In 2004, Dai Zhicheng proposed a divorce to Yang Lei, and Li Jindou persuaded Dai Zhicheng: "Yuan Yin is your master and aunt, you are two generations apart, you two are good, are you worthy of Hou Yaowen?" ”
Dai Zhicheng was like a demon, divorcing his wife for ten years and insisting on "taking in" Hou Yaowen's 20-year-old wife!
Born in Xi'an in 1963, Yang Lei is a drama actress.
In 1987, she and Guo Da performed the skit "In Front of the Delivery Room" on the CCTV Spring Festival Evening, which became a hit and became a permanent guest on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala.
One year, Dai Zhicheng and Jiang Kuncai were resting after rehearsal, when they suddenly heard a hearty laugh coming from the rehearsal room next door.
He looked over and found Yang Lei who was rehearsing, and Yang Lei was tall and handsome at that time.
Dai Zhicheng saw that Yang Lei did not have any shelf, and the more he thought about it, the more he liked it, so Dai Zhicheng moved his mind to pursue Yang Lei.
He began to rehearse with Yang Lei in the background, sending food and drink to Yang Lei, and two people who had a good feeling for each other quickly fell in love.
After being together, the two can be described as envious of others, although Dai Zhicheng looks like he can't talk about love.
But in the face of Yang Lei, it is a big basket of love words, always to Yang Lei's baby is long and the baby is short, which makes Yang Lei shy.
Not only that, in order to be with Dai Zhicheng, Yang Lei also moved to Beijing to live.
In 1997, the two registered for marriage, and after marriage, Dai Zhicheng and Yang Lei had a particularly good relationship, the two were together almost every day, and they lived near Hou Yaowen's home.
According to Yang Lei's words, their relationship is particularly good, she and Yuan Yin are particularly good girlfriends, that is, the most intimate secrets that can be said.
At that time, Yang Lei did not help Dai Zhicheng's career less, and was willing to become a housewife, and once gained a lot of weight.
For a while, Dai Zhicheng always liked to go out to socialize, and she didn't want to go.
Later, she heard that Dai Zhicheng and Yuan Yin had a scandal, and she thought in her heart that the relationship between the four people must be too good, which made the media misunderstand. They can't, after all, they are different from each other?
But soon, Dai Zhicheng and Yang Lei proposed a divorce.
Yang Lei couldn't believe it, so she called Teacher Li Jindou. Li Jindou said, rest assured, I will go to help say and say peace!
When Teacher Li Jindou came back, he told her, Sister, no, he has changed his mind.
At that moment, Yang Lei was still pretending to be strong, and she asked Dai Zhicheng, are you getting along with Yuan Yin? Dai Zhicheng did not admit it.
In this way, whenever Dai Zhicheng went home and took the key to open the door, Yang Lei was particularly afraid.
In the end, she found that if she continued like this, there would be problems, so she proposed a divorce.
According to the divorce agreement, Dai Zhicheng moved out of the home, and when he left, he moved everything that belonged to him, even the mop!
Looking at the empty house, Yang Lei completely broke out, she cried loudly, no matter how good the marriage could not withstand the seven-year itch.
After the divorce, Yang Lei ushered in the darkest time in her life. In the face of the sudden blow of divorce, Yang Lei also went out to work, staying at home all day to wash her face with tears. Later, because of excessive depression, Yang Lei's face was bruised with too many toxins, and her face became black into Song Xiaobao.
What was even more tragic was that just when she was about to come out of depression, the news came that Dai Zhicheng and Yuan Yin, the wife of her uncle Hou Yaowen, were married, which made her heart that was about to heal shattered again. It turned out that before the divorce, Dai Zhicheng "dug the foot of the wall" and fell in love with his uncle's wife.
After the divorce, Yang Lei was unable to work for a while, she could not sleep all night, even to the point of taking 4 sleeping pills every night, and later she did not dare to eat again, for fear of eating stupid for herself.
Then she thought of a way, that is, to drink red wine, drink half a bottle every night, drink the whole person dizzy, and then sleep for an hour or two, and suddenly sit up, and tears flowed again.
The one who is hurt in the relationship is always the one with deeper affection, and it took Yang Lei ten years to come out of this relationship.
She said: "Both people are definitely responsible for failing a marriage, and if you are strong enough, the other person can't hurt you." ”
Later, Yang Lei slowly walked out of that haze, but she was originally on a par with Cai Ming and Song Dandan, and her fame was not as good as that year, Yang Lei suddenly changed at the peak of her career, and when she wanted to come back, she had no place for her, which was a pity.
The news of Dai Zhicheng and Yuan Yin reached Hou Yaowen's ears, and he immediately rushed home from other places. Before he could ask a question, Yuan Yin filed for divorce from him, saying that she could get out of the house, provided that she had to take her daughter.
Hou Yaowen knew that his wife's heart was no longer here, and he did not want to make a storm of his own private affairs, and finally agreed to Yuan Yin's request.
With the passage of time, Yang Lei gradually shook hands with herself and made peace, and this failed marriage also made her pay a heavy price.
On the other hand, dai Zhicheng, although he and Yuan Yin did not have children belonging to them after marriage, Dai Zhicheng regarded Yuan Yin's daughter Yu Yu as if he were his own, and the family of three lived happily and moistly.
But their happy marriage is based on the pain of Yang Lei and Hou Yaowen, I don't know if the two will feel ashamed of others when talking about the past!
Facts have proved that no matter how pure love there is between men and women, no matter how beautiful love is, it cannot withstand long-term love!
It is precisely because it is invisible that some people love to die and live.
In addition, it also tells us that when you are willing to give everything for your other half, you must see clearly whether the other party is worth your efforts!
At the same time, when the other half of his life has various abnormalities, such as he frequently looks at his mobile phone, privacy of his own travel, or has the behavior of not returning at night, at this time, you must be vigilant about whether he is someone outside!
The vast sea of people, it is not easy to meet, only cherishing is the greatest respect for love!
