Recently, Gu Ailing has aroused heated discussion.
She said on social platforms that she had rested for two days, but also ran 20 kilometers:
Our two days off was two days of lying at home, while the world champion's two days off was a 20-kilometer run.
How disciplined is Gu Ailing?
Many netizens occasionally met Gu Ailing running on the streets of Beijing.
Participating in the live broadcast is running:
There was a sandstorm weather and also insisted on running:
Attended the commendation meeting in the morning, attended the signing meeting in the afternoon, and did not forget to go out for a run in the evening:
Of course, for safety, Kotani did not travel alone, and her mother always rode a bicycle to accompany her.
Some netizens posted the picture of Gu Ailing running tired and leaning on her mother's arms.
When netizens were shouting cute, another video taken on the same day flowed out, and netizens suddenly realized:
It turns out that this is the truth!
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That night, Kotani and her mother were running in the streets.
Suddenly, a man came up and asked for a photo with Gu Ailing.
People familiar with Gu Ailing know that she has always been a girl with no shelf, and sometimes when she runs and meets passers-by and greets her, she will respond enthusiastically; when passers-by ask for a group photo during breaks, she will not refuse.
Therefore, when met with this man who asked for a group photo, Gu Ailing agreed.
She smiled at the camera with the other party, but what she did not expect was that the man was not satisfied enough after shooting, and suddenly took off the mask.
You know, now that the epidemic situation in Beijing is tense, although it is possible to not wear a mask in an open place outdoors, it is obvious that the distance between the two people has exceeded the normal social distance;
Gu Ailing, a national athlete, felt unwell and said that he wanted to leave;
But the man did not spare, quickly caught up with Gu Ailing, and even stretched out his hands to stop her.
The video was then interrupted, but we could see that the man's hands were almost touching Gu Ailing's body, which was already very inappropriate.
Afterwards, the man uploaded this video on his douyin, as well as a video with Gu Ailing, saying that he was too excited to meet the goddess.
Soon, the video sparked a huge controversy.
Netizens have said that this behavior is too bad!
There are also careful netizens who found that this scene and the scene of Gu Ailing leaning on her mother's arms happened on the same day.
After triggering the anger of netizens, the man quietly deleted the video and publicly apologized, saying that he did not intend to block it, but saw a car on the road to make Gu Ailing careful.
However, his apology netizens did not buy it.
The discerning man knew that his explanation was pale and feeble.
After reading this whole incident, I finally understood how important a person's upbringing is.
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How terrible is an uncultured person?
The more uncultured people are, the more they do not know how to respect others.
I remember that in February, Olympic champion Yang Shiwen returned from Tokyo, but she was "insulted" by passers-by at the airport.
At that time, many fans were waiting for Yang Shiwen to send flowers to her, and the atmosphere was very harmonious.
But then, suddenly, several men were standing by and saying:
"Come on, I'll shoot one too."
"Eh, laugh at one."
The tone is tinged with a hint of "banter" and "teasing".
Yang Shiwen ignored the men and left directly.
But then I heard the man behind him: "Who knows which stupid x is." ”
As a national athlete, it is really infuriating to suffer such humiliation.
Obviously, for them, Yang Shiwen is someone they don't know, but they have to go to the hustle and bustle, and they have to be quick to talk for a while.
Moreover, even if they are not athletes who win glory for their country, no ordinary person should be humiliated for no reason.
These people really lost their quality at home.
Uncultured people are always self-centered and never think about the feelings of others.
They tend to be selfish and presuppose everything on pleasing themselves.
A while ago, another woman had an argument with the ride-hailing driver and actually put her foot directly in the face of the front driver.
After the woman got into the car, she actually took off her shoes directly and stepped on the back of the seat barefoot.
After the driver saw such uncivilized behavior, he reminded the woman: "Are your feet clean?" ”
Unexpectedly, this question caused the woman's dissatisfaction, and the two argued.
The driver said that such behavior of the woman would affect the next passenger on the bus.
But the woman was very reasonable: I was a guest, and I could sit as much as I wanted.
Speaking of anger, the woman also threatened: "Don't think that I wear this today and think that I have no background, my family is running a hospital, black and white eat!" ”
Subsequently, the woman actually put her foot directly next to the driver and let the driver smell clean. After the driver pushed the woman's foot away with her hand, the woman accused the driver of "sexually harassing" her.
Of course, the driver is not afraid of the woman's slander, because all this has been photographed by the dashcam in the car.
What is right and what is wrong is in the hearts of the people.
Regardless of whether the woman really has a background in the family or not, this scene will only make people feel:
No matter how powerful you are, you are just an uncultured person.
