One
In 1990, at the age of 51, Li Shuangjiang decided to marry Mengge, a 27-year-old student.
Hearing the bad news, the mother tearfully took his hand: Son, are you old and confused? She's only 24 years old, so young, can you handle it?
Six years later, in 1996, the crystallization of Mengge and Li Shuangjiang was born, giving birth to a son, Li Tianyi.
It turns out that the mother is aging and worried.
What is not controlled, practice produces true knowledge.
Li Tianyi's birth proves, at least in some ways, that the love between them is real, that age has never been the chasm that prevents love, and that worldly prejudice is the culprit that destroys love.
The happiness of old men and young wives, who uses who knows.
For Li Shuangjiang, 57 years old to have a son, that is worth three firecrackers to celebrate in life.
As the son of a people's artist, Li Tianyi has shown amazing artistic talent since he was a child.
At the age of 4, he began to learn piano, and the famous teacher taught it by hand.
At the age of 8, he learned calligraphy and was taught by famous teachers.
At the age of 10, he joined the Chinese junior ice hockey team and often participated in domestic and foreign competitions.
In 2009, he was elected as the youngest member of the Haidian District Calligraphy Association.
He also often followed his parents on stage.
As long as there is no fork, the future must be starry, and it is sooner or later that blue is better than blue.
However, life is too smooth and not a good thing.
It is easy to cultivate pampering and arrogance, and the world is great, with him as the biggest. Because, he still does not understand that the rules of this world are a society based on the rule of law.
Humane society, partially effective, everyone is equal before the law.
In the early morning of September 6, 2011, Li Tianyi drove a modified BMW car, probably disgusted that the car in front of him was too slow, and in a fit of anger, he and his friends started to beat people.
As a result, the couple was beaten to the head and bleeding.
They also wishfully warned the masses not to call the police.
When you're done fighting, you're ready to escape.
At this time, Li Tianyi, who was only 15 years old, probably didn't know what it meant to run away from the monk and couldn't run the temple.
Naïve age, but strong, well developed, otherwise it would not be so fierce to beat people.
Because of this incident, Li Tianyi was taken into custody and disciplined for a year.
As the saying goes, parents don't discipline their children well, and sooner or later society will discipline them.
At that time, some scholars said that the punishment for Li Tianyi, who was a minor, was too severe.
To be harsh, it is indeed severe.
However, even with such a severe punishment, Li Shuangjiang and his wife's discipline of their son did not seem to have tightened.
In 2013, it was revealed again that Li Tianyi was shocked by the scandal, and it should be known that it was not long after the "containment" came out, and it began to be lawless again.
The seriousness of this time, "Immortal Father" can not be saved.
Due to his minorage, Li Tianyi was still sentenced to 10 years, which shows how bad the impact of the incident is.
However, with a pinch of the finger, Li Tianyi should be about to be released.
I don't know if Li Tianyi, after becoming an adult, can change his mind and change his face and become a person again.
After all, my father is also a lot older, and if I pit my father like this, my old man's body and mind can't stand it.
In contrast, Li Shuangjiang and his ex-wife's son, Li He, are much more low-key, and there is not even any news about him.
Ordinary life is good.
At least it will not be like Li Tianyi, such a "pit daddy", even foreign media are shocked.
Son, good education, may also be able to prevent aging, poor education, may pit the father and mother.
Li Shuangjiang's old friend, Yang Hongji, who is also a singer, once bluntly criticized Li Shuangjiang in the program:
His education of his children is a failure, unsuccessful, I feel that they have an unshirkable responsibility as parents, in fact, I talked to him about this after the child's first offense, but the couple did not think so, still go their own way, which led to the consequences of the later.
Li Shuangjiang's artistic achievements are recognized by the people of the whole country, but in educating children, he can be called a complete loser.
It is easy to be a successful singer, but it is much harder to be a successful father.
The Son does not teach the Father's fault, but if the Son kills the Son and blindly spoils his children, he will harm them.
