"Heaven and earth are leisurely passing by in a hurry, the tide rises and falls, and the grace and resentment of life and death are whiteheads, and several people can see through it." For people in the 1980s and 1990s, this song "Dashing Walk Around" that spread throughout the streets was simply too familiar.
Time passes, the years are like gold, and ye Qianwen, the jade girl of that year, has entered the threshold of 60 years old. Only then did I find that Ye Qianwen not only sang this song, but also perfectly interpreted this song with actions.
On April 24, 2022, the variety show "Sound and Endless" jointly recorded by Hunan Satellite TV and Hong Kong TVB was officially launched, and Ye Qianwen, who was full of silver hair, made a stunning appearance with a long red dress.
Still that familiar voice, still the steady singing Sally, or the free and focused Ye Qianwen.
01: Native family
On September 30, 1961, Ye Qianwen was born in Taiwan, looking at this beautiful female doll, the parents immediately decided to give all their love to this child.
This decision could not be said to be ahead of its time, and it should be known that the economic conditions of the Ye family were very good, and Ye Qianwen's mother was born as a serious big lady and had been living a life of pampering and pampering.
As their daughter grew up a little, her parents began to worry about education. Watching the children around them live like ascetics at school, the parents decided to take their daughters and leave for Canada.
In the ideas they instilled in their daughters, not only do they require serious reading, but the mother also hopes that her daughter can learn something other than books, such as the attitude of doing things.
When I first arrived in Canada, due to the language barrier, my mother took care of my daughter at home, my father found a job sweeping the floor, and the family was crammed into a small room, living a very hard life.
Since the big miss fell to this point, Ye Qianwen's mother has not cried, but after crying, she quickly perked up.
In "Lu Yu Has a Date", Ye Qianwen recalled that life, saying that at that time, the family of three had a very miserable life, but her parents were always optimistic and positive in front of her, and did not sigh and complain.
It is precisely because of this open-mindedness and freedom of her parents that it has affected Ye Qianwen's life.
Haruki Murakami once said that although it is very difficult at the moment, this experience may come to fruition in the future.
When faced with difficulties, we often feel that God is unfair to us. But I never thought that perhaps the current badness is the foreshadowing of the future flowers, and all the suffering will light up the future journey.
02: Focus on doing things
Ye Qianwen said that she was an extremely focused person.
In the mainland in the 1980s and 1990s, not long after the implementation of reform and opening up, Hong Kong songs, movies and TELEVISION dramas were introduced to the mainland in large quantities, which were deeply loved by young people.
In order to expand their careers, many actors will cross several crews at the same time, which is a very common phenomenon then and now.
But Ye Qianwen couldn't do it, she said that the things she promised others, even if she fought hard, she had to do a good job, otherwise she would feel uneasy.
Lu Yu teased her, is it not good to make more movies and make more money?
She laughed out loud and said honestly, my body doesn't allow it, I can sleep. Once she fell asleep on the floor, it was Zhou Runfa who carried her back.
This is probably also invisibly influenced by parents. From struggling in Canada to gradually improving economic conditions, it is up to parents to focus on their work without distraction.
Kazuo Inamori said: The quickest way to succeed is to stay focused on one thing.
Only by focusing on one thing for a long time can we wait for the flowers to blossom. Three days of fishing and two days of drying nets will inevitably lead to nothing.
At the 2022 Winter Olympics, 19-year-old Chinese player Gu Ailing was hailed as a talented girl. But who knows, Gu Ailing has begun to contact skiing at the age of 3, and officially learned freestyle skiing at the age of 8, which has today's dazzling results.
There has never been a genius in this world. The so-called genius is just the time spent by others playing games and brushing dramas to focus on doing what they like.
Ye Qianwen said that her every day is very rich and she will not be bored at all, because no matter what she does, she will devote herself to it with a focused and happy mood.
03: Open-minded
Among the three relationships that Ye Qianwen openly admitted, in addition to her current husband Lin Zixiang, there is also Fei Xiang.
After the relationship was stable, Fei Xiang took Ye Qianwen home to meet his mother, and it was this meeting that made him completely lose Ye Qianwen.
Fei Xiang's mother believes that Ye Qianwen's work is too public and does not meet the requirements of the Fei family's daughter-in-law.
Lu Yu asked Ye Qianwen, will you feel very depressed and sad that you are so good but denied on the spot?
Ye Qianwen smiled and said, no, if you don't like it, you don't like it, anyway, I'm still me, I won't change anything for this, for me, keeping happy is the most important thing.
Lu Yu continued to ask, if Lin Zixiang has problems with his feelings, what will you do?
Ye Qianwen thought for a moment and said, probably will bless it, even if there is really such a day, I will definitely bless him, and at the same time seriously live my own life.
For Ye Qianwen, her childhood experience did not have a hint of hardship, but she felt very happy.
Her parents are very loving, and in the most difficult days, they did not write sorrow on their faces, and they taught their daughters optimism and open-mindedness while teaching their knowledge to their daughters.
Turning to Ye Qianwen's Weibo, there are nostalgia for parents, gratitude for friends, and love for life.
When participating in the "Sound and Endless" program, Ye Qianwen did not deliberately cover up the wrinkles on her face, and even the silver hair was not treated, so she stood calmly on the stage, but she was still the star-studded and shining singer Ye Qianwen.
The poet Yeats wrote in his poem: "How many people have loved your short-lived figure, loved your beauty, with hypocrisy or truth, but one has loved the heart of your pilgrim, loved the marks of time on your mournful face." ”
Compared with Liu Xiaoqing's girlish face, many people may prefer Ye Qianwen's natural and vivid face.
Because of the truth, because of the concentration, because of open-mindedness, because of not being afraid of the passage of time, because the heart is always firm and gentle.
When the song "Blessings" was sung, many people who grew up listening to this song were excited in front of the screen.
It turned out that what was getting old was only her face, and Ye Qianwen had never changed.