There are many celebrity couples in the entertainment industry, but most of the enviable loves that were enviable at the time have gone to break after a few years.
Among the celebrity couples who are still together today, there are fewer and fewer who can be named.
But there is such a couple, they have known each other for 20 years, and the feelings are still like glue,
They are Guan Yue and Tong Dawei.
When many people hear the names of these two people, they will immediately think of Tong Dawei's face, and the impression of Guan Yue is vague.
Even Guan Yue herself admitted that after marriage, she was always introduced as "Mrs. Tong Dawei", and she could not even have her own name.
Few people know that when they met, Guan Yue and Tong Dawei were both nameless college students.
Even Guan Yue was still "halfway out of the house" and quit his job as a kindergarten teacher to be admitted to film school.
How did Guan Yue get on the road to acting? What are the bumps in her relationship with Tong Dawei?
In 1979, Guan Yue was born in Changchun, Jilin Province, and since she was a child, she has loved singing and acting, and has also filmed many commercial films.
But she had always regarded these as hobbies and never thought of making it a career.
After graduating from high school, Guan Yue did not go to college, but chose to work directly and work as a teacher in Changchun Key Primary School.
If Guan Yue's life follows this trajectory, she should now be one of many primary school teachers, living an ordinary and ordinary life.
However, her parents were not reconciled.
His parents always wanted Guan Yue to go to college to continue his studies, and Guan Yue later felt that going to college might be a good choice compared to working directly.
Guan Yue's friend heard about this and knew that Guan Yue especially liked acting, so he said to her: "Or you go to the film school!" ”
Unexpectedly, Guan Yue asked innocently: "Do you still need to learn to watch movies?" ”
Guan Yue's reaction made his friend cry and laugh, and after some explanation, Guan Yue finally understood,
Film school is a place to study acting and become an actor after graduation.
Guan Yue was very impressed, and told her family and other friends about her desire to enter the Beijing Film Academy.
After listening to it, a friend thought that Guan Yue was joking, and his tone was quite questioning:
"Just you? Can you still be admitted to the Beijing Film Academy? ”
Originally, Guan Yue's heart was also bottomless, but her friend's questioning made her instantly aroused the desire to win or lose.
She silently responded to this friend in her heart:
You think I can't get into the Beijing Film Academy, then I want to take one for you to see!
As a result, Guan Yue, who had been teaching in primary school for 2 years, resolutely quit his job and was admitted to the Beijing Film Academy without living up to expectations.
In 2000, Guan Yue stepped into Nortel's campus and became a freshman in the Acting Department.
At this time, Tong Dawei was a student of the Acting Department of the Shanghai Theater Academy.
One in Beijing and one in Shanghai, perhaps they never thought that people living in two different places would meet in 1 year.
At that time, Dong Xuan was Guan Yue's classmate, and the two who had a good relationship knew each other very well and often got together to chat.
Once, Dong Xuan saw a boy with small eyes on the inside page of a magazine.
Remembering that Guan Yue had always liked this type of man, he showed her the magazine: "You see if this person is the type you like!" ”
Guan Yue really felt that this boy was very handsome, so he paid attention to the name written in the magazine:
"Tong Dawei? Who is Tong Dawei? ”
This question could stop Dong Xuan, they didn't know who this person was or what he did.
In fact, Tong Dawei was just an ordinary opera student at that time, and without any works, naturally no one would know him.
I thought that this matter had just passed, and the two of them were not gags for a day or two,
However, it seems that fate is general, Guan Yue is destined to meet Tong Dawei.
In 2001, Tong Dawei came to Beijing to shoot a drama, and in his free time, he went to the Beijing Film Academy to find friends to play.
As soon as I entered the door, I heard the bell ringing at the end of class, and Nortel students came out of the classroom one after another.
In the distance, Tong Dawei saw a very beautiful-looking girl standing at the door of the teaching building, looking in his direction.
The girl was very beautiful, and Tong Da blushed a little when he saw it, and he fell in love at first sight.
After meeting his friend, Tong Dawei asked him about the girl's information and learned that the girl's name was Guan Yue.
Coincidentally, the friend was actually Guan Yue's teaching assistant for the drama they were rehearsing.
Tong Dawei thought to himself that he didn't have any works yet, nor was he famous, and Guan Yue noticed that he must have some interest in him.
Therefore, Tong Dawei began to look for opportunities to talk.
Guan Yue's rehearsals are on weekends, and every weekend, Tong Dawei borrows the name of a friend to watch Guan Yue rehearse.
Tong Dawei felt good about himself, but he didn't know that Guan Yue's impression of him in his heart was not very good.
In fact, Guan Yue had more than 400 degrees of myopia, and Tong Da fell in love at first sight at that time.
She just glanced in the direction of the doorway and didn't see him at all.
Later, during the rehearsal, she found a stranger coming, and she did not recognize that this was the Same Tong Dawei in the previous magazine.
Guan Yue played the role of an old lady in this drama, and at this time, many actions and positions were not discussed.
She did not want to show her appearance to strangers at this time, so she was very unhappy with Tong Dawei.