Li Shuangjiang's failure in children's education is a clear example.
After their son was imprisoned, Li Shuangjiang and his wife deliberately changed his name, from Li Tianyi to Li Guanfeng, and Li Shuangjiang, who is now in his eighties, is still running, paving the way for his son's future.
But no matter how hard his parents tried, they still couldn't cover up Li Tianyi's bad deeds.
For Li Tianyi, the road ahead is still very difficult.
Dream back to 1990, 24-year-old Mengge, chose to marry 51-year-old Li Shuangjiang, I don't know if for this choice, there was a repentance.
Two
The young dream pigeon, married to an "old man" of the same age as his father, has been hotly discussed until now.
Ordinary people take it for granted that Dream Pigeon has chosen a shortcut in order to pursue career success.
So is this really the case?
Did Dream Pigeon really do that?
In 1966, Mengge was born in a family in one of the busiest streets in Shashi, Hubei Province.
His parents were ordinary workers, a total of four people in the family, although the small life was not rich, in that era, it was also a medium family level.
My mother liked to sing and won awards in the unit staff singing competition.
The dream pigeon is probably also influenced by its mother, and its talent is also good since childhood.
At the age of 8, he began to perform on stage often and was deeply liked by school teachers.
In 1979, the Shashi Cultural and Labor Troupe recruited students from all over the city due to the lack of singing actors, and the 13-year-old Dream Pigeon signed up and wanted to try it.
Only three people were recruited, and the dream pigeon broke through successfully with strength.
They are all 13-15 year old hairy children, the milk smell is not dry, but the dream pigeon behaves differently.
Spicy and lively, eyes dripping and turning, especially will come, very assertive.
Every time she goes on stage, she will dress up neatly, float beautifully, and try to be the "most beautiful girl" on the stage.
At the end of the performance, the costumes and props will also be arranged in an orderly manner, and there is no slackness at all.
When he first entered the literary troupe, Dream Pigeon only ran away from the dragon set, playing the role of one of the sisters in "Seven Fairies Sending Children", or some small book children.
Because of his tall stature, he often can't find a suitable boy to play.
Although he is not very old, dream pigeons have opened their minds very early.
Learning professional knowledge is very serious, and special attention is paid to the performance experience of old actors, learning from imitation.
Before the age of 17, Dream Pigeon grew rapidly in terms of professional ability.
Although the cultural troupe also clearly stipulates that actresses can only fall in love after the age of 24 and can only get married at the age of 26.
However, dream pigeon has played early love, boyfriend is a underwear factory worker, white and clean, very handsome, often pick up dream pigeon from work.
Four years have passed, and although the dream pigeon sings well, it is far from being able to become a pillar.
Coinciding with the spring breeze of reform and opening up blowing throughout the country, according to the usual practice, Mengge should be turned into a cadre, but at that time, the cultural and labor troupe no longer increased its staffing, and could only work as a contract worker.
Because of this, there was also an argument between Dream Pigeon and the regiment.
There is no grandfather in this place, but there is a place to stay in the grandfather.
The cultural and labor troupe could not continue, and Mengge chose to go to Beijing alone.
Originally, Mengge came to Beijing to see bronchial disease, and as a result, he reported to a social music academy.
This life experience of studying had a great impact on her life.
Life is not familiar, there is no one to rely on, a weak woman, alone outside, it is inevitable that there will be many difficulties.
Winter in Beijing is cold, and in order to keep warm, you need to wrap the water pipes in the yard with grass ropes.
After class at 6 or 7 o'clock in the evening, it is more than 8 o'clock when I get home, and I still have to cook and eat and wash dishes.
It's like when we first graduated.
There is nowhere to tell the crap.
Three
In the 1980s, Shougang Group had hundreds of thousands of employees, and often had the task of performing condolence performances at the grassroots level.
Shougang Art Troupe was only a section-level unit at that time, and ordinary members were still only workers, and there was still a lot of gap between the treatment of front-line steelmaking workers.
