Why did Yan Weiwen spoil his son-in-law so much?
At that time, when Yan Weiwen's daughter Yan Jingjing gave birth to a child, just because her son-in-law Li Hehe did something wrong, Yan Jingjing began to lose her temper.
However, Yan Weiwen, who was standing on the sidelines, couldn't look at it anymore and said with some anger:
"The first time he became a father, who didn't grope out a little bit, really made you feel wronged Hehe."
It turned out that his son-in-law's identity was not simple!
His son-in-law Li Hehe's father was former Foreign Minister Li Zhaoxing! It is amazing to be able to be a family member of such a person.
No wonder Yan Weiwen often counted the "little cotton jackets" he looked at and grew up.
However, the story of Yan Weiwen and his wife Liu Weixing also makes people feel a lot.
"Behind every successful man, there is a woman who does not abandon her.".
"If I didn't have my wife, I wouldn't know what I would be like now."
A sudden cancer shattered the happy lives of Yan Weiwen and his wife.
"Husband and wife are originally the same forest birds, and they fly separately when the great trouble is imminent."
However, Yan Weiwen did not do this, he did not leave his wife, but took care of her without abandonment."
Yan Weiwen, who came from a poor background, accompanied his wife to fight cancer for 32 years.
Now that his wife has recovered, Yan Weiwen has become the grandfather of two children.
How did Yan Weiwen, who came from a poor background, become a famous singer?
How did they rely on each other after 32 years of accompanying their wives to fight cancer?
Let's find out today!
In 1957, Yan Weiwen, who was born in Shanxi, came to a very rich family.
At that time, his father and mother opened a workshop that was neither big nor small, and because he was too busy to come, he hired a group of people.
However, in the special era of that time, their family was labeled a "capitalist".
The capitalists and landlords of this era could not lift their heads at all, and so did Yan Weiwen's family, and the originally solid and rich family seemed to have nothing overnight.
There were five mouths in the family, and Yan's father and mother had to do some chicken and dog handyman to feed them.
Yan Weiwen, the third oldest, was very sensible, even if the family could not lift their heads at that time, they were very happy and warm together.
The older siblings chose to drop out of school to help the family subsidize the family, and in addition, to provide for the younger brother's schooling.
Because of his family composition, it is often a thing for Yan Weiwen to be beaten and scolded by others when he is in school, and it is also a common occurrence to be blocked on the road by his classmates.
However, these did not affect Yan Weiwen's ability to get the first place in every exam.
Yan Weiwen, who has loved singing since he was a child, will sing songs every time he is bullied by his classmates to relieve the bitterness in his heart.
Stickers made from miscellaneous noodles were a common thing in the era, but this was extremely precious to Yan Weiwen's family.
The mother was reluctant to eat, and each time she left the only food in the family for the youngest Yan Weiwen.
However, Yan Ma finally fell ill...
I heard my classmates say that if you catch grasshoppers, you can sell them at a good price at the market, because Chinese medicine shops at that time often used grasshoppers to put medicine.
After hearing this, Yan Weiwen also decided to catch some grasshoppers and sell them at the market.
Because she wanted to feed her mother.
The sky soon darkened, and Yan Weiwen's family had searched for all the places they could find, but they never found him.
After a while, Yan Weiwen smiled and dragged his limp leg and ran over and said:
"Mom and Dad, brothers and sisters, you see, I made 4 cents selling grasshoppers today, and now my mother doesn't have to be hungry and sick."
When Yan Mama heard this, she cried until she couldn't make a sound.
After becoming famous, Yan Weiwen has a song called "Mother" that is very popular, this song sings the son's heart for his mother, I think, as long as the son hears this song, he will have some feelings.
Yan Weiwen, who loves singing, ushered in his own opportunity when he was 13 years old.
However, Yan Weiwen did not expect that this opportunity would resolutely fly away!
At one performance, there were exactly two soldiers from the cultural troupe watching under the stage, and they saw that Yan Weiwen, who was very talented on the stage, liked him very much, and they had the idea of sending him to the military cultural and industrial troupe.
The soldier asked, "Do you want to join the army?" Where you can sing every day, there will be teachers to teach you."
Yan Weiwen's eyes were full of excitement: "I do, I want to go."
But when people learned about Yan Weiwen's family composition, this matter had to stop here, after all, in the era at that time, such a family component could not lift its head, let alone join the army.
"God closes a window and will open a door for you"
Yan Weiwen, who was not discouraged, soon paid off through his own efforts!
Even though he likes to sing and practices singing every day, his academic performance has not fallen for a moment.
Yan Weiwen is what other parents call someone else's child.
In 1970, Yan Weiwen continued to work hard, and finally entered the Shanxi Provincial Song and Dance Troupe with the best results.
Although he loves to sing, he is also extremely proud to become a dancer in the cabaret troupe, because he can finally earn money to support his family!
Because he has no dance skills, Yan Weiwen is harder than anyone else, and he will have a lot more physical activity homework assigned by the teacher than others.