The other students in the rehearsal also felt uncomfortable with someone staring, and Guan Yue often got together and whispered complaints:
"Why doesn't this person leave?"
Nevertheless, after all, Tong Dawei is a friend of the teacher,
Even if they don't like it anymore, they dare not speak up, and they can only continue to rehearse hard.
Tong Dawei did not know about this matter, and he felt good about himself,
While watching the rehearsal of the girl he liked happily, he thought about how to talk to Guan Yue in his heart.
Later, he came up with a good idea, that is, to let his friends go to ask Guan Yue to come out and sing,
Teacher invitations can't always be without giving face, right?
Sure enough, Guan Yue came as he expected, and the two finally spoke.
After this, Tong Dawei often asked Guan Yue to come out to sing and eat,
Their relationship is also getting closer and closer, but Guan Yue still seems to regard him only as a friend.
Tong Dawei was not discouraged, so he has been pursuing for more than a year, Guan Yue only agreed to him, and the two fell in love.
In 2004, Guan Yue graduated from university, she did not choose to go out to shoot dramas, but stayed in Nortel as a teacher.
She has produced albums as a singer and a show host, but she has never made a film or television work.
At this time, Tong Dawei won the Golden Eagle Award for the audience's favorite actor in the TV series with the TV series "Jade Guanyin", and thus came to the fore.
Tong Dawei is getting hotter and hotter because of the TV series, while Guan Yue is mediocre,
The two gradually began to go different paths, and their love affair showed signs of cracks.
Because of their work, they always gather less and leave more,
It was hard to get a chance to meet and date, and they also had to hide from the paparazzi and Tong Dawei's fanatical fans.
To eat, you must book a private room, and when you watch a movie, you must go in one after the other.
They have created a state of no relationship in all major public occasions, which makes Guan Yue feel very tired.
At that time, Tong Dawei was mostly a female fan, and the staff often reminded him,
He is an idol actor, if the relationship is exposed, those fans will leave him, which will have a lot of impact on the career.
Tong Dawei did not want to live such a sneaky life, coupled with the fact that he already had a certain degree of popularity, the difference in identity and busy work made his attitude towards Guan Yue begin to change.
They began to quarrel often because of a little thing, and Guan Yue gradually realized that the man in front of him was no longer the person he had known before.
After another argument, Guan Yue said to Tong Dawei wearily, "Let's all be calm and calm." ”
A month after the two were separated, Guan Yue suddenly received a call from Tong Dawei, who proposed to break up with her.
Guan Yue was a little lost, their relationship had lasted for several years, but they didn't expect to usher in such a nihilistic end.
She lingered alone in the pain of a breakup for a month or two before she recognized this reality.
Guan Yue sorted out his mood and put all his energy into his work.
In 2007, Guan Yuejin group filmed the TV series "Detective Di Renjie Part III", and her friend Dong Xuan was also with her.
Almost all the people in this crew are Nortel's classmates, and they know that Guan Yue and Tong Dawei have broken up.
Everyone was full of hostility towards Tong Dawei while feeling sorry for Guan Yue, but Guan Yue acted like a person who had nothing to do.
Looking at Guan Yue, who pretended to be strong, Dong Xuan's heart was not comfortable, but she was not good at interfering in emotional problems.
Watching Guan Yue and Tong Dawei break up for half a year, during this period, they did not even send a phone call or a text message.
Naturally, she had never met before, and Guan Yue understood that she should completely let go.
One day, in between shooting, she and Dong Xuan chatted about the day, and she said with great emotion:
"Honey, I don't have any other thoughts right now, I just want to have a great love affair."
What she did not expect was that the day after she made her wish, she met Tong Dawei.
On this day, Dong Xuan suddenly received a call from Tong Dawei: "How are you shooting?" ”
Dong Xuan was a little puzzled, how did Tong Dawei suddenly care about their shooting status?
Tong Dawei then said: "Hengdian this kind of weather is not very suitable for filming, or I will send you some masks." ”
Dong Xuan did not react to what he was going to do, so he refused his "kindness", but Tong Dawei insisted on coming over to give them a mask.
Later, seeing that Dong Xuan had not understood, Tong Dawei had to take the initiative to showdown:
"I just want to go see Guan Yue and apologize or something..."
On the phone, Tong Dawei's tone was very sincere, and he asked Dong Xuan to help persuade Guan Yue.
Dong Xuan's heart softened, but she didn't know how to open her mouth when she hung up the phone.
She walked over to Guan Yue and carefully told her, "That, Tong Dawei said he was going to come and bring us a mask..."
Guan Yue rebuffed very simply: "I don't see him, my skin is very good, I don't need a mask." ”
Dong Xuan was a little embarrassed: "After all, I am still a friend, and people can't help but not see them when they come, right?" ”
Since his friends had said this, Guan Yue had to reluctantly meet with Tong Dawei.
After the meeting, Tong Dawei invited them to dinner together and said that Liang Jiahui was also there.
