Marrying is not as simple as when you are in love, it is a ticket, or a ticket. The change between marrying the right person to a person may not be obvious, but marrying the wrong person brings devastating disasters.
Daughters who marry away are more like children whose parents have lost.
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Xiuying, 35, is a distantly married girl who has not been found since her parents were lost. After getting married, she became a female King Kong cast in concrete. Waiting for her in-laws, taking care of the children, earning money to support the family, all the burdens weighed on her breathlessly.
I wanted to live the life of a rich man by marrying someone close, but I fell into a deep pit dug by the middleman, and I fell deeper and deeper.
Xiuying is from Jiangxi, her husband is Korean, and the two have been married for 15 years. After marrying her husband, Xiuying never contacted her parents again, and she didn't even know if her parents were still alive.
When Xiuying was 19 years old, the middleman said to introduce her to an object, the other party was a Korean, named Xibu, tall and handsome, and the family was very rich.
Xibu is a well-to-do rich and handsome man, who has a factory at home, and has been busy with work for many years and has delayed lifelong events. If Xiuying is willing to marry Xibu and live in Korea, marry the wife of the factory director in the past, have endless glory and wealth, and live a hundred times stronger than in her hometown in Jiangxi.
The simple Xiuying believed that it was true, and after some weighing, he chose to gamble and marry South Korea.
Under the operation of the middleman, Xiuying successfully arrived in South Korea. When she arrived in South Korea, she learned that her husband, who was about to marry, was a disabled person with congenital language disorders.
In order to get a large introduction fee as soon as possible, the middleman exaggerated Siebu to the sky and bragged about the situation of Sib's family.
Xiuying, who was not deeply involved, quickly reassured herself and hurriedly completed the marriage procedures with Xibu and officially became a Korean daughter-in-law.
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In the first two years of marriage, Xiuying really lived well, never worrying about money, only doing what she could at home and learning Korean.
The mother-in-law leaves early and returns late every day, busy with the business of the "factory". Her husband stayed at home to accompany her to adapt to the new environment and cultivate the feelings of husband and wife. She also learned from her mother-in-law her husband's favorite breakfast, egg burritos.
In the blink of an eye, Xiuying has been in South Korea for more than two years, and the child is one and a half years old, and Xiuying knows that she has been deceived.
The husband's family is not as rich as the middleman said, and there is no factory at all. The mother-in-law is an employee of the persimmon processing factory, and every day she leaves early and returns late, and she goes to work in the factory in the town.
The mother-in-law knows what to do to keep Xiuying, so she endures it again and again, and it is difficult to maintain the illusion that the family is not short of money.
The birth of the grandson made the life that was not rich in the first place more difficult, and the mother-in-law confessed the real situation of the family to Xiuying. After knowing that she had been deceived, Xiuying thought about divorce countless times, in a foreign country, how should a woman survive alone with a child?
All kinds of practical problems forced her to bow her head to life, and in order to give her children a complete home, she continued to live with her husband. He took over the burden of supporting the family from his mother-in-law and became an employee of the persimmon processing plant.
With the birth of her second son and younger daughter, the burden on Xiuying's shoulders became heavier and heavier, and she was busy like a clockwork gyroscope every day. She offered to let her husband go out and find a lighter job to alleviate the family's financial crisis.
The husband said he was disabled and no factory would want him.
The two have been married for 15 years, and Sibu has not gone out to work a day, and he always refuses to go out to work on the grounds that he is disabled. He did not do housework, did not work, did not cook, obviously had sound limbs, but lived a useless waste, sitting and eating and waiting for death.
The husband is unreliable, the mother-in-law still forces Xiuying to keep giving birth to children, and the little daughter is born under the persecution of the mother-in-law.
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Xiuying gets up at 6 o'clock every morning to prepare breakfast for the family and wakes them up one by one. Before half past seven, the second son and the younger daughter should be sent to school, the brothers and sisters will always be the first to arrive at school, the second son said that his mother would go to work in the factory at eight o'clock every day, and if he did not send them to school earlier, his mother would be late for work.
Her husband did not want to go out to work, so Xiuying had to let him take care of the children at home, and the so-called care was only waiting for the children in the school bus parking place. Sibu can't cook, and after picking up the children, he gives them noodles to eat, temporarily relieves hunger, and waits for his wife to come back to make a meal and then eat together.
In the 15 years of living in Korea, Xiuying has learned a lot of Korean dishes, and the family loves to eat the meals she cooks.
Xiuying said that she especially liked to eat persimmons before she got married, and now she sees that persimmon heads are big. Her job was to pick persimmons, to deal with thousands of persimmons every day, tired of it, but there was no other way.
The eldest son went to school outside and would only return during the holidays. The second son and the younger daughter study at the primary school in the town, and every weekend, the brothers and sisters will accompany their mother to work in the orchard.
The second son is like a little adult, cutting fruit with his mother, and the younger daughter knows that her mother is afraid of heat, so she takes a small fan to help her mother cool down.
Xiuying was distressed by the sensible children and asked the second son why he did not go to play with the children. The second son always said that helping his mother work is also playing.
The family's three children are in school, and she is the only one who earns money, and she does not dare to rest, nor can she rest. Life is very hard, for the sake of the children, can only continue to insist.
Life is not satisfactory, she misses her parents in her hometown even more, she cries and says that she does not know what her hometown has become, and she does not know whether her mother is still alive.
If it weren't for the children, she would have divorced her husband a long time ago. She couldn't bear to let her children lose their mothers, and if she left, her children would miss their mothers every day, just like her.
Looking at the sensible children, Xiuying always comforts herself that everything will be fine when the children grow up...
Write at the end:
There is no so-called shortcut in life, and people who always want to take shortcuts eventually take a detour. Most of the people who take shortcuts in reality are self-defeating or invite unnecessary trouble.