The writer Liang Xiaosheng once said: "Cultivation is a cultivation rooted in the heart, a self-consciousness without reminders, freedom premised on restraint, and kindness for the sake of others." ”
The noble soul has never had anything to do with money and power, but with character.
A while ago, the scene of the Shanghai square cabin was also chilling.
An old man pointed at the foreign aid medical staff and angrily rebuked the other party:
"What do you think you came to Shanghai for?" It's for us, it's what it should be."
"I tell you, otherwise go back, we don't welcome you in Shanghai...."
This remark is really chilling.
In today's difficult time in Shanghai, medical elites from all over the world have come to support, not only heroes, but also warriors.
How did it get into the old man's mouth, but he became a "waiter".
Dale Carnegie writes in The Weakness of Human Nature:
"There is no cure for a man who thinks only of himself, he is an uncultured man, no matter what kind of education he has received."
These people, even if they are brightly dressed, are still extremely ugly inside.
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Mr. Cai Lan said:
"Raising this thing, people think that you have to come from a famous family to have, in fact, this is a kind of common sense, as long as you pay a little attention, you can learn, and it has nothing to do with your origin." 」
There was once a video that went viral all over the Internet.
Two workers who had just left work took the subway home, and they were afraid of staining their seats, so they sat on the spot;
But even sitting on the ground was afraid of soiling the floor, and the two eventually sat on their hard hats.
Kindness for the sake of others, always considering the thoughtfulness of others, is a person's best upbringing.
Once, Dong Qing interviewed Mr. Xu Yuanchong, a 96-year-old celebrity, on a show.
Because mr. Dong Qing was old and in a wheelchair, Dong Qing ignored his skirt and high heels and knelt down on one knee to interview the old man.
Cultured people often know how to think differently and know how to think for the sake of others.
Dong Qing's kneeling is not only to close the distance between him and Mr. Dong, but also to express his respect for Him.
This is not the first time that Dong Qing has "conducted an interview on his knees."
There was once an armed police soldier who was injured in the line of duty and disabled his legs, sitting in a wheelchair to accept an interview with Dong Qing, and Dong Qing also knelt down to complete the interview, avoiding giving people a feeling of "being on top".
Later, someone asked her why she should kneel to interview, and Dong Qing's answer was also very "high emotional intelligence": "I kneel to interview because it is not easy to squat in a skirt." ”
Educated people always make people feel like a spring breeze, and it is no accident that Dong Qing can have today's achievements.
Not long ago, the note of an old man in Shanghai was also on the hot search.
Because the old man wanted to eat tomatoes, he wrote a note to the volunteer in charge of procurement:
"Hello: Sorry not to transfer money can only pay cash. Be sure not to change. There is a plea: anything but leeks is acceptable, preferably a tomato (which has not been eaten for a long time). I'm very, very embarrassed to add to your troubles again (I'm ashamed of my own informality). Thank you! ”
In fact, it is just a very simple request, but the old man is humble in his words, afraid of causing trouble to others.
Compared with the old man in Shanghai who threw an egg without a word, and the old man who angrily rebuked foreign aid for medical care in the cabin, the old man's quality was engraved in his bones.
Those who respect others will certainly be respected by others.
Volunteers who received such a note are also happy to help the elderly, and ask everyone in the group for the first time, who has more tomatoes? After 10 minutes, there was a reflection in the group that some residents had half a box and could take it out and divide it.
On the same day, the tomato came to the hands of the old man.
I once heard a saying: "I thought that others respected me because I was excellent; later I understood that others respected me because others were excellent." ”
Star Wang Jiaer, after checking out of the isolated hotel, frightened the cleaning staff because the room was too clean, like no one had ever lived.
It turned out that Wang Jiaer personally cleaned the room before checking out, and also left a thank you note for the staff.
This scene made the hotel staff moved.
People with real high emotional intelligence have the thoughtfulness of not doing what they do not want to do to others, and they also know how to compare the kindness of the heart to the heart.
We are always more willing to associate with cultivated people than to those who do not know how to respect others.
Respect is the premise of all intimate relationships.
Respect is the mentality and words and deeds of the other party as having a higher status than oneself.
And a person's top cultivation is to maintain the respect of others at all times, whether the other party is poor or rich, young or old.
As one psychology blogger put it:
"I hope that everyone will no longer just regard respect as a shallow courtesy that we have learned in the past;
Rather, it is to truly understand its connotations, to use it as a code of conduct for dealing with one's relationship with others and the world, and as a solid belief in treating oneself and protecting oneself. ”
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