There is a sentence in the "Wanghu Pavilion":
"Men by clothing, horses by saddles."
A person's external image is closely related to their own dress, and proper clothing will make people feel the spring breeze and be pleasant; sloppy dress will only lower their personal impression in the minds of others.
Once upon a time, everyone was pursuing food and clothing, and they didn't care about the problem of new and old clothes. It is even common for siblings in a family to take turns wearing a piece of clothing. However, now that the standard of living has gradually improved, I don't know where to come from and wear old clothes is to "recruit poverty" and "lose self-confidence", in fact, there is no basis at all, but nonsense.
Truly confident people, no matter what new and old clothes are worn on their bodies, can still walk and become a beautiful scenery. Instead of going downhill, you will make yourself more and more powerful.
Even if dressing up can improve their own image, it is not directly related to new and old clothes, but people who like to wear old clothes are more tasteful, not as others say, it is caused by lack of money.
To be precise, a person likes to wear other people's old clothes, not because he has no money, but because there are the following reasons.
1 Diligence and thrift are virtues, and we must not lose them at any time
As the saying goes: "Diligence and thrift to maintain the family, thrift to cultivate morality." ”
In fact, today's so-called old clothes are not tattered, rusty clothes, many are only worn once, or not worn clean clothes, most of them are not needed, it is better to give to others, so that the right clothes are worn on the right person, still sparkling.
People who like to wear old clothes have the virtue of thrift and thrift in their hearts, as long as they are suitable and appropriate old clothes, wearing themselves still shows confidence and charm.
Most importantly, it can save a sum of money to buy clothes, and can also maximize the role of these old clothes, which can be described as killing two birds with one stone.
The money saved can be used for family expenses, or it can be used to enrich their own expenses and make themselves better and better.
2 Because of trust, but also because of closeness
If it was a day when many people used to wear clothes, it was often caused by the low standard of living, but now it is not at all.
Some people now like to wear old clothes because the people who give them old clothes are either family, relatives or friends, or they exist in a trusting relationship. The other party sends old clothes, does not look down on, look down on who's meaning, completely because their clothes are only worn once or put for a long time, but the quality is good, feel that it is more suitable for friends to wear, is the recycling of resources, is a manifestation of the close relationship with each other.
In fact, because of mutual trust, so do not think about the new and old clothes, but feel that one of the other party's clothes on their own more fit, but also enhance the feelings of two people, not to mention the new and old clothes at all.
Therefore, some people like to wear old clothes, not because they don't have money, but depend on who gives them their clothes, if they are close to this person, they often not mind, but also as a good way to connect feelings.
3 Clothes fit and dress confidently
Some people from the bottom of their hearts do not count the new and old clothes, as long as it is suitable for themselves, dressed appropriately, and will not reject the old clothes from the heart, after all, these clothes are worn on their own, not only will not lower their own taste, but will be because of their reasonable collocation, let themselves wear self-confidence, far better than some people wearing new clothes.
As long as you have the temperament and self-confidence, you can attract attention by wearing appropriate clothes. Therefore, people who simply think about new and old clothes are actually a manifestation of inferiority in their hearts, and they have not figured out the real meaning that a piece of clothing brings to us.
We need to be clear about a truth, because a person has self-confidence to wear any clothes have spirit, not that you wear high-end clothes will make people look up, there is no real strength, just to pursue vain vanity, in fact, it is really stupid.
If you pursue external vanity too much, and ignore the inner fullness, then the people you meet are also a group of people who are vain and vain, will not make real friends, their existence is only to gain a temporary sense of superiority in the comparison, after all, the whole person does not have half a point of strength to take out, only left in the pursuit of external hypocrisy in the strange circle, let yourself fall deeper and deeper.
When a person's true inner abundance and sublimation, often do not deliberately pursue the external glitz, but more concerned about the inner feelings, after all, a new and old clothes is only a prop in life, more importantly, to live in the present, not to the amount of material, good or bad as the purpose of pursuit, but to achieve greater life value.
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