After returning to Taiwan from Shanghai before the Lunar New Year, the 42-year-old Ming Dao temporarily remained in Taiwan and lived in seclusion. In fact, these days Ming Dao has been spending time with his relatives, enjoying his son and enjoying family life. On a rare sunny day, Mingdao and his two-year-old son accompanied his elderly mother downstairs for a walk to breathe fresh air, in view of the current serious epidemic in Taiwan, the family had to wear masks outdoors. Not to mention, MingDao is really filial piety, accompanying his mother all the way, constantly chatting with his mother, and his two-year-old son is also filial piety, and also helps push his grandmother's wheelchair, three generations in the same house, the picture is warm.
Ming Dao has reached middle age, and there are also the burdens that most middle-aged people have to carry, some old, some small, but also work hard to earn money to support the family, becoming the pillar of the family. Today, Mingdao's work base camp is in the mainland, the family center is in Taiwan, and he can only travel back and forth between the two places, but unfortunately, because of the epidemic in the past two years, it is impossible to communicate frequently, although he has been trying to find a balance between work and family, he can only bow to reality. In order to work for the first two years, he has been living in the mainland for a long time, has not returned to Taiwan for two consecutive years with his family for the New Year, until 2022 he did not return to Taiwan, this time after returning, he saw that his elderly parents were not as healthy as before, and his heart was very unhappy, so he decided to leave more time to spend with his family.
Mingdao's family situation is more special, his parents are not in good health, and he has become an only son, so he can't rest assured of his parents. Mingdao's family is not well-off, his parents are ordinary people, before he became popular, the family relied on his mother to buy vegetables on the street to make a living, and his life was very poor, which also promoted Mingdao to work hard for his family and make a lot of money to improve the family environment. After MingDao became popular, he bought a house in Neihu with the money he earned to his parents and brother in Neihu, which can be said to be quite selfless to his family and gave everything he had.
In the past, Ming Dao worked outside the home, and the eldest brother helped to take care of his parents. Mingdao's eldest brother has become a family and has a son, but in January 2020, because he was saddled with huge debts, he took his wife and son to live lightly, causing tragedy, Mingdao became the only son in the family, and since then, his burden has become heavier and heavier, and his concern for his parents has become deeper and deeper. Ming Dao has been very contradictory in these two years, on the one hand, he wants to work hard to earn money and give his parents a better life, on the other hand, he can't give up his parents, especially his mother. Mingdao's mother is nearly 70 years old, suffering for most of her life, and should have enjoyed her old age in peace, but unfortunately, in 2017, because she was selling sweet potatoes on the street, she was accidentally injured by a truck, and since then she has been left with illness, inconvenient legs and feet, and has to rely on a wheelchair to walk. In 2020, the old man lost his eldest son and grandson overnight, and the pain can be imagined.
How to weigh work and family has become a choice problem in Mingdao's life, two years earlier he still chose to work, invited a caretaker at home to take care of his parents, and he and his wife gave birth to a son in 2020, so that his parents once again embraced their grandchildren, which is also a pacifying of the elderly, but even so it still makes him feel at ease. After returning to Taiwan in the 2022 Lunar New Year, Ming Dao made a decision to spend more time with his parents, he did not hesitate to push away the work he had received, including a movie with a good team, in addition, he was supposed to return to the mainland at the end of March to rehearse for the stage play, Ming Dao could only postpone it temporarily, and he could not leave his parents after all.
In the past few months, Mingdao has been running in Taipei with Neihu and Taichung - his father lives in Neihu, Mingdao's wife and children live in Taipei, and his mother is in Taichung, although it is a little troublesome, but being able to accompany his parents is not a distance. Ming Dao, who has been living in Taiwan for a long time, took advantage of the good weather to accompany his son to accompany his mother to the outdoors for a walk. On that day, he wore a mask and wore a red plaid shirt, which looked very low-key, but because of his thick eyebrows and big eyes, he was recognized at a glance, and there was a 2-year-old child next to Mingdao, who was obviously his son. Mingdao pushed his mother's wheelchair at first, chatting with his mother while walking, and then his 2-year-old son also wanted to help push, Mingdao let his son push, this picture seems ordinary, but it is also very warm.
As seen in the photo, Mingdao's mother is indeed not too good, and her mental condition is relatively general, only to see that her waist is tied with pads and wearing seat belts, in order to prevent her from falling off the wheelchair, it can be seen that her waist strength is not too good, and the need to sit in a wheelchair should also be because of the weakness of her feet. In fact, after being injured in 2017, Mingdao's mother did not recover too well and struggled to walk. In addition, Mingdao's father is not in good health, which is why he has to sacrifice his work to take care of his parents. Looking back, Ming Dao is very filial piety, he said that taking care of his parents is what he should do, he used to think that working hard to make his parents live well is enough, and now he understands that his parents also need companionship, which is difficult to replace with how much money.
PS: The pictures are all from the Internet