not been fiercely loved, once love comes, it is like being swept by a gust of wind, and the whole person will be enchanted.
Tolstoy's Anna is such a woman who is wrapped up in love, but it is a pity that from beginning to end, she has not been awake.
She also took her own life because of the only extramarital love, leaving a place of chicken feathers and sighs all over the world.
Anna is married
Anna is an orphan who grew up in foster care in her aunt's house, and her aunt treats her very well and treats her like her own daughter.
At the age of 16, according to her aunt's mate selection criteria, she found a promising man, but unfortunately, that man was 20 years older than Anna.
One is a young girl who has just opened her heart, and the other is a 36-year-old political man, at first glance, it is a good match, in fact, there is a distance between them.
Karenin was not a bad man, or even a good man, but he was imprisoned by the shell of politics and did not seem to express feelings.
Therefore, Anna had to follow the rules in front of him, she never dared to be spoiled, of course, the conjugal life is also the rules.
Such a life can easily kill a woman's passion, especially a young and beautiful woman, let her accompany her wood-like husband, she will slowly wither.
If she hadn't met Vronsky again at the ball, Anna might have lived her life in peace: being a noblewoman, food and clothing, and watching her son spend her time in vain.
However, love is all doomed in the dark, and it will always come, and it is impossible to hide.
First encounter
In that brief glance, Vronsky had noticed a suppressed anger flowing across her face, between her sparkling eyes and the slight smile that had bent her lips. It was as if there was an excess of vitality pervading her whole body, against her will, sometimes in the flashes of her eyes, sometimes in her smile. She deliberately tried to hide the brilliance in her eyes, but it flickered in a faintly recognizable smile against her will. ”
This is the Anna in Vronsky's eyes, it can be said that he understands her, he can see through Anna's noble appearance, through the enthusiasm and flame in her bones.
So, in an instant, he was captured by Anna.
A handsome young officer with a fatal attraction to women, especially when the man took the initiative to attack, Anna was completely defenseless.
Because Karenin has never been so enthusiastic, even his kisses are official, polite.
So. When Vronsky chases anna from Moscow to Anna's city, Anna falls, and she falls in love with the man who can give herself a different feeling.
And Anna is wholeheartedly engaged in her new life, and Vronsky is to her all her hopes and sustenance, everything she has.
When a woman treats men as everything, her tragedy is about to happen.
Although women who fall into extramarital love will fight to survive, some smart women can withdraw in time, and some women are dead hearted.
Caught in lust
Anna belonged to the latter, when she and Vronsky had skin to skin, when Vronsky became her lover, her whole body began to bloom for Vronsky, even forgetting that she was a mother.
In those days, the Russian upper class was very open, and it was not too shameful for noble ladies to have suitors, as long as they did not embarrass their husbands too much, ordinary people would not be more truthful.
Karenin's attitude toward his wife Anna is this, it may be that he is old and has a relatively weak view of the love between men and women, or he may be a generous man.
However, Anna is not satisfied, she does not want to be just a lover, she also wants to divorce and marry Vronsky.
Karenin was a high-ranking political official, and the divorce made him very unsightly, and besides, they had a son, and he didn't want to break up the family.
However, Anna really did not give him face, and in addition to wanting a divorce, she was pregnant with Vronsky's child and almost died while giving birth to the child.
In the end, Karenin compromised, allowing Anna to follow Vronsky, but without divorce and punishment for not being able to see her son.
Many people will say that Karenin is a bit cold-blooded when they see this, in fact, I still understand him, a man, whether he loves his wife or not is the same thing, when she puts a green hat on herself, it is still understandable to punish her.
Anna finally got her wish and followed Vronsky away, she had a new life, and they went on their honeymoon in distant Europe.
Passion cools
That time was Anna's happiest moment, and she couldn't ask for anything to be able to spend time with her lover day and night.
It's just that there are small embarrassments in her identity, she and Vronsky are just cohabiting relationships, not that Vronsky doesn't want to marry her, but Karenin doesn't agree.
Therefore, they are just an awkward lover relationship, which makes Anna feel unsteady, and the consequence of women's unsure is paranoia.