When his first month's salary came down, he sent most of the money to his family, leaving himself with only a small fraction.
Yan Weiwen wrote in the letter:
"Mommy and Daddy, you don't have to work so hard in the future, I'm doing well here, I'm making a lot of money, you should eat and don't save, I will send money to my family every month."
Being bullied by others in his childhood did not affect Yan Weiwen, but he became more and more energetic.
It seems that even the heavens are taking care of this boy who does not bend!
The propaganda team of the Shanxi Military Region was about to recruit people, but Yan Weiwen was entangled in whether to sign up because of the family composition.
Because he knew that if he signed up, he would refuse to accept it even if he was admitted.
After deliberating for a long time, Yan Weiwen decided to write a letter to the leader of the unit.
The letter indicated the problem of Yan Weiwen's origin and expressed his determination to join the army, and after the unanimous deliberation of the leaders, Yan Weiwen was approved to join the army!
As soon as this news came out, not only was Yan Weiwen himself happy and stupid, but the whole family cried with it.
Father, mother, brother, sister, the whole family cried with joy, and the tears were full of grievances and heartache over the years.
Mom said tremblingly:
"Our family can finally stand up and walk, and we don't have to look at other people's blank eyes anymore."
This is indeed good news for Yan Weiwen, and it is undoubtedly even greater news for his whole family, who has been carrying the name of capitalist for so many years.
It is conceivable how much the family has suffered.
However, at this time, Yan Weiwen did not know that when he joined the army this time, he would gain the love of his life and the woman who made him successful!
A literary and artistic performance in the propaganda team made Liu Weixing and Yan Weiwen secretly feel affection for each other.
The two have been talking together ever since.
However, there were also rumors of two people in the propaganda team, which was a serious problem for the conservative era at that time.
"One person and one spit can drown people", Liu Weixing and Yan Weiwen seem to be aware of the seriousness of the problem, and both are deliberately keeping a distance.
Whenever these two people met, Yan Weiwen and Liu Weixing were communicating with each other with their own eyes.
After coming to the propaganda team, Yan Weiwen's singing voice was professionally instructed, and he grew rapidly as if he had opened a trick.
I remember when I first came to the propaganda team, his two voices could only be said to be very amateurish, and some colleagues were laughing at him:
"How did such amateurs come to our place?"
But Yan Weiwen was not discouraged, he humbly consulted the teacher, every time he took all his strength to practice, and finally on a stage, "he hit those smiling others' faces fiercely."
Slowly, he got better and better, and he began to make a name for himself.
Yan Weiwen did not know that there would be some changes in his work, and this change also brought his love.
colleague:
"Did you hear that?" The General Political Song and Dance Troupe of Beijing is coming to us to recruit people, and as long as you pass the exam, you can stay in Beijing."
Everyone is like chicken blood, everyone is practicing and studying diligently day and night, who doesn't want to go to Beijing and stay in Beijing?
This also includes Yan Weiwen.
On the day of the exam, Yan Weiwen was full of energy, and his performance also made the people of the Beijing General Political Affairs Song and Dance Troupe notice him, and his accurate singing skills and correct face made him admitted.
The men in the propaganda team all hated themselves and hated why they were not Yan Weiwen, and he suddenly became the object of admiration of the women in the team!
Unfortunately, Yan Weiwen already has his favorite object, and this time when he goes to Beijing, the two people are about to cultivate positive results!
"The previous letters were slow, the carriages were far away, and I loved only one person in my life."
After arriving in Beijing, Yan Weiwen and Liu Weixing contacted each other by letter.
The letter is nothing more than whether the recent situation is good or not, what interesting things have happened around, and it is such a letter that the two people have not broken all year round.
It's a simple greeting, but it's also mixed with missing and loving each other.
Such letters are also the spiritual pillars of each other, and the greatest hope every day is that you will have a letter to send to me!
For two years, the letters between the two men were unimpeded and almost never broken.
However, one day, Yan Weiwen did not receive Liu Weixing's letter for a long time, and he fidgeted and thought wildly.
Unexpectedly, after waiting for two more days, he still did not receive a letter from Liu Weixing, and Yan Weiwen, who was anxious, was ready to go to Shanxi to find Liu Weixing.
However, at this time he received a letter from Liu Weixing, which read:
"I'm sorry I didn't get back to your letter on time, I've been busy these days, because I'm about to transfer to Beijing, and you're waiting for me."
Yan Weiwen smiled, and his eyes were full of happiness...
In 1982, the two finally entered the palace of marriage.
After marriage, the two gave birth to a lovely daughter, and the life of a family of three can be regarded as on the right track.
Whoever leaves work early will pick up the children, and who is not busy will cook, it is such a bland day, but the family of three is getting more and more energetic.
In 1988, Yan Weiwen successfully sang his reputation, and in the National Young Singers Competition, he won the first prize for his excellent singing skills!
They should have been immersed in the joy of it, but bad luck befell this happy family...
Liu Weixing was unwell, and after coming to the hospital, the doctor said that he had to do an operation to determine whether the fibroid was benign or malignant.
