preface:
The "woman's relationship" is actually not mysterious at all, it is scientifically reasonable.
How to mix well in the circle of girls, smart people have long mastered the ways and methods, but they never mention it, of course, they are afraid that you will steal the teacher to learn the art.
Envy the boys who are chased backwards by girls? Envious of the boys who succeed in pinching girls?
To be honest, as long as you don't let girls hate you, this is not far from success.
Today I will discuss with you how to do not let girls get bored with you, it is not a secret, learning is to earn yo.
The first is not to be a "preachy guy"!
Preaching is sometimes a form of showing off, like a peacock opening the screen. Show off your knowledge, experience, so-called experience, etc. to girls.
It is true that there are some problems that are harmless and harmless, but if you preach in trivial matters, you will only be rejected.
Sometimes trying to change a person, this starting point is wrong.
You talk in front of a girl, she faces you like her own parents and teachers, how can this make her feel good about you?
The second is not to be a "sticky guy"!
Maybe in the early stages, girls have a fresh feeling for you, and your clingy person is generous and loving in her eyes.
But in the later stage, she will avoid you, you suffer from loss and loss, lack of security, so that she has no private space, will feel great pressure on girls.
Excessive desire to integrate into the life of girls, like to pay and desire to get a certain return, extremely controlled, but extremely poor emotional control, and eventually lead to cold violence on the other side.
The third is not to be a "bar spirit"!
Many boys will make a mistake in front of girls -
He will refute the presence in every sentence you have and think in particular: You see if I am better than you haha.
My friend's ex is a bar spirit, that is, he will bar her with everything, even if I say that today's canteen dishes are fresh, he will bar.
Sometimes when we talked, she would say happily: It's good to be divided quickly...
epilogue:
In fact, no matter what you do, it is a "enlightenment" word, and only when you learn to think from the perspective of the other party can you achieve empathy.
If sincerity is a killer skill, then empathy is the killer.
The principle of not doing unto others what you do not want to do is applicable wherever it is used.