After returning from Europe, they went to Vronsky's hometown, an old manor house, where Anna discovered that Vronsky had changed.
As Byron said: A man's love is a part of a man's life, and a woman's love is the whole existence of a woman's life.
For Anna, Vronsky was all she had, and for that, she could even give up on her children.
But for A big man in Vronsky, once the passion diminishes, he shifts his interest elsewhere.
This kind of attention shift of men cannot simply and rudely think that men just don't love, but because men's world is very wide, and women are only one of them.
After Vronsky returned to the manor, he fell in love with going to the "bar" to eat and drink with the men, and also loved to take on some of the local management practices.
It's actually a man's nature, but in Anna's eyes, it's that Vronsky no longer loves himself.
She became sensitive and suspicious, arguing with Vronsky from time to time, and even suspected Vronsky of empathy.
Incense disappeared
Vronsky began to reflect on Anna's abnormality as well.
Anna's immaculate love made Vronsky ashamed of himself, pushing him to have to re-recognize his relationship with Anna, express self-blame for his superficiality and rashness, and mentally force himself to love this woman further.
When a man doesn't instinctively love a woman and calmly forces himself to love one more woman, the relationship can become tiring.
Eventually, Anna begins to regret abandoning her son and eloping, and Vronsky finds Anna unreasonable.
A pair of men and women who were originally in love with each other, because they could not accept the natural cooling of feelings, did not understand that passion has a lifespan, and in the end, Anna became a tragedy.
One day, Vronsky went home to see his mother, and because of the bad weather, he didn't come back for the night or greet Anna in advance.
Anna waited to see Vronsky come home, the night made her emotionally out of control, she thought Vronsky had failed her, she decided to punish him.
To punish Vronsky for his ingratitude, Anna walked toward the tracks in a white dress.
Before dying, Anna said: "I really shouldn't be Vronsky's mistress, I regard him as the only one in life, but he is getting farther and farther away from me, why can't I control myself?" ”
She added: "Everything is false, everything is a lie, everything is a deception, everything is sin!" ”
This is Anna's dying sigh.
Both sides are hurt, and the other is sad
Anna's death did punish Vronsky, because he didn't empathize with each other, and he didn't love Anna, but as a man, he needed another life besides love.
After Anna's death, in order to punish himself, Vronsky went to the front, and he wanted to die on the battlefield to make up for his negligence toward Anna.
In fact, from the perspective of outsiders, the three parties, the most ana is not calm, which may be a common disease of women.
If Anna could have calmed down a little more, if she hadn't followed Vronsky, if she hadn't demanded so much from love.
Well, it won't be this tragic ending.
Karenin did not understand the style, but a responsible husband, he had a high social status, able to make Anna and her son prominent, food and clothing.
Vronsky was not a playboy, he had loved Anna with all his heart, he had given Anna the chance to taste love, and if Anna didn't ask him too much, then they could also be husband and wife.
Because Karenin was about to agree to the divorce, Vronsky never abandoned Anna.
However, Anna is too greedy, she wants to make the fire of love burn forever, which is impossible and does not conform to the laws of the universe, everything is changing, there will be no eternal and unchanging things.
The candle in the wind swayed in the wind, and the faint light illuminated the surroundings, and finally faded away in the darkness. Anna Karenina, this beautiful and lonely soul, died in the midst of endless regrets.
So Anna died, leaving this world that made her hate and love, and her death was a tragedy, a case that we women need to be vigilant against.
Written to women
There are actually a lot of Anna Karenina around us, they are all struggling in the whirlpool of love, some of them suffer all day long, and some of them think about whether men love themselves or not.
In fact, once a woman reaches this point, there is not much charm in the eyes of men, and men naturally like to chase women, rather than being entangled by women.
So, the best woman is one who has love in her eyes but herself in her heart. Only when women live their own wonderful, live freely, and live freely, they will not care whether men love themselves or not.
Therefore, we do not blame "Vronsky" for losing his enthusiasm, because this is the objective law!
Do you agree with this view?