Everyone has a difficult scripture to read, and everyone has ash at the bottom of the pot. What you've encountered today, tomorrow he might encounter.
For example, two of my colleagues, one surnamed Zhang and one surnamed Liu. Colleague Zhang has a daughter who has not found her in-laws in her early thirties. He was afraid that someone would ask about his daughter's marriage.
But this Liu colleague, that pot is not hot to mention that one. He asked today, tomorrow, saying that the people were old girls, leftover women. Colleague Zhang listened, like eating twenty-five little mice and scratching his heart with one hundred claws.
The winds take turns. After a few years, Liu's colleague's daughter should also find her in-laws. But people are determined not to look for it, and they want to engage in celibacy. Colleague Liu was so angry that he couldn't do it, and he was even more worried than his colleague Zhang at that time. When you see people hiding and walking, you don't dare to visit relatives and friends, for fear that others will ask about your daughter's marriage.
Back, Colleague Zhang laughed at Colleague Liu.
You laugh at me, I laugh at you, and the other colleagues follow their jokes.
Why should it be like this, the children's affairs, especially the marriage affairs, the parents can't manage it, no one should look at the jokes of the family, and the affairs of the family will not be perfect and seamless.
How nice it would be if we could understand each other, care for each other, support each other and help each other.
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