ZHI QING GAN
Author—Xia Mo · Anchor - Yao Xiaoming
Music—your silhouette
To emotional originality
Do you believe in love at first sight? It is said that love at first sight takes only 0.3 seconds. In that instant, the spark of love shone brightly.
Many people think that love at first sight happens between handsome men and beautiful women, and some people think that the so-called love at first sight is nothing more than seeing the color, in fact, psychological research shows that this statement is inaccurate.
Love and sex are two completely different things, and the state of our brains is different when they happen.
Love at first sight is love, the activity of the foremand brain that controls emotions in the blink of an eye; the color of the eye is sexual desire, when you see each other, with sexual impulses, your back of the brain will be activated instantly.
I once encountered this situation, in the elevator met a girl, although she looks average, but at a certain moment, I look at her, her clean and clear eyes instantly make my heart beat faster and can not be forgotten for a long time.
I will look forward to meeting her again in the elevator for some time to come, and I will also hang out on every floor above my floor during my lunch break, just to see her again.
Until one day I met this girl again on the street, but she was walking on the road with a boy's arm and laughing, and although I saw this scene, although I was a little disappointed, I felt that an encounter could make me feel ripples in my heart, and at the same time make me have a lot of beautiful yearning, which is a good feeling.
I think there are many factors that produce love at first sight for a person, and there is a line in the movie "Do Not Disturb":
Love at first sight, not you look at me at first sight, or I see you at a glance. Not to see, but to taste, each other being attracted to each other's scents, captivated, smelling the same.
In fact, the initial attraction between men and women does not come from visible information such as appearance, conversation, taste, etc., but from the invisible breath emitted by the body, which is pheromone. Pheromones are invisible and ubiquitous chemical molecules, and each pheromone carries people's unique genetic information and various desire signals.
Many people will compare love at first sight with long-term love, you say that love at first sight is more real, and some people refute that it is obviously a sight to start. You say that long-term love is more real, but some people say that it is just a trade-off. So I don't think there's anything comparable between the two, because there's both truth and unreality.
Whether a relationship is real or not should not be measured in the form of feelings, but the investment of both parties in the relationship and the real feelings in the relationship.
Whether it is love at first sight or long-term love, how far can it go and how happy it can be, lies in how two people operate each other, and more importantly, it is inseparable from understanding and tolerance.
What is the best love? I think it should start with love at first sight and end with long-term love.
ZHIQINGGAN