Therefore, it is not easy for Shougang Art Troupe to recruit people, and most of the people from Beijing science classes are disgusted with the treatment and are reluctant to come.
To this end, shougang art troupe had to select members from the society and some of the candidates who fell off the list.
Once, Mengge was singing in the song hall of the West Fourth Hall in Beijing, and was just discovered by a colleague in the troupe.
I think the sound of the dream pigeon is not bad, although the nasal sound is relatively heavy, but the rhythm and musical sense are not bad.
It was recommended to the troupe, and the leader felt that it was a good seedling, so he planned to recruit the Shougang Art Troupe.
However, Mengge's focus is on whether it can solve the problem of Beijing hukou.
Since the household registration card in Beijing was very strict at that time, the leaders of the regiment suggested that Mengge apply for the China Conservatory of Music and take the method of directional training to solve the hukou problem.
During this period, the tuition and miscellaneous fees are paid by Shougang, and the contract can be signed for 5 years after graduation.
In this way, Mengge found a job and solved the problem of Beijing hukou.
Four
Li Shuangjiang, who has divorced, is teaching at the China Conservatory of Music.
Nearly half a hundred years old, he has a good reputation in the student circle, amiable, approachable, and helpful.
There are Mongolian students who have no money to buy tickets to go home for the New Year, so Li Shuangjiang will give them a way out fee.
Such a good teacher is deeply loved by students.
One day, Li Shuangjiang's student Wei Jindong introduced Mengge to listen to his class and said that he had spoken very well.
Who would have thought that Wei Jindong's kindness was actually "sending sheep into the tiger's mouth."
The dream pigeon went, and that day, a room full of people, Li Shuangjiang, was listening to the students singing.
When they finished singing, Mengge stepped forward and said to Li Shuangjiang with admiration: Teacher Li, I will sing a song for you to hear.
Mengge sang a northeast folk song to Li Shuangjiang, and Li Shuangjiang "lost his face" after listening to it: "Your voice is so good!, why didn't you sing famous?" ”
Recognized by Li Shuangjiang's predecessors, Dream Pigeon was also full of tears.
After working hard for so many years, finally someone understands themselves.
After a long drought, the dream pigeon is like discovering a new continent.
Immediately said, "Teacher Li, if you think I'm okay, I'll have a chance to learn from you in the future." ”
At this time, Li Shuangjiang did not have any ideas about this girl, so he refused, probably on the grounds that "the sect of this sect does not pass on men to women." ”
This year, Li Shuangjiang is preparing for the Spring Festival Gala in 1988.
Just looking for an actor who sings Shandong folk songs to worship the New Year, I think that the voice, pitch rhythm and image of the dream pigeon are good, and it is indeed a very good soprano of the national singing method.
Therefore, this year, Mengge partnered with Wei Jindong and sang a song "Bai Da Nian", which was the first time that Mengge went to the Spring Festival Gala, and it was also the insightful talent of teacher Li Shuangjiang.
Five
In 1988, Dream Pigeon participated in the 3rd National Young Singers Television Grand Prix and reached the final, but did not achieve any ranking, only won an excellent award.
Next, Li Shuangjiang needs to lead the winners of the Youth Song Competition on a national tour.
During the tour, Li Shuangjiang's care and concern for Mengge made the two have feelings for each other, and their feelings also heated up rapidly.
It is undeniable that Mengge followed Li Shuangjiang and obtained a lot of resources.
At the Spring Festival Gala in 1989, Dream Pigeon took the stage again, this time singing the song "Happiness Song".
During this period, when studying at the China Conservatory of Music, the school found that Mengge often did not return at night, and later learned that she was in love with Li Shuangjiang, often exchanging skills until late at night.
For the school, falling in love is strictly forbidden, not to mention, at this time, Mengge and Shougang Art Troupe are in contract.