Liu Weixing comforted Yan Weiwen and said:
"I am so good and never sick, it must be benign, you can rest assured, I can be alone in the hospital, you have to take care of our daughter." 」
The operation went well, and the doctor told Yan Weiwen:
"It takes three days for the pathological results to come out, so let's wait during this period."
Yan Weiwen was also relieved, but he didn't know that his wife's life was under the threat of illness!
Three days later, the report sheet was written with three big words that came into view!
breast cancer!
At this time, Liu Weixing was only 30 years old!
Dark clouds instantly enveloped the two men.
Ticking tears fell from Yan Weiwen's eyes.
Liu Weixing said:
"Crying something, don't let the girl see it and scare her for a while, we will slowly get better."
Yan Weiwen took care of Liu Weixing step by step, during that time, he was reluctant to let Liu Weixing do anything, and Yan Weiwen also learned to cook soup with his own hands.
Under the care of Yan Weiwen, Liu Weixing gradually improved, and the doctor said that everything on the examination report was normal, regular review, and taking medicine on time was just like normal people.
"However, the disease did not let Go of Liu Weixing so easily."
Liu Weixing's condition recurred again, and the doctor told her that this time she had to undergo chemotherapy.
Liu Weixing told Yan Weiwen:
"Chemotherapy will lose hair, it's ugly."
Yan Weiwen:
"Not ugly, in my heart you are the best looking."
During the chemotherapy period, it was very torturous to Liu Weixing, which also tormented Yan Weiwen's soul, the whole chemotherapy, Liu Weixing's hair was almost gone, and the side effects of chemotherapy made her unable to eat anything.
The whole person lost a lot of weight, and the person became listless.
Yan Weiwen has always accompanied Liu Weixing, often changing her tricks to make some novel and nutritious delicious food.
Liu Weixing, who was surprised and cared for by her husband, slowly recovered.
In 1996, Liu Weixing told Yan Weiwen that he was unwell, and the two men came to the hospital again for examination.
The time to wait for the results of the examination is really torturous enough.
When the results came out, it was undoubtedly a thunderbolt to give these two people a sunny day!
Yes, Liu Weixing's condition is not very optimistic.
In the days when they were sick until now, the two people came to the hospital like coming home, and Liu Weixing had deeply disliked the infusion device and those torturous potions!
Liu Weixing told Yan Weiwen:
"I don't want to be here, I want to go home."
Yan Weiwen first stabilized Liu Weixing's mood.
He used up all the relationships he could use around him, Yan Weiwen spent a lot of money to find someone from abroad to buy back special drugs, and Yan Weiwen hoped that Liu Weixing would not give up treatment.
Looking at her desperate husband, looking at her tired, white-haired husband, Liu Weixing received treatment again.
Yan Weiwen was treated with Liu Weixing, a companion who had been inseparable from the unit for a long time.
In 2003, the two men entered the attending doctor's office with a heavy heart.
The attending doctor easily told them:
"Your recovery is very good, this is the best I've seen so far, and the chances of recurrence in the future will be very small."
The two people were left with tears of excitement, if it were not for Yan Weiwen's love and companionship, perhaps they would not have died.
After this recovery, Liu Weixing has been following Yan Weiwen's side, no matter where Yan Weiwen goes, she will follow him and silently take care of him.
Being able to meet Yan Weiwen is a gift from heaven for Liu Weixing!
In 2008, Yan Weiwen's daughter Yan Jingjing and Li Hehe entered the palace of marriage.
When it comes to Yan Weiwen's son-in-law, his identity is very difficult.
Li Hehe's father was the son of former Foreign Minister Li Zhaoxing.
Li Hehe himself is also a highly educated returnee, and the combination of the two was introduced by Yan Weiwen's friend Tan Jing.
After the two people met, they had a special chat and soon entered the palace of marriage.
However, Yan Weiwen's approach was a bit surprising!
In 2010, Yan Jingjing gave birth to a baby girl, and Li Hehe did not know how to get it when she changed her daughter's diapers.
This is normal, and a new dad really doesn't know how to get it.
However, Yan Jingjing was angry:
"How did you get clumsy?" I can't do even this little thing."
The aggrieved Li Hehe did not dare to say a word.
However, Yan Weiwen helped Li Hehe speak at this time:
"Who didn't come little by little?" Hehe has worked very hard to take care of your mother and daughter, and you are still counting him here.
I didn't expect Yan Weiwen to love his son-in-law so much, and it is rumored that such things have happened a lot!
Now that Yan Weiwen and Liu Weixing, who are now in their 60s, are already the grandparents of their two children, it is time for them to enjoy the joy of heaven!
In Yan Weiwen's life, from a poor birth to a famous singer, he has indeed experienced too much!
Judging from his attitude of taking care of Liu Weixing, Yan Weiwen is indeed a very responsible person.
There is no doubt that such a responsible man can become a famous singer!
So far, he has accompanied his wife to fight cancer for more than 30 years, and has touched many anti-cancer families!
Yan Weiwen is a well-deserved good man.