I always hear people talk about what kind of pits are encountered on the road to parenting, which involves all aspects of children's food, clothing, shelter and transportation. I've also been wondering what kind of pits I've encountered on my parenting path. How do you avoid the pit? But come to think of it, Daifuku did not eat milk powder, so I don't worry about what bad things the milk powder added, his various living needs, clothes, complementary foods, toys are also added on demand, there is nothing idle, in general, the things that need to spend money I don't seem to have stepped on any pit (haha mainly because I am too poor).
If you think about it, since Daifuku was born, everything that has made me worry, helpless, and angry seems to have come out of various men in our family.
(1) Daddy
Daifuku's father is a typical food-eating and careless lord, he always thinks that he has eaten well, played well, slept well, has extra time and energy, and then pays a little verbal attention to our mother and son, that is enough to fulfill the duties of a father and a husband, so if you want to count on him to help hold the child, then dream.
Of course, this cargo is not completely unaffected in the growth of Daifuku, he will also take action, but some of his behavior will make people want to tear him into several pieces in the present moment.
For example, when Daifuku was two months old, it was difficult to coax asleep for a while, sometimes coaxing three or four hours to finally fall asleep, Daifuku's father may be about to make a grand debut, he ran into the room to kiss Daifuku hard, woke up the baby, he ran out to play as soon as he slipped a cigarette, and then I had to coax another three or four hours from the beginning...
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For example, he helped to hug Dafu, usually the left hand took over to change the right hand, and then returned the baby to me, because he wanted to smoke, go to the toilet, call and play mobile phone...
For example, Daifuku's father would take Daifuku to watch TV, I didn't allow it, say a few words about him, he said that it was because Daifuku liked to watch, and said that TV was invented not for people to watch...
For example, Dafu's father said dirty words, I said don't take the child bad, he fought back and said that I would take his son into a coward with such a gentle word, and he had not yet found me to settle the account...
For example, he doesn't care about the child, I sometimes complain, he will say that everyone has a different personality, there is no way, he likes to go out and stay at home, and I like to take the child at home, not to mention who is called "mother's love is great"...
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(2) Grandpa
Grandpa Daifuku is particularly fond of Daifuku, but boys may be little boys no matter what age they are
Daifuku was only three days old, and at that time, Daifuku was too small and too soft, and we were even careful to hug each other. As a result, Grandpa Daifuku lifted Him up and shook him up under His armpits, and kept shouting "Jump one, jump one"
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Daifuku just had a full moon, Grandpa Daifuku wanted to hold him out to play, that time in the autumn, the wind was particularly strong, we were worried that Daifuku would be uncomfortable eating the wind and stomach would not let it, Daifuku Grandpa had to tell me every day about the story of Daifuku's father who traveled the country before the full moon
Dafu turned half a year old, Grandpa Dafu took the fried chicken bones to feed Dafu to eat, and said that there were good things to eat for his grandson first, and Dafu's aunt was so frightened that he hugged Dafu and hid all over the house
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(3) Grandfather Chapter
When I took Daifuku back to my mother's house, Daifuku was four months old, and he would begin to imitate, Daifuku's grandfather would stick out his tongue and make a grimace to tease the baby, and Daifuku would become sticking out his tongue and spitting out as soon as he learned it, and the little child could not understand the words, the more we said that he threw up harder
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No matter what Dafuku was crying for, maybe he was sleepy or maybe he was hungry, Grandpa Daifuku didn't care, as soon as he heard the sound, he immediately picked up Dafu and shook it hard and laughed hard, until the child was obedient and laughed, and then he would be particularly proud to tell me that there was no baby in the world that he couldn't laugh at
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Regarding the behavior of the men in the family, there are many things I can't remember, anyway, after thinking about it, I think it is quite funny and childish, but at the moment it is really a headache.
In fact, the main reason is that they have not brought much baby, Daifuku's father is like this, and Daifuku's grandfather and Daifuku's grandfather were also like this when they were young.
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Today's Labor Day, continue to take the baby, after all, labor is the most glorious!
I hope that some of you who read the article understand that someone loves, and do not encounter such a same paragraph.