After the Winter Olympics, there were many highly educated athletes who were completely on fire, the most familiar of which was the talented girl Gu Ailing, who was only 18 years old, but had unexpected talent and perseverance.
After watching Gu Ailing's growth experience and successful experience, many parents can't help but say with shame, why didn't they educate such a good child? There are also many parents who enviously say that they hope that their children can also become the next Gu Ailing.
In fact, if you want to educate Gu Ailing as an excellent model, or "Gu Ailing-style children", as long as parents learn to hang these three sentences on their lips, they can cultivate a bully, in fact, it is not as difficult as everyone imagines.
If you want to cultivate the next Gu Ailing, parents only need to put these three sentences on their lips, and it is not difficult to succeed
We all know that Gu Ailing is a proper bully in terms of learning, so what are the conditions for the success of the bully? First of all, you must have super learning ability. To be fair, when we were born, there wasn't much of a gap in intelligence.
The reason why our academic performance has such a big gap is that it is worse than our efforts the day after tomorrow. Many students do not know how to learn, and it is useless for parents to be in a hurry, but too much supervision will make students more bored with learning.
At this time, we should learn Gu Ailing's mother's way of educating Gu Ailing, and the first sentence that parents should learn is, "Learning is your own business." "As parents, we cannot interfere with anyone's learning and future life choices.
Even if it is his own children, Gu Ailing's mother graduated from Peking University when she was a child, but it does not require Gu Ailing to have a perfect high education like her mother. On the contrary, it means that Gu Ailing can choose to be an ordinary person.
But it is precisely because of this way of education of her mother that Gu Ailing understands that learning is her own business, and if she does not work hard, then others cannot interfere. Therefore, the path that Gu Ailing chose for herself was to be in line with her mother's academic qualifications.
In the end, we all know the ending, Gu Ailing was admitted to her mother's graduate school, that is, Stanford University in the United States. This is the result of individual efforts, but it is also necessary to presuppose the education of parents.
The second sentence parents need to learn is "you will always be the best". This sentence may seem to many people as a very old-fashioned way of encouraging, but it still has a positive impact on students' learning and a completely positive effect.
Gu Ailing once told a story that when she was a child, she only won the second place in the sports meeting, but her grandmother had been cheering her on the way, shouting that Gu Ailing was always the first place. This kind of encouraging education makes children feel that they are really the best.
After parents learn these three sentences, it is actually easy to cultivate successful academic bullies
The last sentence that parents often hang on their lips is "no one is perfect", because some students are very strong from an early age, and they are particularly worried that their academic performance is a little poor, or a little mistake will put a shadow on their family.
In fact, real life is not as serious as everyone thinks, and there is no perfect bully in the world. Any scholar also has distinct shortcomings and advantages, but they are still the people we envy the most.
Every child of school age should be told that they do not need to be the perfect person and there is no need to be comprehensive. Just do what you do best. In addition, it is to develop more of their hobbies and strengths and broaden their horizons.
We often only see Gu Ailing's current success, see her 18 years old to get the admission letter of the world's famous school in advance, but we don't know how many fields Gu Ailing's mother took her to try before this, let alone how many times she failed.
Even the school bully can't avoid failure, in the learning process, we may make a low-level mistake because of a momentary sloppiness, but this is not a shameful thing. On the contrary, it will allow us to learn a lesson next time and not make the same mistake.
As long as we have a normal attitude toward learning and facing other things, and a mindset of correcting mistakes when we know wrong, then the mistakes we make are meaningful. And learning itself is a journey to explore the unknown process, and no one is sure what to do next.
Finally, if every parent can grasp these three sentences and often hang on their lips. So if you want to cultivate the next generation of your family into a real bully, it is actually not so difficult. But sticking to it is not easy to do so, and you need to practice it continuously.
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