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Shakespeare said, "A man's life is short, but if he lives it in a despicable way, it is too long." ”
A hundred years of time, in a flash, fell again and again, got up again and again, can collapse, but after the collapse, you still have to try to live.
At the age of fifty, you need to start another way of living, understand the inside, and look confused.
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Don't look back, keep going.
In the cartoon "Spirited Away", there is a classic line: "A road can not be turned back, many things can not be controlled by themselves, even if you are lonely and lonely, you still have to continue to walk, do not stop and can not turn back." ”
Chihiro's parents, coveting a variety of things, mistakenly stumbled into a mysterious place and were turned into pigs. Chihiro meets the hateful Mother-in-law Yu and wants to take away her memories and make her work non-stop.
The White Dragon, who shares Chihiro's illness, goes to great lengths to help Chihiro escape.
They redeem each other, find their true selves together, and face endless dangers together. In the end, Chihiro leaves with her parents, but Hakuryu remains in the mysterious place. The moment of parting is both the end and the beginning.
Isn't a person's life the same as the scene in the cartoon? I have experienced many accidents, lived a lot of sour, sweet and bitter days, and fallen in love with many people and loved by many people. But in the second half of life, you will understand that everything is a passing cloud, whether you want to or not, you can't start again.
Looking back, you can find some fragments of your memories, but time doesn't come back. What's even more frightening is that rotten people and bad things will also accompany the memory and enter your new life.
People always have to move forward, even if they don't know what will happen, but we have to believe that it will get better and better.
I have read such a passage: "Life is like a book, some people rush to turn it over, some people read it seriously." Serious people understand that this book can only be read once. ”
Yesterday can not start again, then cherish today, the few lines of text that belong to today, learn to understand thoroughly, write down tomorrow's plan by the way, and find a reason to make yourself happier tomorrow.
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Don't be embarrassed, always be happy.
What is the meaning of this life? Maybe many people, after the age of fifty, will think hard.
There was a disciple who was very distressed every day. The master saw the situation and told a story: a passenger walked into the desert and was separated from the team.
Suddenly, he encountered a wolf, and in order to avoid the pursuit, he ran desperately, saw a well, and jumped into it without thinking.
Surprisingly, there was no water in the well, just poisonous insects. He jumped up and grabbed a small tree that was leaning against the wall of the well. Just when he couldn't hold on, he noticed a drop of dew on the leaf.
He stuck out his tongue and licked the dewdrops, feeling full of strength again. When the wolf left, he climbed out of the wellhead.
It turns out that the phrase "the way of heaven and earth" is true.
No matter how difficult life is, don't be discouraged, maybe at the next intersection, you can "peak and turn".
Understand that not all fifty-year-olds can live like they are rich, and there are a large number of people who are worried about their livelihood and have to look for work everywhere. There are also some people whose bodies are broken, but life is still pushing them forward.
The Ming Dynasty scholar Feng Menglong once said: "Those who become early may not succeed, and those who reach late may not reach it." You can't be young and self-righteous, you can't be old and give up on yourself. ”
Don't worry, take your time, there is still a chance to change your destiny in the second half. Your sunshine is your luck. When you smile at others and take the initiative to do good deeds and accumulate virtue, you will find that noble people are around.
Life is meant to be a journey. If your luck is not very good, then you are like the traveler who walked into the desert, spent decades of hard work, just to save yourself, although nothing, but you can breathe a sigh of relief and start again.
There are many theories about the origin of people. You should have heard the story of Nüwa who made people: she pinched a lot of clay people with her hands, and because of her exquisite appearance, she became a rich person; when Nuwa was very tired, she picked up willow tree strips and whipped mud with her hands, and the mud was ordinary people.
When Nuwa created people, she always smiled. Everyone was puzzled, and Nuwa said, "This person is a person, and the picture is to be happy." ”
I hope that you, knowing the original intention of being a human being, and living a life with a smile are our ultimate goals. If you have money, you can eat and drink well, and if you don't have money, you will be poor and happy.
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Don't be desperate, it's always been free.
Shaw Bernard said: "There are two tragedies in life: one is that all thoughts are gray, and the other is full of ambition. ”
"Yuncheng Daily" has a message: Bow Xiangting and Zhang Zhizhi, who live in the Haitian Flower Garden, are more than seventy years old. But they have not been idle, not traveling, just dancing, exercising. The sons and daughters were worried, but they cut first and played later, and made up their minds, and the ten cows could not be pulled back.
When going out, the old couple dressed up fashionably, satchels, sunscreen clothes, selfie sticks, everything is available.
The two old men said: "Retired, you can walk around, how is the life not beautiful?" ”
The first half of life has passed, and the most important thing in the second half of life is to be yourself. You may wish to learn from these two old people, come and go a few more trips, and have more hobbies of doing what you say.
Unfortunately, most people are giants in speech and dwarfs in action.
Fifty-year-old parents, children grow up, married. You are busy with your grandchildren, and you have to send your grandchildren to the school one by one, and you often get sick yourself.
There are also some people who, after retirement, are still running for their livelihoods. He is not short of money, but his children are still poor and need a little more strength to fight the world together.
What's even more frightening is that some people are still living for the sake of money. He has hundreds of thousands of dollars in savings, but he has a special sense of crisis, worried that he will spend money when he is sick, and hopes to leave a large amount of money for his children. Trying again and again, tossing yourself enough.
As the saying goes: "A strong twisted melon is not sweet." ”
Those things that are not enough are actually not suitable for you.
After the age of fifty, people should slow down their lives and chase the life they like.
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I like the saying, "If you want to build a ship, don't hire people to collect wood or assign tasks, but to stimulate their desire for the ocean." ”
Life has dreams, there is a road under your feet, as for where the end is, don't care. Every step of the moment is the happiness you have to grasp.
Fifty knows the Destiny. Since fate is like this, then go with the flow and do not hesitate.
Don't look back, there is hope ahead.
Don't be embarrassed, being alive is a blessing.
Don't fight, freedom is life.
Be a person with light in your heart, no matter how deep the night is, you will not get lost.
Author: Cloth coarse food.
Follow my words and go into your heart.
The illustrations in this article come from the Internet.