Recently, in Hangzhou, Zhejiang Province, such an interesting thing happened, a father inadvertently found that his son recently drilled into the room after school, just like a demon, and secretly used a lighter to bake a spoon in the room, this scene can frighten the father, because there are still many colorful pills placed near the spoon, every day can be vigorously pounded, the son's movements are also very strange, if it is just an ordinary pill, why use a lighter to bake?
The father immediately decided to kill his relatives and called the police: "Hey! 110? My son is on drugs! Come on. ”
The police who received the report immediately became alert and rushed to their home, so there was the next scene that made people can't help but be funny.
After the arrival of the police, checked the so-called "color pills", the result is very unexpected, this thing is the fire paint wax particles used in the fire paint seal, the police smiled and said to the father: "Don't worry about it now", and the father was obviously a little embarrassed, and said: "It turned out that I was out.".
The police first affirmed the father's anti-drug consciousness, righteousness and extermination of relatives, but the emergence of this type of problem, mainly because of the lack of communication between father and son, the son buried his head in his own, when the parents are not clear on the side, for the child is also heartbreaking.
Children at this age, will communicate with their peers more, for their parents will think that there is a generation gap, rarely to communicate, such accidents, but also not uncommon, lack of communication life is a withered life, parents and children communication is an emotional need is also the need for growth.
I often hear many parents complain: the current child is really very unusual, to reason with him well, but he does not think so, the reason is more than you, sometimes also regard our parents' words as meaningless nagging, in a word - annoying! Parents are annoyed by their children, and children are annoyed by their parents. In this way, it is strange that parents and children can sit down and communicate!
Learning to listen and allowing your child to lose his temper is the first step in communication. Listen quietly, look at the child quietly, do not interrupt him, listen attentively, and tell the child that he is cared for by us.
Responding sincerely, rather than perfunctory, truly expressing parents' feelings, only the communication of discipline will make children more distant from themselves.
Choose the right time to talk, and avoid hurting your child's self-esteem when there is a conflict.
Work together to find a way to solve the problem.
In fact, the main problem of the gap between many parents and children is mostly due to poor communication, parents are always a mirror of the child's growth, but also the child's first teacher, as a parent also need to do a good job for the child to take the lead, flat posture to understand the child, naturally the child will also understand.