In order to curb the bad early love of students, Shougang proposed that education should be strengthened regarding dream pigeons.
Two years later, Mengge graduated and successfully came to Shougang Art Troupe.
As a person who has twice attended the Spring Festival Gala, Shougang Art Troupe also attaches great importance to dream pigeons.
An office was specially made for her, and the dormitory was also specially cared for for two people.
However, at this time, Mengge has long been unwilling to stay in the small Shougang Art Troupe, and the relationship with colleagues is also relatively strange.
"She has a very unique personality, thinks more about problems, is more detailed, and is different from the kind of students who have just graduated, and she can feel that she has some social experience in society, and she is more sleek and mature in the world." --This is the evaluation of Dream Pigeon by a colleague of Shougang.
The so-called back to the big tree to cool off, the dream pigeon's heart at this time is always yearning for Li Shuangjiang.
Six
Although Dream Pigeon was "forced" to enter the Shougang Art Troupe.
However, she does not sit in class, and when there is a performance, she goes, and if she does not perform, she does not come.
From time to time, I will find an opportunity to meet Li Shuangjiang and enjoy the beauty of love.
In 1989, Mengge and Li Shuangjiang went to Qingdao, and everyone climbed the mountain together.
A group of people walked in front, behind them in the temple.
When he climbed to the top of the mountain, Li Shuangjiang excitedly stretched out his hands and shouted at the blue sky: God testify, I want to marry a dream pigeon!
I just don't know how people who are 50 years old feel when they say this to a 23-year-old girl.
In 1990, Mengge graduated from the China Conservatory of Music.
As she grew up, she began to think about her own life, and in these days of north drift, Dream Pigeon deeply realized that it was not an easy task for a girl's family to base itself in this talented capital.
Maybe you want to have a dependency, maybe you want a ladder, or maybe you appreciate Li Shuangjiang's talent.
Mengge decided to marry Li Shuangjiang.
Although most people can't understand it, the people around them are supportive, after all, it was those people who encouraged them to be together.
When she learned that her daughter was going to marry a "teacher" who was more than half a hundred years old, Mengge's mother also beat her chest and did not want to agree.
At that time, Mengge's father was on his knees, trying to plead with the leaders of Shougang to coordinate with them and prevent their marriage.
The so-called female big girl, the dream pigeon with a single heart, voluntarily chose Li Shuangjiang.
On October 20, 1990, they had a grand wedding at the Friendship Hotel.
After marriage, Dream Pigeon was very happy. Actively work while taking care of the family.
In order to let the older husbands hold their sons early, they are also actively creating people.
Unfortunately, the first child died tragically.
Until 1996, they finally ushered in their love crystallization Li Tianyi.
Seven
In fact, it is not difficult to see that since getting to know Li Shuangjiang, Mengge's career improvement has indeed skyrocketed.
With the qualifications and singing skills of the dream pigeon, it has been sung from a small place in Hubei to the spring festival gala stage, which is a legend.
If there is no noble person's promotion, the dream pigeon may not climb so fast.
Dream Pigeon is not a front-line folk singer, but she has also been persistently active on the stage for more than 20 years.
She is also the first star to come out of the reform and opening up of Shashi.
However, every time she returned to her hometown, there was a lot of movement, but she neglected to contact the old colleagues of the former Shashi Cultural and Labor Troupe.
That experience was rarely mentioned by her, not even in the eyes of the common people, which was a summary of the artist's life, "Artistic Life", which hurt the heart of her shashi deceased.
If she completely relies on Li Shuangjiang's background, there are many people with backgrounds in folk singers, compared to Li Shuangjiang, which is not a big background.
In fact, the dream pigeon itself is a thousand-mile horse, and Li Shuangjiang is just the Bole in her life.
Mengge's enterprising spirit is so strong that he is too lax in his discipline of his son.
Harvest the mulberry elm, lose the east corner.
Whether her life is worth it in the end, after so many years of walking, only she herself understands it in her heart.