Liang Jiahui has always been Guan Yue's idol, and when he heard that he could eat with his idol, Guan Yue certainly had no reason to refuse.
What she didn't expect was that Tong Dawei actually said directly at the dinner table in front of everyone that he was going to marry him.
Of course, Guan Yue did not agree, they are still in a state of breaking up, how did they suddenly get involved in marriage?
After Liang Jiahui listened, he began to tell the story of him and his wife, saying how they had not experienced how difficult it was to get to where they are today.
Listening to Liang Jiahui's experience, Guan Yue lamented their happy love while secretly complaining about Tong Dawei in his heart, and actually found Liang Jiahui as a lobbyist.
Guan Yue still did not reply to him immediately, because she was also entangled.
There was no doubt that she still had him in her heart, but no one could guarantee that Tong Dawei would not be like before.
She asked her family and some friends, and they all disagreed with her marriage to Tong Dawei.
Guan Yue really couldn't help it, and went to ask Dong Xuan again, but she didn't expect Dong Xuan to support her marriage.
Dong Xuan thinks that Tong Dawei is a good man with responsibility, and she does not want Guan Yue to miss it again.
Guan Yue still hesitated: "Good horses don't eat grass." ”
Dong Xuan still had a firm attitude: "The prodigal son will not change his head!" ”
In the end, Guan Yue plucked up the courage to let go of all his worries and decided to spend this life with Tong Dawei.
On August 20, 2007, Guan Yue and Tong Dawei went to the Civil Affairs Bureau to register their marriage.
A year later, on April 17, 2008, they officially entered the wedding hall.
However, for the marriage of the two of them, the outside world is full of doubts and arguments.
Because for them, Tong Dawei is almost a household name star actor, and Guan Yue has not even heard of the name.
Many bad voices came to Guan Yue like a tidal wave:
"How did she get together with Tong Dawei?" "They don't deserve it at all" "This woman is hyping it up"...
Moreover, the public at that time did not know that they had registered their marriage in 2007.
Guan Yue found out that she was pregnant a few months after the marriage registration, which was in the eyes of unsuspecting people.
It became Guan Yue's "unmarried pregnancy" and used the child to "blackmail" Tong Dawei to marry him.
These remarks were almost about to crush Guan Yue, but thanks to Tong Dawei's support and encouragement, she survived that dark time.
However, after getting married, there is one thing that makes Guan Yue very happy, that is, the transformation of her husband Tong Dawei.
Not only did her previous concerns not appear, But Tong Dawei also seemed to have changed from a boy to a man overnight, becoming particularly responsible and responsible.
When Guan Yue was confined, Tong Dawei almost stopped all his work.
Gather around Guan Yue and take care of her in every way,
Even if Guan Yue occasionally lost his temper, he did not refute it, and followed her everywhere.
When Guan Yue was a little sullen because of the title of "Mrs. Tong Dawei",
In order to comfort her, Tong Dawei repeatedly bragged to others in public about how good he had a wife.
After having children, Guan Yue's focus is almost entirely on the family.
Until one day, she heard a friend's story while chatting with her friend.
This friend is a housewife at home like her, and when the child is in kindergarten, the teacher asks his parents what they do.
The boy immediately spoke of his father's profession, and then thought about it again and said:
"My mom didn't do anything, she just watched the kids at home."
This passage touched Guan Yue, who did not want to be treated as an idle person by her children, so she decided to return to work.
In 2012, Guan Yue starred as the heroine in the TV series "The Happy Life of 囧人" and served as the producer of the TV series.
Since then, she has filmed many film and television works in succession, and has also made guest appearances with her husband on many variety shows to enhance her exposure.
In 2015, Guan Yue and Tong Dawei appeared on the stage of the CCTV Spring Festival Gala together, performing the opening program "Four Generations Together in the Same House", which made the people of the whole country see her face.
In addition, in order to make herself look "worthy" of her husband in the eyes of the public, Guan Yue also did a lot of things to expand her depth.
In 2010, Guan Yue studied for an EMBA at Changsha Business School.
Two years later, she returned to Nortel to pursue an MFA Master of Fine Arts, which she successfully obtained in June 2015.
In addition to achieving good results in career and self-study, her and Tong Dawei's love has also been as happy as ten years.
Every year on birthdays, registration anniversaries and wedding anniversaries, they celebrate together,
From time to time, Tong Dawei will also create some small surprises for Guan Yue, which makes Guan Yue moved.
Not only that, Tong Dawei often publicly celebrates his wife's birthday on social platforms, announcing to the world how much he loves her.
Although Guan Yue does not often post dynamics on social platforms, she loves her husband no less than her husband.
In 2016, Guan Yue publicly announced her pregnancy and gave birth to a lovely son.
This is the 8th year of their marriage, and it is also the third child that Guan Yue gave birth to Tong Dawei.
Today, the two have known each other for 21 years, and it is also the 14th year of marriage.
Although there have been separate days in between, there have also been painful lives,
But in the end, they still worked hard and became a rare "model couple" in the entertainment industry, and also interpreted a sentence with actions:
Companionship is the longest confession of affection.