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Preface
"Don't you know who my dad is? If you dare to call the police, I'll kill you!"
Late one night in 2013, there was a roar of arrogance in a lively nightclub in Beijing's Xicheng district. 17-year-old Li Tianyi and four of his "buddies" committed a humiliating act of assault on a woman in the store.
When the victim girl cried and wanted to call the police, Li Tianyi waved his fist and threatened fiercely. Obviously, in the eyes of this fearless teenager, he has a prominent family background, so he can do whatever he wants, and he does not take the law and the rights of others into account.
Li Tianyi has violated the bottom line of the law many times
In fact, as early as two years ago, Li Tianyi was sentenced to custody and re-education for fighting others, but he had his grandmother's order not to be violated, and his parents Li Shuangjiang and Mengge have always been protective and blind to their son's willful and reckless behavior. Under such long-term doting, Li Tianyi gradually formed a kind of "prince's disease", thinking that he could be above the law.
This time, the Qiang Jian case undoubtedly violated the bottom line of the law. After several months of trial, in March 2014, the Xicheng Court in Beijing finally made a verdict: the defendant Li Tianyi was guilty of forcible punishment and sentenced to 10 years in prison. Faced with her son's sudden imprisonment, her mother Mengge was heartbroken. Many years later, when she recalled this past, she regretted it.
Dream pigeon's remorse
There is also a reason for the remorse of the dream pigeon. As a well-known soprano, she should have educated her child well, not connived at his depravity. What's more, her own growth path is also bumpy.
In the early 60s of the last century, Mengge was born in an ordinary family in Hubei. She aspired to be a singer since she was a child, but her family was too poor to support her dream. Fortunately, there is a considerate sister Liu Qingfeng who supports her unabated.
In order to buy a second-hand violin for his sister, Liu Qingfeng had to drop out of school at the age of 14 to work; In order for Mengge to go to the music school in Beijing, Liu Qingfeng tried his best.
In this way, under the careful cultivation of his sister, Mengge was finally admitted to the Beijing Social Music Academy with his extraordinary efforts and outstanding singing talent. After graduating, she soon joined the General Political Song and Dance Troupe and became a household name as a famous soprano singer.
In 1990, Mengge met his brother Li Shuangjiang, who had a higher status in this industry, and the relationship between the two teachers and students eventually developed into a relationship. Although the outside world has a lot of criticism about the 27-year-old age difference between the two, Dream Pigeon doesn't care. In 1996, she and Li Shuangjiang got married, and gave birth to their son Li Tianyi the following year.
Since then, Dream Pigeon has given countless loves to this little guy. She originally hoped that her son could be like herself, willing to bear hardships and stand hard work, inspirational, and display his talents on the road of music in the future. But in this process, she and her husband Li Shuangjiang actually made a big mistake that their godson had no way to dodge: doting, conniving, and not giving correct guidance.
Growing up in this important musical family since childhood, coupled with the unprincipled connivance of his parents, Li Tianyi gradually developed a bad problem of no one in his eyes. When he was very young, he was punished by the school many times for fighting; In middle school, he became the "ancestor" of the campus who couldn't afford to cause trouble.
However, it wasn't until the heinous Qiang Jian case that Dream Pigeon was violently awakened. When the court sentenced her son to 10 years in prison, years of connivance and lack of education finally crushed Mengge: crying and self-blame and remorse became the norm for her long years.
Repay my sister's kindness
In the years that followed, Dream Pigeon once fell into an unprecedented low point in his life. She no longer accepts any business activities, washes her face in tears all day long, and the persuasion of her family and friends cannot get her out of the haze completely. She felt that she was a failed mother, and her son's tragic experience was blamed on her doting and indulgence.
However, just when she was desperate, Mengge's strong heart was supported by the last force: that is, her love for her family, especially her admiration for her female sister Liu Qingfeng's family.
Over the years, Mengge has not only fulfilled his filial piety to his sister's family, but also took out a large part of his salary every month to subsidize the life of his sister's family, and also borne the tuition expenses of his sister's children all year round. She clearly remembers how poor Liu Qingfeng was when she embarked on the road of music in order to support herself, and even dropped out of school to work for this reason. Now it's her turn to repay her sister for her nurturing kindness.
Therefore, in a moment of despair, Mengge thought of his sister's family and realized that he still had an unshirkable obligation to fulfill. In this way, she finally made up her mind to get rid of the haze and pave the way for her son Li Tianyi who was released from prison.
We should think deeply
Due to the dual identity of an idol and a celebrity's child, Li Tianyi has been doted on and indulged since he was a child, and has developed a bad habit of empty-sightedness. Although their parents, Mengge and Li Shuangjiang, have made great achievements in their music careers, they have seriously neglected their duties in family education.
They gave their son too much privileged thinking, and neglected to guide their children with a correct outlook on life and values, which eventually created the tragedy of Li Tianyi's "prince's disease". It can be said that the experience of this family is also a microcosm of many celebrity families in society.
Some celebrity parents are busy with their careers all year round and neglect to discipline their children; Some are pampering and doting on their children. All these factors have led to the lack of basic common sense and social morality of these children, and they have gradually gone astray.
In addition to family education, this case has also triggered reflection on the education of young people in the mainland. As a 17-year-old boy, why is Li Tianyi so arrogant and morally degraded to such an extent?
Does it mean that there is some imbalance and deviation in the education of our young people? Should the penetration of rule of law education and humanistic literacy be increased in the classroom? These are all questions that we need to ponder.
Now that Li Tianyi has been released from prison, Mengge's family will also embark on a long road back to the right path. How the 57-year-old mother will help her stumbling son to stop making big mistakes is a huge challenge in itself. But judging from Mengge's filial piety and sense of responsibility to her relatives, she will go all out and never give up.
Once upon a time, Mengge also relied on his sister's spiritual support and material support to realize his dream little by little. Now, it is her turn to become the spiritual support and financial pillar of the family. Despite the difficulties, her love for her family and her deep remorse for her past mistakes will surely push her to do her best to get out of the trough of life and help her son and family to a new path in life.
epilogue
This family tragedy has taught everyone a lesson. Whether it is Li Tianyi, his parents, or every ordinary person, we should reflect: what kind of family education is correct? How can we educate the next generation? Are power and privilege a blessing or a curse? What should the value of life be built on?......
Only by drawing lessons from this incident and re-examining the problems that exist in families, schools, and society in instilling young people's outlook on life and values can we prevent such tragedies from happening again and allow more children to grow up healthy and happy.