Why can't you find the right babysitter? Today I will talk to you about finding a babysitter.
For various factors such as work reasons, many families will now ask a nanny or sister-in-law to help with children after having children, and it is relatively common to ask for a nanny. But if you hire a babysitter, is it really worry-free?
In reality, if you can get a nanny who makes you happy, it is simply...!
Because most of the nannies you meet are like this: do not pay attention to hygiene, do not wash their hands after going to the toilet, cough and spit while stir-frying, superficially set behind their backs, respectful to the employer, but the employer is not at home and turns over the farmer to sing;
What's more, there are those who steal things, those who are tired of children crying and feeding sleeping pills, and those who beat children! Of course, there is something even more terrible, that is, to kill people! Just like the nanny arson case in Hangzhou, in order to cover up the theft, the nanny did not hesitate to set fire to the employer's mother and son!
Of course, this does not mean that the nanny is completely afraid to use, and it is also skillful to find a nanny.
First of all, you have to think about what kind of babysitter you want to hire? No matter how capable I think it is not as important as her character, first of all, don't listen to what she says a lot, and don't look at how professional her so-called certificate is. Do you know that now you can buy a health certificate for a few hundred dollars, and you can buy a monthly sister-in-law certificate for two thousand dollars. What can't be faked? Just like Mo Huanjing, the nanny of the Hangzhou arson case, he used to be addicted to gambling and had a lot of previous convictions, but he could still hide his past entry into the domestic market, which showed that the domestic market was mixed. Be sure to polish your eyes when looking for a babysitter!
If the first impression can be, try it for a few days, and the rules that should be established in these days should be established to lay the foundation for the future. If it is suitable, please be sure to take her to the hospital for a new examination!
If you have decided to hire a nanny for a long time and have already chosen a babysitter, then I will list some common problems with nannies I have used, as well as how to deal with them for your reference.
1, most of the nannies on the market, low level of education, low quality, many with children concept or their own old way. It's easy to get your child out of a bad mess. Even sometimes you say she is stubborn about anything.
Pick-up: Be sure to stand up to your principles, don't give in, you are the employer, your son, she must follow your method.
2. No hygiene!! This one is simply unbearable!
Countermeasures: It is intolerable not to pay attention to hygiene, what kind of disease is transmitted to the child? It is best to talk about the rules at the beginning of the interview. This is important. Usually try to let her cook and not taste the dishes, the meal is divided into meals, and the nanny has her own bowls and chopsticks to avoid cross-infection.
3. Love to take advantage of small things, almost all nannies are common diseases. Yes, it is understandable that nannies come out to work to make money. Usually in the case of full salary, all kinds of gifts are indispensable for the New Year's Festival, sometimes the family does not use, the clothes they do not wear, and the tobacco, alcohol and tea at home will be sent to the nanny. However, in this way, the nanny will also be habitually faulty, and then open her mouth to ask the employer for something. It is often said that the last employer was so kind to her, what she gave her, how much her salary rose, how easy it was to work....
The nanny likes to rely on the previous owner to suppress you, if you don't do what she does, it will appear that you are stingy, it seems that you have problems, in short, it is all your fault, anyway, you will never have her last owner to be good to her.
Pick-up: If you meet a nanny who can't stop talking about how good the previous owner is to her, you have to be careful, this is the legendary old fritter! Valuable things are best put away, have a number in mind, do not be too polite to the babysitter at the right time, and give him a little off the horse.
4. Of course, the most intolerable thing is the nanny who pretends to be the master. As soon as you enter the house, you will ask for equality with the owner, and even summon the employer or the employer's family, so that the nanny must not be used!
Originally, I spent money to ask someone to help, but I asked a grandfather. For this kind of person, hurry up and let her go!
5, love gossip and love comparison. Some nannies love to get together and chat when they have nothing to do. The child put it in the car, and did not care, and chatted with the nanny in the community. What they like to talk about the most is how much money your family gives? What did my family send me? Then the wishful little abacus in my heart began to fight. Light gossip, comparison is nothing, the most important thing is that she always exposes the privacy of your home and is not safe.
Countermeasures: The babysitter is here to work, not for the babysitter to talk. The best thing to do is to knock on the side to remind her that she doesn't like it, and try not to let her take the child out alone. If you still have no scruples, then I'm sorry. Please go, do not send.
6. Delicious lazy to do
This is the common disease of the nanny's sister-in-law, after all, even if you fire her, you have to calculate the money for her according to the day, anyway, be a monk for a day and hit the clock for a day.
Anyway, there is no life in the eyes, you don't say, you don't move; you say too much, she is not happy. Think about it, she was like this when you were at home, how good would you expect her to have children by herself?
Countermeasures: The rules that should be established must be established in advance, what should be done, what should not be done, and the ugly words are in front.
7. There are also some nannies, who manipulate right and wrong, stir up dissension, and provoke husband and wife relationships.
Countermeasures: Between husband and wife, family members should trust each other and not listen to the nanny's one-sided words. After all, they will lie for some of their own benefits, or to shirk their responsibilities.
8, child abuse this is the most unbearable behavior!
However, there are also many families, and the couple has to go to work and the family is left with the nanny and baby.
Countermeasures: Be sure to monitor. Because you never know what the babysitter will do to your baby. Don't think of human nature as too evil, and don't think of human nature as too good. After all, those nannies abuse the baby, beat the baby, communicate with each other how to drug the baby, drop the child and other incidents are exposed almost every day on the Internet. If you encounter abuse of your baby, you must solve it through legal means such as calling the police! If things are settled, there will be more Hangzhou nanny arson cases!